FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications by Phone

By *arnaclebill OP Man
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

I see that Admin has decided that you can no longer verify anyone by phone. I must admit that I agree with this decision as I would never verify anyone unless I'd actually met them. Even verifying by webcam can be set up in advance. What do others think

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

prefer and only do veri's by in person meets too, I think it's much more reliable. Good move by the site to stop the phone veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets in person is a good verification

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you want a 100% verification, it has to be a meet in person, webcam can be rigged,phone you could be talking to anyone.!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol it's hard enough to get cam verified never mind a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes good idea, anyone can sound very nice, on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can get verified simply by attending one of the regular social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes good idea, anyone can sound very nice, on the phone."

We've spoke to people on the phone in the past they can sound nice but really be weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"prefer and only do veri's by in person meets too, I think it's much more reliable. Good move by the site to stop the phone veris."

Totally agree....I even had a cheeky bugger message me twice last week, the first message was an introductory one and asked me if I would verify him after the second one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I've noticed a couple of newish people asking on their status if anyone will verify them

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The phone one was very open to abuse and its a good move to remove it very glad they have.

Is it retro active ? do those only with phone verifications lose them now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can they now also ban photoshopped photos from being Fabbed? Theres one lady that keeps getting fabbed, but seems to vary between 5ft 2 and 6ft 4, 36B and 56DD boob s, normal waist, wasp waist.

That to me is as much (if not more) of a con than phone verifications!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the phone veris being taken off! I neve do cam so not an issue!

Those who moan about not getting meets, go to a social, I know it's scary but I went as a single woman and it don't get scarier than that! Men grow a pair and get ur arses out there!

Now I been verified in person it's good but if it didn't happen I would just go to a social an chat to someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they should do a fuck in public and only the atchers can verify you. Maybe like points out of 10 on performance etc etc etc ?? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they should do a fuck in public and only the atchers can verify you. Maybe like points out of 10 on performance etc etc etc ?? haha"

Some would have you do that too.

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Hmm.. It's all very "chicken or egg". If they only had verifications from meets then at some point someone's going to have to take a chance and meet someone with no verifications otherwise anyone new wouldn't get anywhere.

I prefered it when we were given the chance to make our own conclusions as to whether a phone validation was worth taking a chance or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im new to site and had a meet its the best form of verification and should be only one. swinging site so why be scared to meet omg how u gonna get naked n fuck if yr scared to meet???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can they now also ban photoshopped photos from being Fabbed? Theres one lady that keeps getting fabbed, but seems to vary between 5ft 2 and 6ft 4, 36B and 56DD boob s, normal waist, wasp waist.

That to me is as much (if not more) of a con than phone verifications!!

xx"

.... and the guys who's cocks are showers AND growers .... some should be in The Guinness Book of Records!

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam"
.Think you're underestimating the customising skills of the members..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can get verified simply by attending one of the regular social events "

Only if people they meet are prepared to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they should make symbols for verfied for people who dont show they are verified or have had people leave the site afterwards, that way you could tell if its phone, cam or in person.

webcam could be setup yeah, but how many women are going to knowingly get involved on cam to aid a guy tricking couples or women into sex if they are not a part of it. not many i dont think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but something to show how they are verified if hidden or lost is a good way i think to stop people getting phone/cam verified and hiding it and pretending they meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can get verified simply by attending one of the regular social events "

its not easy for everyone to get to these i would need a babysitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"but something to show how they are verified if hidden or lost is a good way i think to stop people getting phone/cam verified and hiding it and pretending they meet!"

The advanced search option will find meet verified users if thats what you're looking for

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam"

Seems reasonable

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Hmm.. It's all very "chicken or egg". If they only had verifications from meets then at some point someone's going to have to take a chance and meet someone with no verifications otherwise anyone new wouldn't get anywhere.

I prefered it when we were given the chance to make our own conclusions as to whether a phone validation was worth taking a chance or not.."

A phone validation is still only that..only until a face to face occurs is a validation worth anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam"
So true mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but something to show how they are verified if hidden or lost is a good way i think to stop people getting phone/cam verified and hiding it and pretending they meet!"

Does it really matter what other people do though? We don't take a lot of notice of verifications and would rather have early phone conversations and then decide to meet rather than rely on what others have said in the past.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Lots of good points on here, many I agree with, but here's a few points to consider...

Many say something along the lines of "a phone veri means nothing"... really? So if you talk to a female, surely it proves the profile is accurate in that its a single fem / cpl?

Some say "a phone veri can be faked easily"... really? There arent many guys who can pull off a false female voice for long, and as for getting a female to answer the phone for them..... WTF? I feel a cam show can be much more easily faked.

"They sounded so nice on the phone, but we didnt like them in person".

You will always have a better "feel" about a person when you see them face to face anyway, unless you spend weeks chatting on the phone!!!

We always chat on the phone first anyway before setting up a meet of any kind.

Having said all the above, we have never really put much faith in phone or cam veris, prefering to see actual meet veris as a more reliable guage of people, its the getting rid of just phone veris that makes us a bit confused, why not get rid of cam ones too?

The other issue I noticed was the relatively short period of consultation about the removal of phone veris, it was put up around 6pm one day, and the option for phone veris was gone 15 hours later!!! So, a few nods during a very quiet period of site use.... and BANG, it was done? Not very democratic, made me feel that the decision had already been made, this process was just lip service being paid?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

webcam could be setup yeah, but how many women are going to knowingly get involved on cam to aid a guy tricking couples or women into sex if they are not a part of it. not many i dont think!"

I can explain how this is done very easily..... but I don't want to help any thickos out there to do it.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam"

I thought that's what web cam sex was. That explains why everytime I try it the viewers all scream and switch off.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam

I thought that's what web cam sex was. That explains why everytime I try it the viewers all scream and switch off.

It's the Nemicolopterus which freaks them out.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'd go further and make verifications only valid by meeting in person.

You can't fuck a web cam

I thought that's what web cam sex was. That explains why everytime I try it the viewers all scream and switch off.

It's the Nemicolopterus which freaks them out."

Are you suggesting my cock is small???... again. WHYIORTA!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" WHYIORTA!"

Is that a Japanese car made in Newcastle?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

" WHYIORTA!

Is that a Japanese car made in Newcastle?"

Pah! Nissan is based in Sunderland!!! But yes that's what I meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone verification is gone.

If you miss it, maybe ask admin via the feedback forum for it back

Love to all

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

I prefered it when we were given the chance to make our own conclusions as to whether a phone validation was worth taking a chance or not..

A phone validation is still only that..only until a face to face occurs is a validation worth anything!"

Not really. If you are looking for a couple you could have a fem to fem phone chat, verifying that the other couple is indeed just that, a couple, and not a lonely sad man pretending to be a couple. It is up to you if you wanted to arrange something based on a Phone call, using your own judgement.

After all, we're talking about verifications for genuine people here, not rating them.

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

"Lots of good points on here, many I agree with, but here's a few points to consider...

Many say something along the lines of "a phone veri means nothing"... really? So if you talk to a female, surely it proves the profile is accurate in that its a single fem / cpl?

"They sounded so nice on the phone, but we didnt like them in person".

You will always have a better "feel" about a person when you see them face to face anyway, unless you spend weeks chatting on the phone!!!

We always chat on the phone first anyway before setting up a meet of any kind.

Totally agree with everything you say. We didn't log in for a short while and then all of a sudden it was gone?! And we don't put much faith in phone verifications either, but it was better to have the option and use it as we deemed fit than no option at all.

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Only in person is the way,all mine are in person.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Lots of good points on here, many I agree with, but here's a few points to consider...

Many say something along the lines of "a phone veri means nothing"... really? So if you talk to a female, surely it proves the profile is accurate in that its a single fem / cpl?

"They sounded so nice on the phone, but we didnt like them in person".

You will always have a better "feel" about a person when you see them face to face anyway, unless you spend weeks chatting on the phone!!!

We always chat on the phone first anyway before setting up a meet of any kind.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Only in person is the way,all mine are in person."

All ours are in person too, and we prefer to see potential playmares have them also, but even that doesnt mean that you will like them or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"prefer and only do veri's by in person meets too, I think it's much more reliable. Good move by the site to stop the phone veris.

Totally agree....I even had a cheeky bugger message me twice last week, the first message was an introductory one and asked me if I would verify him after the second one!! "
ive had the same,wasnt a couple from rhyl was it?

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By *asy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Completely agree, as i had someone text me and mail via fab, then after a couple of days, she asked that i verify her to make her 'look more authentic' to couples, when she had actually let me down twice?? so no i only verify 'real' meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely agree, as i had someone text me and mail via fab, then after a couple of days, she asked that i verify her to make her 'look more authentic' to couples, when she had actually let me down twice?? so no i only verify 'real' meets"

how can you verify anyone your not verified to do so lol

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

We only verify on meets.

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By *hyandtwistedCouple
over a year ago

loughborough

The way I see it, read and act on the verifications you like, we only have webcam ones at the moment and all that proves is we are a couple and its not just me (The fella) pretending to be to pic hunt.

It doesnt mean any more than that, and we accept that. but it does give some credence as we build to a meet.

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