FabSwingers.com forum: What was your first swinging experience?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Care to share? We are very keen to get involved and have talked about how it might go so many times, how was your first experience?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Went to a pub with some mates. Ended up on the end of a bench so got chatting to a couple. They invited me back.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple, they seemed ok. They joined us at a hotel and it soon became clear they'd had a row and she didn't want to be there. Awful!

Second time was better.

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By *aughtybynature73Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Talked about dogging for quite some time and one night just plucked up courage and we went for it. Went to a dogging spot and met a man who stepped out his car with stockings and short skirt on. Had fun together and tbh because our first time was such a good experience we never looked back x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That sounds like a nightmare! Least it didn’t put you off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talked about dogging for quite some time and one night just plucked up courage and we went for it. Went to a dogging spot and met a man who stepped out his car with stockings and short skirt on. Had fun together and tbh because our first time was such a good experience we never looked back x"

We’ve talked about trying dogging, it’s on the maybe list. Glad it was a good 1st

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

out in colchester and chatted this girl up, I invited myself back to hers, she said it was ok but her partner would be there as well, first threesome ever, got invited back a few times after, sex has never been vanila since.

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We met a couple for drinks and returned home to our flat. Sara and the female half of the couple started kissing and we all ended up in bed. Did not full swap but our first experience was amazing and have not looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it was same room with our own partners.. not really swinging and more like voyeurism but very erotic and enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For O was telling her I was into it and visiting chams she was as nervous as hell first time there but loved it second time...for me (J) was an older gf who hosted a party and things got exceedingly hot and steamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my ex wife and her soon to be ex husband, met through the local swingers site for a threesome.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Working over a long time with a lovely woman and getting to know her well..

Her and her hubby had always talked about her having fun on her own as he had some complications...but she never had the courage to try.

I originally joked saying I'm here if she fancied.....next time we worked together I recieved a text from hubby (yes I'd got know him) saying all was ok.

Saw her for over a year until I swapped jobs...., use fans to keep in touch and met a knew couple locally to me which is bonus....

Have to say, meeting couples this secure is very rare but priceless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have a couples profile with my wife. We were contaced by a couple & chatted on line & over the phone a few times. They came to ours one evening & we had a full swap. Great fun,or so I thought. Shortly after my wife decided swinging wasn't for her. I messsged the couple a few times over the next few months but they blocked me. So not a good start. Have met a few nice woman & couples since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now 50 but my first swinging was organised through an old contacts magazine. This young couple (a pair of teenagers) wanted a man to join them. We arranged to meet up at there flat in Southend. I was about 22 at the time . She has wanted to be fucked by 2 guys as part of her birthday and we spent the evening doing just that. We stopped at 3am and I kipped on there floor . Only problem was I had to start work at 8am in west London. So I got up about 6am absolutely knackered. I told my boss where I'd been last night ..... Just didnt tell him what I'd been doing. Must admit I played fully straight in those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was in my early 20's. In a nightclub, my then girlfriend wanted to dance, I didn't want to, so she went off and danced without me. I then watched her from the balcony as she danced with another guy and started to get off with him. My mind blown with excitement rather than jealousy I had to wait in our car while she took him back to out hotel room. Never looked back since and have loved adventurous broadminded girls who enjoy their sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working over a long time with a lovely woman and getting to know her well..

Her and her hubby had always talked about her having fun on her own as he had some complications...but she never had the courage to try.

I originally joked saying I'm here if she fancied.....next time we worked together I recieved a text from hubby (yes I'd got know him) saying all was ok.

Saw her for over a year until I swapped jobs...., use fans to keep in touch and met a knew couple locally to me which is bonus....

Have to say, meeting couples this secure is very rare but priceless.

Bloody hell.. was reading this and thought .."hang on this seems like ive heard b4"

How the hell r u

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Ours was amazing! We’d been talking to a couple for maybe a week and we’d decided on a social to meet each other. After another day or so the chat turned seriously hot so we thought, fuck this let’s just have a proper meet.

A couple hours at a pub drinking cocktails and laughing led us back to theirs where the fun really began. I’d never been with a woman before but always wanted to and that night I got fulfil that fantasy for the first time with a gorgeous blonde and a double ended dildo. Mr B was in his element lol. We all swapped around back and forth for hours! Very steamy, very hot and we’ve met up a few times since because we just couldn’t get enough!

Made our first experience such a great one

S xx

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

"Working over a long time with a lovely woman and getting to know her well..

Her and her hubby had always talked about her having fun on her own as he had some complications...but she never had the courage to try.

I originally joked saying I'm here if she fancied.....next time we worked together I recieved a text from hubby (yes I'd got know him) saying all was ok.

Saw her for over a year until I swapped jobs...., use fans to keep in touch and met a knew couple locally to me which is bonus....

Have to say, meeting couples this secure is very rare but priceless.

Bloody hell.. was reading this and thought .."hang on this seems like ive heard b4"

How the hell r u"

Well the thread was how did I or we get into swinging......exactly that.....hope your well x

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By *aughtybynature73Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

For us it was all about dogging many years ago. Now its prearranged meets. But every now and then we go dogging and have a amazing meet xx

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By *em163Man
over a year ago

manchester

Went to a swinging club i found on google near me when i became single again then i joined this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went out one night with a friend, we got tipsy, went back to hers and things started. No commitments, just fun. She introduced me to fab after

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

For him, had a few threesomes so it seemed the natural thing to do. For her, went to BGHS with an ex and had some fun. Soon after we got together we spoke about swinging and now enjoy some additional fun occasionally.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

A lady friend asked if I would escort her to a swingers club as she really wanted to visit one. We arranged a time and place but a couple of days before she had to cancel. I had never considered it before but was intrigued by all the research we had done so decided to go myself.

Had a great time and so many interesting conversations with some lovely people who I'm still friends with today. One of them introduced me to fab and 3 years later am still visiting clubs and meeting people. My lady friend still hasn't gotten round to visiting one yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is my first swinging experience:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/839564

Still remember it fondly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talked my girlfriend into visiting Pleasures in Kent about 18 months ago, she liked to watch lesbian porn but hadn't been with another girl at all. First nervous, d*unken time there we were literally dragged into a playroom by a sexy couple and the boys watched the best show I'd ever seen, before joining in the fun. Thanks Steve and Anna, if you read this please get in touch!

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