FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden Profiles

By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Why in God's name hide your profile? friends list, I can understand, but your whole profile? I thought the object of this place was to meet people by advertising yourself, not join and then hide away.

I have seen this on some womens profiles, but it seems to be spreading to couples now and dare I say, even some guys! Just what are these people after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are refering to ppl who opt out of all searches ie hide there profile, we have always thought that this is because they are taking a break .

sorry dont no more

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with both above. Ppl also hide profiles if the have had problems with other members or are thinking of leaving. Its a good way of reading forums and stuff without being hassled with messages. And some ppl are not on here to do sex meets. Some are only looking for social group meets, cam fun, phone fun or just chat. Everyone is looking for something differenet. X

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

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well said HPC its exactly that!!! Still overloaded with messages despite having "NOT MEETING AT THE MOMENT" its tiresome, so hence mt profile is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and my single profile is hidden cos i dont play as a single lady anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

well said HPC its exactly that!!! Still overloaded with messages despite having "NOT MEETING AT THE MOMENT" its tiresome, so hence mt profile is hidden

You've only hidden it so we can't find you and thrash your arse,Footy Girl!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

well said HPC its exactly that!!! Still overloaded with messages despite having "NOT MEETING AT THE MOMENT" its tiresome, so hence mt profile is hidden

You've only hidden it so we can't find you and thrash your arse,Footy Girl!

XXXX"
now what makes you think i dont like my ass thrashed you two??? huh? huh???? lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my profile is hidden because if I am not active then my profile isnt either.

It stops the influx of mail and as has been mentioned, putting 'Not meeting at the moment' on your profile just gets ignored anyway.

This way I get peace to come on and talk to friends and use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

well said HPC its exactly that!!! Still overloaded with messages despite having "NOT MEETING AT THE MOMENT" its tiresome, so hence mt profile is hidden

You've only hidden it so we can't find you and thrash your arse,Footy Girl!

XXXXnow what makes you think i dont like my ass thrashed you two??? huh? huh???? lol xxxxx

Well the fact that you'll like it means we aren't gonna do it then.

That shows just just how sadistic we can be.

XXXX

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

well said HPC its exactly that!!! Still overloaded with messages despite having "NOT MEETING AT THE MOMENT" its tiresome, so hence mt profile is hidden

You've only hidden it so we can't find you and thrash your arse,Footy Girl!

XXXXnow what makes you think i dont like my ass thrashed you two??? huh? huh???? lol xxxxx

Well the fact that you'll like it means we aren't gonna do it then.

That shows just just how sadistic we can be.

XXXX"
who is the one with the whip in her hand????? eh? lmao xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're taking a break from meeting but are on here just to keep in touch with friends

its easier to hide your profile than write that you're not meeting on it as lots don't take any notice anyway

It also means you can come on here and not be hassled by people who see you online and then message you when you don't really want them to.........late at night is very normal for that

well said HPC its exactly that!!! Still overloaded with messages despite having "NOT MEETING AT THE MOMENT" its tiresome, so hence mt profile is hidden

You've only hidden it so we can't find you and thrash your arse,Footy Girl!

XXXXnow what makes you think i dont like my ass thrashed you two??? huh? huh???? lol xxxxx

Well the fact that you'll like it means we aren't gonna do it then.

That shows just just how sadistic we can be.

XXXXwho is the one with the whip in her hand????? eh? lmao xxxxx

A whip in the hand is worth two in the bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were in contact with a regular guy, who hid his profile because he was happy with the contacts/friends he already had. He restricted his play to us little lot. He was happy and this worked for him, so this may be another reason that other people hide their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine sometimes as I am not proactively looking for meets, I prefer to meet via socials.

Plus not everyone on here looing just for fun, alas some mischief makers and having experienced some crap at times, I take time out every so often.

plus the button was put there for that exact reason. altho I prefer to call it a ' taking a wee break ' button as I have nowt to fecking hide ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looking not looing... I may be bi but I dinna do looing...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Same as some of the others, I hide mine if Im not going to be meeting for a while - saves wastings pples time for them to message me and me just reply sorry Im not meeting.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Why worry? Look at profiles you can see?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a couple wink us and they had hiden there profile so why wink if there have hiden for any of the reasons above

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"we had a couple wink us and they had hiden there profile so why wink if there have hiden for any of the reasons above "

they are obviously dickheads and therefore warrant no further thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we had a couple wink us and they had hiden there profile so why wink if there have hiden for any of the reasons above "

Probably playing peek-a-boo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could this also not be used when doing a verification thing ??

Set up a couple of accounts then get a verified thing from 1 account to the second account for people looking to meet it would seem that they are perfectly genuine as they have good feedback from others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in hiding at the moment due to the overwhelming amounts of mail I get begging for my body, or something like that.

Just taking a break from it all but don't wanna delete my whole profile is the real reason.

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east

We met a cpl and we became friends on here. They said they wanted to meet us again but every time we looked at their profile they had blocked it so we give up on then as the situation as we did not know what was giong on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hide mine sometimes due 2

needing time out 4 personal reasons

if i dont i get emails an i politly

say needing time out then i get

guys being nasty an saying so why

u here then..we cant win eh lol

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