FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey Forum,

I've always been open and honest in messages and on my profile even when 90% of what I see isn't. However, I find myself struggling to find honest couples who are looking for a 3rd, 4th etc. Ideally I'd like to try bi mmf, mmff or group sessions but something seems to be drawn back.

I've tried clubs and found the majority of couples playing with couples. Understandable. Also I was a bit out of my depth obviously due to the inexperience. I was genuine and have had some experience but this site does seem hard work to nail down the actual meets and socials.

I'm sure you all have many experiences but if you are in a similar situation locally, (South West) then maybe it's not just me.

Maybe not the most interesting post, any advice would be grateful. Thank you in advance.

Shaun. X

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single men all over the country can find it difficult to get meets, it's not just you.

I appreciate the reply, yeah I know it's a mine field but I know there are men having success with singles and couples. So just wondering what the secret was. I'm guessing either model looks or a huge appendage.