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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth

Just got back from a meet ,sex was good but sometimes I feel I just need a hug and some spooning after but I can’t seem to let myself do that ,after sex I just need to go as I then don’t like the guy touching me .Anyone else like that or is it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So didn't he touch you during your meet?.

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"So didn't he touch you during your meet?. "

I don’t like them touching me after sex

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?

But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict.

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?

But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict."

Possibly ,sometimes I can’t leave quick enough

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I know what you mean

I've had ladies like that, so my answer is to wrap them up and leave her in bed to enjoy her own ambience

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Do you feel it’s wrong ?

Dirty or immoral ?

Did you do things that embarrassed you ?

Maybe you need a real partner someone to confide in , have a closer relationship with not just sex.

There’s no harm in wanting to be sexually satisfied without the love or tenderness .

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

With someone new it feels a bit awkward, however I'm happy for hugs after if it's someone I know well.

Do you think you'll get together again?

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Do you feel it’s wrong ?

Dirty or immoral ?

Did you do things that embarrassed you ?

Maybe you need a real partner someone to confide in , have a closer relationship with not just sex.

There’s no harm in wanting to be sexually satisfied without the love or tenderness ."
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No I’m not embarrassed or feel I’ve done anything wrong. I just can’t get away quick enough from the guys after I’ve had sex

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"With someone new it feels a bit awkward, however I'm happy for hugs after if it's someone I know well.

Do you think you'll get together again? "

I doubt it ,I seem to feel the same with every guy

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By *hatBlaqueGuy75Man
over a year ago

london

You just ain’t getting fucked properly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a difference between having sex with someone you have no attachment to, and having sex with someone you are in a loving relationship with. Sometimes you just need that sexual release, but other times you just need someone to hold you, and you can's always get that from the same person.

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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth


"You just ain’t getting fucked properly!"

That’s not what I’m talking about

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Just got back from a meet ,sex was good but sometimes I feel I just need a hug and some spooning after but I can’t seem to let myself do that ,after sex I just need to go as I then don’t like the guy touching me .Anyone else like that or is it just me "

Obviously it’s your choice, but I hope you’re polite about it / explain to the guy a little bit what’s going on. Most men have feelings too.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne


"Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?

But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict."

This is exactly me. I don't hang around for cuddles afterwards. I like to know I'm keeping the emotional side separate.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Just got back from a meet ,sex was good but sometimes I feel I just need a hug and some spooning after but I can’t seem to let myself do that ,after sex I just need to go as I then don’t like the guy touching me .Anyone else like that or is it just me "

Everyone is different and I suppose you are making sure it's just sex and no more than that.

I enjoy the cuddles afterwards but each to their own

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Maybe it’s a way of keeping sex and feelings separate that makes you be like that?

But you need to acknowledge that your feelings are as important as sex which is why you feel it as a conflict.

This is exactly me. I don't hang around for cuddles afterwards. I like to know I'm keeping the emotional side separate. "

Sex is emotional

Lots and lots of emotions run through my mind euphoria and lust to name a few

You need it for any connection to take place

Whether you like to cuddle or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman i would feel bad if a man got up and left straight after. I would feel that maybe he couldnt get away fast enough and i would feel i had done something wrong. But thats just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a one off meet? If so maybe thats why, i dont do one offs or meets without a good connection... it just feels empty regardles how good the sex is the kissing has no soul just empty & worthless.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Do you feel it’s wrong ?

Dirty or immoral ?

Did you do things that embarrassed you ?

Maybe you need a real partner someone to confide in , have a closer relationship with not just sex.

There’s no harm in wanting to be sexually satisfied without the love or tenderness ..

No I’m not embarrassed or feel I’ve done anything wrong. I just can’t get away quick enough from the guys after I’ve had sex"

Why do you think you feel that way OP?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"You just ain’t getting fucked properly!"

Bollocks!! I used to feel like this when I used to play with single men as a single fem. I honestly just wanted to fuck them and then leave. I had no interest in them at all after that, however with females I was different. Mr R is the first man that I feel differently about, and have an emotional attachment to. So it may just be where you are in your swinging journey. Nowt wrong with it, enjoy the sex how you want to and don't believe the crap that some men sprout on here. If you want more that is your choice.

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By *hatBlaqueGuy75Man
over a year ago

london


"You just ain’t getting fucked properly!

Bollocks!! I used to feel like this when I used to play with single men as a single fem. I honestly just wanted to fuck them and then leave. I had no interest in them at all after that, however with females I was different. Mr R is the first man that I feel differently about, and have an emotional attachment to. So it may just be where you are in your swinging journey. Nowt wrong with it, enjoy the sex how you want to and don't believe the crap that some men sprout on here. If you want more that is your choice."

When I finished fucking anyone, it’s hot and sweaty cuddles for a sec, some more kissing, sucking...

then shower, and go again....

If it’s just a cold fuck, might as well just fuck anywhere!

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