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By *otwife for use OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

I was in a club, playing with my partner three other guys sat further along the bed watching no problem, then one decided to move straight over and reach for my boob. Whoa no to close, reply to close moves his hand stays put.

Reaction we get up move to a private room, show or possibly more stops for others.

Being horny doesn’t mean grabbing a stranger or does it

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater


"I was in a club, playing with my partner three other guys sat further along the bed watching no problem, then one decided to move straight over and reach for my boob. Whoa no to close, reply to close moves his hand stays put.

Reaction we get up move to a private room, show or possibly more stops for others.

Being horny doesn’t mean grabbing a stranger or does it "

Reading that hurt my head

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By *otwife for use OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I was in a club, playing with my partner three other guys sat further along the bed watching no problem, then one decided to move straight over and reach for my boob. Whoa no to close, reply to close moves his hand stays put.

Reaction we get up move to a private room, show or possibly more stops for others.

Being horny doesn’t mean grabbing a stranger or does it

Reading that hurt my head "

Paracetamol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual assault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report it to the staff. Im sure they'd sort it

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By *otwife for use OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Not the asking their staff to sort it, totally unacceptable behaviour if you’re cock gets hard. Not the first time it’s happened, doubtful it will be the last in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Wanking Dead are a persistent problem in clubs. The better management teams will ask them to leave or ban them. You should always say something, especially if there’s more than one willing to do so.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

If you don't let the staff know, even if it's a bit later on, they may be well be unaware and therefore unable to stop it happening in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't let the staff know, even if it's a bit later on, they may be well be unaware and therefore unable to stop it happening in the future."

I agree... if you ever feel uncomfortable or someone touches you without your permission report these idiots.

Me personally I do not allow it from anyone. If I don't invite you then keep your hands to yourself......

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

With regards to club etiquette about unsolicited touching....I remember once seeing a couple in a club...all three of us were in the hot tub and the couple seemed reticent at first. I started chatting to them a bit and then all of a sudden the pair of them moved a lot closer to me and the man started offering oral sex to the woman. They were within touching distance from me but I never had the time to do anything because they decided to walk away due to a pair of guys getting in as well and being a bit ‘jack the lads’....so if I had touched the woman’s hand while she was almost by my side, would that still have been unsolicited? It’s a genuine question by the way and I’m sorry for the long story.

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By *otwife for use OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"With regards to club etiquette about unsolicited touching....I remember once seeing a couple in a club...all three of us were in the hot tub and the couple seemed reticent at first. I started chatting to them a bit and then all of a sudden the pair of them moved a lot closer to me and the man started offering oral sex to the woman. They were within touching distance from me but I never had the time to do anything because they decided to walk away due to a pair of guys getting in as well and being a bit ‘jack the lads’....so if I had touched the woman’s hand while she was almost by my side, would that still have been unsolicited? It’s a genuine question by the way and I’m sorry for the long story."

Common sense approach speak to them about it’s a yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is a two way thing and the amount of people in clubs who don’t talk is ridiculous all the serious looking people who are supposed to be having fun, if we were in a room and guys were watching and we didn’t want to play with them we’d just say early on, rather than making it awkward, of course people should never touch without permission.

The “walking zombies” phrase is thrown at guys fairly regularly on here, but it’s equal applicable to couples in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Wanking Dead are a persistent problem in clubs. The better management teams will ask them to leave or ban them. You should always say something, especially if there’s more than one willing to do so."

The same should apply to single ladies & couples, but rarely does

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Go to Cupid’s and enjoy the couples only room. Guys can watch from outside.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

The reason I asked is because on a visit of mine in Gran Canaria, I went to a German club and I moved on to the jacuzzi where a single woman and an MF couple were. So, with my finger I gently touched one of the women’s hands and.....long story short, we all ended up in one of the open play rooms. Also, while there, I started being touched by another woman (partnered) while she was being pleasured by her man (I had also briefly tried to chat them up in the bar before) and I gladly reciprocated.

So, while I’m perfectly willing to conform to the rule of no touching unless I have asked and received permission, I’m sincerely wondering, does touching etiquette have to do with different national backgrounds of swingers or were my experiences a particular one-off? Or are people ok with being touched by someone with whom they had a pleasant chat before? Again, I know what you said about common sense approach but I’m also confused and I would appreciate people’s insights on this x

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By *otwife for use OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"The reason I asked is because on a visit of mine in Gran Canaria, I went to a German club and I moved on to the jacuzzi where a single woman and an MF couple were. So, with my finger I gently touched one of the women’s hands and.....long story short, we all ended up in one of the open play rooms. Also, while there, I started being touched by another woman (partnered) while she was being pleasured by her man (I had also briefly tried to chat them up in the bar before) and I gladly reciprocated.

So, while I’m perfectly willing to conform to the rule of no touching unless I have asked and received permission, I’m sincerely wondering, does touching etiquette have to do with different national backgrounds of swingers or were my experiences a particular one-off? Or are people ok with being touched by someone with whom they had a pleasant chat before? Again, I know what you said about common sense approach but I’m also confused and I would appreciate people’s insights on this x"

Sounds like you was invited to the play room ?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"The reason I asked is because on a visit of mine in Gran Canaria, I went to a German club and I moved on to the jacuzzi where a single woman and an MF couple were. So, with my finger I gently touched one of the women’s hands and.....long story short, we all ended up in one of the open play rooms. Also, while there, I started being touched by another woman (partnered) while she was being pleasured by her man (I had also briefly tried to chat them up in the bar before) and I gladly reciprocated.

So, while I’m perfectly willing to conform to the rule of no touching unless I have asked and received permission, I’m sincerely wondering, does touching etiquette have to do with different national backgrounds of swingers or were my experiences a particular one-off? Or are people ok with being touched by someone with whom they had a pleasant chat before? Again, I know what you said about common sense approach but I’m also confused and I would appreciate people’s insights on this x

Sounds like you was invited to the play room ?"

Well, i certainly wasn’t pushed away

That’s why I was genuinely wondering whether the whole ‘no touching without explicitly asking’ is just in British clubs or whether people kind of are ok with being touched somewhere “innocent”, by someone with whom they have previously chatted and broken the ice etc x

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