FabSwingers.com forum: How to find a single female for a relationship x

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"

Good luck it happens on here seen it tried and tested so have faith dude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really hope so mate. There should be a swingers singles dating website lol x

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Yeah that's an idea

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've been here since 2014 seeking the one so join the waiting game.

I've repeatedly suggested a fabswingers dating section or something to progress the dating side but alas there has been nothing.

Even speed shagging would be a start oops speed dating I mean lol

Anyway good morning to ya fella now fasten up those hatchets hoist up the sails me hearty and get rowing...enjoy the journey on captain fabswingers ship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol cheers me hearty

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

This is actually super sweet! I hope you find what you’re looking for OP. I’m all for online romances, it’s how me and Mr B net each other albeit Facebook and not fab lol. But we’ve been together for over a year and a half and still going strong.

Good luck!

S xx

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

"This is actually super sweet! I hope you find what you’re looking for OP. I’m all for online romances, it’s how me and Mr B net each other albeit Facebook and not fab lol. But we’ve been together for over a year and a half and still going strong. "

Really agree with this! Myself and D actually met on kik before agreeing to meet, the rest is history

Op I hope you find someone who has the same interests as you!

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been here since 2014 seeking the one so join the waiting game.

I've repeatedly suggested a fabswingers dating section or something to progress the dating side but alas there has been nothing.

Even speed shagging would be a start oops speed dating I mean lol

Anyway good morning to ya fella now fasten up those hatchets hoist up the sails me hearty and get rowing...enjoy the journey on captain fabswingers ship

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a fabswingers dating section would be good

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

There's lots of us looking for the same and there is a long running forum thread dedicated to it. Its the local part that's the issue i find. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I really really want this too...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm single but not interested in a swinging relationship. The social side together maybe. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck mate, I’m sure you’ll get what you want. Have you visited any clubs yet? It’s another avenue for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be looking towards this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my fella here almost 4 years ago now, I must stress though, neither of us were looking for anything serious. Though I think you absolutely can find love on fab, or anywhere, it's probably not the best place to look (most people here are seeking nsa).

Good luck OP, I hope you find your dream lady

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

FFS

it's a dating site hahaha

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I think the IS the swingers dating website. I really only date unless I’m clubbing, and have met a long term partner here, not together now but it was perfect. Emotionally monogamous but sexually free.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also looking for love/relationship but with the added kink of swinging/parties.

Its not the easier to find.

Good luck everyone

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Any luck since I last replied? My ends nothing as yet...5 Years and counting lol

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I meet Steve in the world of nsa. years later we are living the dream. pmsl

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

We met through this lifestyle and site! We are now married! It does happen just enjoy life and it will find you

Good luck

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m looking for that too, but it’s hard to find someone who’s local, compatibly kinky, emotionally monogamous and who I click with. I think I’m asking for too much. Good luck with your search. It’ll happen one day!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hope you find what you are looking for OP, I'm looking for the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few on here who are looking for the same. Good luck in your search OP

Holly

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

I’m waitting

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

My profile says it all, on the same train lol

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

it's an adult site for all but to many manipulate, I have noticed this to many times lol

It just confuses stuff lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It happens, I found my partner on here, so did many others, so not impossible . I never think it harms to state that your intrested in a relationship with the right person on your profile if that's what you also seek. There is not harm in using Fab to seek relationships too. I assume your looking for a relationship that includes swinging? If so you'd far better chance finding someone like minded on here than a normal dating site. But remember very few women out there are swingers, so the pool is limited. I may take time, effort and lots of patience.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I’m looking for that too, but it’s hard to find someone who’s local, compatibly kinky, emotionally monogamous and who I click with. I think I’m asking for too much. Good luck with your search. It’ll happen one day!"

It's out there, just illusive.

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Not on here but I met my partner in a seiners club and we’ve been together a year now. She doesn’t do fab but knows i do. It’s working so far.

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Not on here but I met my partner in a swingers club and we’ve been together a year now. She doesn’t do fab but knows i do. It’s working so far.

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Looking for the same thing myself but sadly no joy. Not sure I'll find in on here but not discounting it either.

Good luck OP, seen quite a lot of genuinely happy couples who have met on here so there is hope

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Me and my partner met on another swinging site 6yrs ago .... and within 3 months he has proposed ... but unfortunately 3 yrs ago cancer struck and he passed away ... so it does happen and it can be just perfect ... would be wonderful for it to happen again ...

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Why would I let a another bloke shag my significant other ,we had this conversation after the match the other night.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Why would I let a another bloke shag my significant other ,we had this conversation after the match the other night. "

Why would you let your significant other anyway??

Well their body doesn't belong to you it is their choice who they have sex with. As a loving and supporting partner you accept their choices.

Just as your body is your own you make your choices to do with it as you will.

Idealistic socially constructed monogamy which is control.

Sex is sex and love is love in what ever form it takes. So you won't be letting your significant other fuck other people it's not your right to choose.

Having a partner who swings is difficult if you can't trust them or love them enough to allow them their own choices and support them then don't be in that relationship.

I'd also bet you'd expect to have your cake and eat it though.

Mind boggling contradictions on fab

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’m totally looking for a partner..

But as everyone has already said it’s distance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I'd ideally want to happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im also looking for love/relationship but with the added kink of swinging/parties.

Its not the easier to find.

Good luck everyone

Me too... Could you move to Bedfordshire please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I think that you should put what you're looking for in your profile to increase your chances.

Women on here get so many messages that yours is apt to get lost in all the noise but if they do look at your profile then it needs to let them know what you want.

Good luck to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I really really want this too...

I'd join up with you ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you well OP and all the others.

I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture.

I don't think I'll ever find the one so in many ways I've given up hoping to.

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Ideally I guess quite a few of us want the same. Not sure if Fab is the right place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I really really want this too...

I'd join up with you ????"

How romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have loved to have met someone on here, just never happened when I wanted it too... I can only Imagine the fun I could have with a like minded individual. Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone, fab made us but fab broke us too. We clearly weren't meant to be a couple of any sort but it took us over 2 years to realise it. Hes now living a "normal" vanilla lifestyle with his new woman. Lesson learnt I'd only ever have a fwb on here now. Less emotional stress

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

I met my partner on here.. While we were just fwb.. Sex was great.. At it like rabbits.. So to spk.. Moved in together and now after I'd say 8ish years.. It's like being married.. We never have sex.. Thank fuck I'm still on site.. Or I'd become a born again virgin.. But he's happy for me to still go and play and vice versa..

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's an adult site for all but to many manipulate, I have noticed this to many times lol

It just confuses stuff lol

Why do you think that?

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Looking for the same thing OP - it's lovely to see there are some great couples that have met here and have a fulfilling relationship with everything I'm looking for...just goes to show, it can happen!

I'm still holding out for my perfect sexual deviant

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Blokes don't even get a reply to messages sent lol

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

Join the club mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a fab lady on here 6 years, moved in together got engaged had a few 3somes, December had a 3some, she fell for the guy and dumped me and is with him now :-0

So take care

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By *ummerforeverMan
over a year ago

greenford

I really want the same thing, you'd think being in london would make that easier, it really helps vrry little!

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I met a fab lady on here 6 years, moved in together got engaged had a few 3somes, December had a 3some, she fell for the guy and dumped me and is with him now :-0

So take care "

That's awful!! Sorry to hear that.

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Looking for the same thing OP - it's lovely to see there are some great couples that have met here and have a fulfilling relationship with everything I'm looking for...just goes to show, it can happen!

I'm still holding out for my perfect sexual deviant

Well I've been looking since 2014 as mention above and can't message you otherwise I'd have said let's talk lol

Damn those filters lol

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"I really want the same thing, you'd think being in london would make that easier, it really helps vrry little!"

I'm in London...

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Really hope so mate. There should be a swingers singles dating website lol x "

There was Fabflirts.com

But it seems to have died.

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I really want the same thing, you'd think being in london would make that easier, it really helps vrry little!

I'm in London...

I travel all over besides London isn't far... if you were in the US then I'd be worried so don't make excuses and get in touch lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for your support and great messages xx

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Thank you all for your support and great messages xx"

Welcome. We're in this together. I have hope 1 day we will find that special someone on here or somewhere

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

I posted a similar thread a while back. This is exactly what i want too.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Do you know where the thread is please x

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Spider woman not sure how you are still single x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck it happens on here seen it tried and tested so have faith dude"

I know of many here that have met and gotten married or even getting married or end up together good for them although this is not a dating site

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do you know where the thread is please x"

Just click the green arrow next to your name and go look for it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and we get married next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met on here and we get married next year.

'a good love story from, TESCO.' lol, from, Sarah. Milligan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you well OP and all the others.

I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture.

I don't think I'll ever find the one so in many ways I've given up hoping to. "

Sadly, this is me and my experience too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also on a dating site but for me, i use this site for sexy stuff. Not sure I'd like to go into a relationship with someone where swinging is a part of it. I'd consider it once the relationship was established but I'd be quite happy in a monogamous relationship with a special someone. If i met someone through here, I just wouldn't feel like he'd ever be mine x just me and my insecurities I suppose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also on a dating site but for me, i use this site for sexy stuff. Not sure I'd like to go into a relationship with someone where swinging is a part of it. I'd consider it once the relationship was established but I'd be quite happy in a monogamous relationship with a special someone. If i met someone through here, I just wouldn't feel like he'd ever be mine x just me and my insecurities I suppose x"

I'm not sure that's true. Not everyone on this site has a swingers mentality. I'm in a monogamous relationship. We just stay for the forums and the odd social event

Holly

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

How's the pursuit to happiness guys haha

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't know how you do it but I've seen relationships blossom here which is lovely to see.

I hope you find it

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Spider woman not sure how you are still single x"

I know...forever single that's me

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I wish you well OP and all the others.

I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture.

I don't think I'll ever find the one so in many ways I've given up hoping to.

Sadly, this is me and my experience too x"

Sadly me too x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Really hope so mate. There should be a swingers singles dating website lol x

There was Fabflirts.com

But it seems to have died."

I was on that, really liked it there. Shame its gone.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"How's the pursuit to happiness guys haha"

I have a social on Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's the pursuit to happiness guys haha

I have a social on Monday

"
where?

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I would be happy with a single or married female for fwb encounters,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might help if you unhide your profike x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"How's the pursuit to happiness guys haha

I have a social on Monday

where?

Not in Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's the pursuit to happiness guys haha

I have a social on Monday

where?

Not in Ireland

"
lol I'll come or is it a lovey dovey one on one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.

I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.

I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OP"
is it me just say if it is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.

I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OPis it me just say if it is ok

Great profile had me smiling but shame you're so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.

I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OPis it me just say if it is ok

Great profile had me smiling but shame you're so far away

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you liked my profile, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen we've met couples who started as singles on fab. Good luck. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been here since 2014 seeking the one so join the waiting game.

I've repeatedly suggested a fabswingers dating section or something to progress the dating side but alas there has been nothing.

Even speed shagging would be a start oops speed dating I mean lol

Anyway good morning to ya fella now fasten up those hatchets hoist up the sails me hearty and get rowing...enjoy the journey on captain fabswingers ship

a fabswingers dating section would be good"

I thought fab was not a dating site then that would change the whole ethos of fab swingers?

lets all date each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well OP you will find it hard to find anyone with your profile hidden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with op.

Love to meet someone for relationship who loves chams and exploring new adventures..

Oneday....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I agree with op.

Love to meet someone for relationship who loves chams and exploring new adventures..

Oneday...."

Hopefully...

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