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Bi Sexual v Bi Curious status

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have always known I was Bi curious but until I actually meet up with another guy I don’t know if it’s just a thought or if I would actually going to go through with anything and enjoy it.

I’ve been fortunate enough to have 2 great meets and can safely say I love wanking and sucking a guy of, I’ve even been complimented on my oral skills lol. I’m not really into kissing a guy, at the moment, but would love to go to the next level of fucking and being fucked.

My question is should I have Bi sexual or Bi curious as my sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi sexual, you have passed the curious stage . Xx

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Bisexual. I was curious until the first time I wanked a guy off. I don't like kissing men, but everything else is rather nice.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

If I’d wanked a few guys and given them oral sex, would I be straight curious?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Bisexual. I was curious until the first time I wanked a guy off. I don't like kissing men, but everything else is rather nice."

It’s interesting how few men want to snog another bloke - is it because it’s a bit too emotional where as the other stuff is definitely just sexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bisexual. I was curious until the first time I wanked a guy off. I don't like kissing men, but everything else is rather nice.

It’s interesting how few men want to snog another bloke - is it because it’s a bit too emotional where as the other stuff is definitely just sexual? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's very subjective op

I would class myself as bi curious as I have sexual relations with women but I don't think I'd have ever committed to a woman for the rest of my life.

For the purpose of fab I'm bisexual as I have 'passed the curious stage'

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By *harlie38Man
over a year ago

walsall

It’s interesting how few men want to snog another bloke - is it because it’s a bit too emotional where as the other stuff is definitely just sexual?

For me it's just sexual, I don't fancy guys but do love a nice big cock.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Your Bi sexual. You’ve gained your diploma. Let the bells rejoice and the choirs sing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all, guess I know now

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We prefer "bi-playful" as we don't feel same-sex emotional attachments, just enjoy same-sex intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't entertain kissing a guy, i just dont find them attractive. Ever so curious to try a cock in my bum though haha!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Describe yourself as you want. Bisexual or Bicurious. I kissed a guy once and liked it and then tried it another time and hated it.

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

I would class myself as Bi selective!! That’s because I only like guys with No chest / cock hair and fit bodies. I can’t say I fancy guys, but do enjoy kissing if they are clean shaven it add a bit more sexuality to a meet

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By *tormexexexMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Surely it's just a word that means nothing in long run. Plenty of guys who call themselves straight but still play with other guys. You can call yourself whatever you want tbh it doesn't define you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are past the curious bit, especially if you want to go further.

I was the same when I ventured down the bi path, but now consider my self very much bi rather than curious. I dont have an emotional drive to meet guys, its just sex, and something that i really enjoy.

Play safe and enjoy life.

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I was always 100% straight,,, then bi curious and now bisexual lol. I’m still selective about kissing guys though and rarely do that. The porn I watch these days is mostly tranny girls,, which are my absolute favourite!!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Thanks all, guess I know now "

Well you’ve got a cracking cock there - think it’s only right to share it with the lads enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry too much...just be open when people ask and you can't go wrong

You could easily be described as either imo.

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By *ryanythingonce7274Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm new to this but yeah I've sucked and swallowed and would go further but no kissing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always known I was Bi curious but until I actually meet up with another guy I don’t know if it’s just a thought or if I would actually going to go through with anything and enjoy it.

I’ve been fortunate enough to have 2 great meets and can safely say I love wanking and sucking a guy of, I’ve even been complimented on my oral skills lol. I’m not really into kissing a guy, at the moment, but would love to go to the next level of fucking and being fucked.

My question is should I have Bi sexual or Bi curious as my sexuality. "

Bizzare that you will not kiss a guy but you want a cock in you!

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By *bbyandethanCouple
over a year ago

Bury

I've fucked a guy and am still only curious, I think this is because I'm not into kissing guys and would never get into a relationship with one. I think full on bisexuality is the next level ^Ethan

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By *rAndMrsCurious12Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Love kissing a man as part of MM fun, very erotic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bizzare that you will not kiss a guy but you want a cock in you!"

Why is this "bizzare"??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bizzare that you will not kiss a guy but you want a cock in you!

Why is this "bizzare"??????"

Loads of bi guys love cock but won't kiss, a friend of mine used to say fucking and sucking was sexual and cool, kissing felt romantic to him and he just wasn't into it. Seems fairly common in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bizzare that you will not kiss a guy but you want a cock in you!

Why is this "bizzare"??????

Loads of bi guys love cock but won't kiss, a friend of mine used to say fucking and sucking was sexual and cool, kissing felt romantic to him and he just wasn't into it. Seems fairly common

in my experience."

I’ve never snogged a guy although I am willing to try. I don’t enjoy the feel of a man’s face as much as a woman’s but that might simply be I’m not accustomed to it. There are women I haven’t enjoyed kissing so it stands to reason that there maybe some men I won’t kiss. I’m also not fond of beards. I’ve never enjoyed the feeling in my own face of stubble so that may be another reason.

I can kiss a woman and not have romantic feelings so I don’t think that’s why I haven’t.

I think it’s psychological and left over from the time when I assumed I was straight. I will be trying it and seeing if I like it, when an opportunity presents itself.

I identify as bi or pansexual because I am sexually attracted to people regardless of their gender, although my predominant bias is towards cis-women.

I’ve never been romantically attracted to anyone that wasn’t a cis-woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided I was past the curious stage when I decided I found other genders than cis-women sexually attractive, rather than feeling I’ll try to see what it’s like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all, guess I know now

Well you’ve got a cracking cock there - think it’s only right to share it with the lads enjoy!! "

Why thank you, shame you’re so far away lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was always 100% straight,,, then bi curious and now bisexual lol. I’m still selective about kissing guys though and rarely do that. The porn I watch these days is mostly tranny girls,, which are my absolute favourite!! "

I’m with you 100%, definitely tranny porn for me followed by bi sex porn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you are past the curious bit, especially if you want to go further.

I was the same when I ventured down the bi path, but now consider my self very much bi rather than curious. I dont have an emotional drive to meet guys, its just sex, and something that i really enjoy.

Play safe and enjoy life."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more exp you get you will experiment with kissing ,anal and more xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The more exp you get you will experiment with kissing ,anal and more xx "

Thank you, that’s what I’m hoping for

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure it matters too much either way op, you have made clear that you aren't against the possibility of meeting up with guys. Just hats off to you for admitting to at least curiousity instead of being one of the fab straight brigade. Shows you are honest and opens you up to so many opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure it matters too much either way op, you have made clear that you aren't against the possibility of meeting up with guys. Just hats off to you for admitting to at least curiousity instead of being one of the fab straight brigade. Shows you are honest and opens you up to so many opportunities."

Thank you, I’m being honest to myself and also enjoying what I have done so far. There seems to be a world of opportunity out there for a bi guy, it’s just finding playmates to fulfill the fantasy’s

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

I have bi curious on my profile. I don't fancy men, wouldn't entertain kissing but have received and given oral a few times. I do fancy women and would play straight or orally no in a 3sum depending on what boundaries were set.

I guess I'm a little past the curious stage but wouldn't consider myself fully bisexual until I'd tried anal. Some will agree with this and some won't, that's fine but it suits me and that's all that matters.

I don't get hung up on labels, if it feels right at the time then I'll play along, I simply use the bicurious label to let prospective partners on here know when they look at my profile. I certainly wouldn't put straight on my profile just to try and get more meets, I think you have to be honest both for yourself and others.

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

I'm curious but have nkt yet gained my diploma doing anything, if anyone one wants to help me out espically a Kinky Dominant couple into bdsm were I was the sub then I can change my status to bi playful!?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

My opinion is.. if you would have a relationship with same sex then your bi sexual, if you just want to do certain things the bi curious!

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Just returning from a 24 hour ban for posting a link (I was trying to be helpful!).

The comments about kissing being more romantic struck a chord with me. I don't think I could get all relationshippy with a bloke (at the moment anyway) and the kissing thing has never worked for me. I like nice soft lips which are attached to a female to be honest. I'm not keen on stubbly scratchy faces and this comes from someone with a beard.

Also, the comments about seeing men as sexual fun tick the boxes too. A nice cock and some arse are just what I'm looking for. I wouldn't look at a bloke in the street and think yep, I fancy him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does Bi-Curious even mean? It’s not even a thing really is it.

It’s totally made up by Fab.

Being Bisexual means you’re romantically or sexually attracted to the same and opposite gender. Regardless of wether or not you have engaged in any sexual act.

I understand that Bi curious is an easy way of labelling yourself if you want to show you’ve never done anything with the same gender but you are interested in trying it.

But technically as soon as you realise the thought of doing something with the the opposite gender is something that turns you on then you would be bisexual.. where you fall on the bisexuality spectrum is another debate.

Just my opinion and I don’t think anybody should get too hung up on the labels anyway. Personally I’d prefer that the section on sexuality wasn’t required on the profiles. But I don’t think it’s correct to carry on with the label of ‘curious’ if you’ve tried it and liked it enough to want to do it again.

Don’t even get me started on ‘Orally Bi’

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By *eviationMan
over a year ago

Brynamman

Loads of us are reading this post

But not adding to it pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My opinion is.. if you would have a relationship with same sex then your bi sexual, if you just want to do certain things the bi curious!

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I wouldn’t have relationship with the same sex, I was curious to know what another mans cock felt like and could I suck one. Now that I have I find I love it

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am bi selective as well. I have kissed a few guys, few and far between, but those kisses seemed to come naturally to tell the truth. The majority of the men its just a wank and or suck session nothing more than man talk.. I have kissed and I dont want a cock anally.... 100% into women I only like to play with cock from time to time..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just returning from a 24 hour ban for posting a link (I was trying to be helpful!).

The comments about kissing being more romantic struck a chord with me. I don't think I could get all relationshippy with a bloke (at the moment anyway) and the kissing thing has never worked for me. I like nice soft lips which are attached to a female to be honest. I'm not keen on stubbly scratchy faces and this comes from someone with a beard.

Also, the comments about seeing men as sexual fun tick the boxes too. A nice cock and some arse are just what I'm looking for. I wouldn't look at a bloke in the street and think yep, I fancy him. "

I’m with you on this, when I see a nice cock I just want to play with it and suck it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am bi selective as well. I have kissed a few guys, few and far between, but those kisses seemed to come naturally to tell the truth. The majority of the men its just a wank and or suck session nothing more than man talk.. I have kissed and I dont want a cock anally.... 100% into women I only like to play with cock from time to time.. "

Loving the phrase bi selective

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies


"It’s interesting how few men want to snog another bloke - is it because it’s a bit too emotional where as the other stuff is definitely just sexual?

For me it's just sexual, I don't fancy guys but do love a nice big cock.

"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice couples here

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I like the term Hetexible -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your sexuality - your choice.

Personally I would go with bi-sexual - but I do think Fab need to have a few more choices.

Pansexual

Situational bi-sexual

Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself bi curious because Sometimes i meet with bi or bi curious couples for three way fun and it’s only oral with the hubby but do not meet single guys on there own, but mainly on here I meet st8 couples for fun

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m long past the curious and I only like meeting with bi sexual women not curious ... had some not so good experiences with women who were curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi sexual... fought it for many years like a fool.. a process of many emotions and deep seated fears and all that comes with it..now I relish it and enjoy that side of me that fits in with being human first and foremost..plus a very open and wonderful wife who supports me also helps hugely!

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

My status was set to bi-curious right up until i had my first meet with a guy. Then after that I immediately changed it to bisexual. I was curious so i tried it, i loved it and went back for more, so that settled it

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By *r_StockingtopsMan
over a year ago

Selby

For me I would class bi curious if you like cocks but won't go for the full emotional kissing thing - if you were fully bi you would do the whole 'girlfriend' experience, but it's tricky, perhaps there needs to be a category of 'likes cocks not lips'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m (mr) not gay or bi but since being on here Iv become curious but not attached to a men but if I’m the right situation were we meet a couple and if I slipped out of my wife and the other guy gabbed me and played or sucked me before putting it back in then I’m comfortable with that and maybe i might return the favour. But definitely not in to kissing or fucking a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m (mr) not gay or bi but since being on here Iv become curious but not attached to a men but if I’m the right situation were we meet a couple and if I slipped out of my wife and the other guy gabbed me and played or sucked me before putting it back in then I’m comfortable with that and maybe i might return the favour. But definitely not in to kissing or fucking a guy. "

Sucking your partners juices off a cock or vice versa is amazing for sure. Such a turn on. Or sucking a guy cock with his wife or your partner is also a major turn on too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m (mr) not gay or bi but since being on here Iv become curious but not attached to a men but if I’m the right situation were we meet a couple and if I slipped out of my wife and the other guy gabbed me and played or sucked me before putting it back in then I’m comfortable with that and maybe i might return the favour. But definitely not in to kissing or fucking a guy.

Sucking your partners juices off a cock or vice versa is amazing for sure. Such a turn on. Or sucking a guy cock with his wife or your partner is also a major turn on too"
i would do it but it would have feel right at the time and feel completely comfortable at the time the game on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Appreciate a good looking body if it’s a guy or women and in the heat of the moment anything can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Count us in..."
could be fun

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I say bi curious as I can enjoy male on male contact but could never see myself in a male male relationship. Just enjoy everyone being involved with no boundaries when playing as long as everyone is happy and very happy with no male contact as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bi sexual... fought it for many years like a fool.. a process of many emotions and deep seated fears and all that comes with it..now I relish it and enjoy that side of me that fits in with being human first and foremost..plus a very open and wonderful wife who supports me also helps hugely!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me I would class bi curious if you like cocks but won't go for the full emotional kissing thing - if you were fully bi you would do the whole 'girlfriend' experience, but it's tricky, perhaps there needs to be a category of 'likes cocks not lips'."

Love the thought of a “ likes cocks not lips” category

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m (mr) not gay or bi but since being on here Iv become curious but not attached to a men but if I’m the right situation were we meet a couple and if I slipped out of my wife and the other guy gabbed me and played or sucked me before putting it back in then I’m comfortable with that and maybe i might return the favour. But definitely not in to kissing or fucking a guy. "

One on my sexual bucket list to sock a ladies juices of a guys cock and put it back in for him mmmm

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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk area


"I am bi selective as well. I have kissed a few guys, few and far between, but those kisses seemed to come naturally to tell the truth. The majority of the men its just a wank and or suck session nothing more than man talk.. I have kissed and I dont want a cock anally.... 100% into women I only like to play with cock from time to time.. "

100% with this.

Rarely seek M2M encounters (but "the urge" does come up now and again).

Have no desire for anything anal, either way.....with either gender tbh.

When I'm lucky enough to play with a couple, if there's some bi play then it adds to the all round enjoyment.

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

I have bi-c on my profile, I've met a few bi couples and have no issue with a guy touching my junk... I won't meet single men and have no interest in penetrative sex with a guy but if im fucking your wife and you want to lick my balls im not going to run away crying.

You put on your profile what you feel you should put, fab isnt an achievement list you don't get points or rewards for reaching milestones (15 points to Gryffindor for performing the gay gangbang achievement)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bicurious is a no no for me, amateurs fumbling around. It's gay or experienced bi for me for a proper fuck. Hate it in the gay sauna when a bicurious is so inexperienced he cannot perform or gets hang ups.

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