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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interest in us has slowed down since we both went over the 50 mark, is it time to follow the herd and change our ages on here? After all seems like so many do lie about there age, or do we stick to our guns and when we play at parties and clubs freak out people when they look at our profile later and realise they’ve played with a couple of oldies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your age the same. Hot milfs and dilfs are hard to find (pardon the expression).

There will be tons of people still interested, and some who are even more interested now that you’ve hit your 50’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens no I'm over the 50 barrier and im still happy being me , if others have a problem , its theirs not mine

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

So in a year or so I'll be on the proverbial scrapheap while my guy still has years ahead of him?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your pictures I definitely don't understand why there gorgeous might be because of the amount of veris on TV's you've met as it says your straight male

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By *indy400TV/TS
over a year ago

d8

Stick with your true age i put my true age and got more calls than ever

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Stick with your true age, we always have. If you think interest has dropped off since you've hit 50 wait until you hit 60

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

Just remember tho you can only change one age so have to be the first named as this is the one that shows after profile name.

We made the mistake of putting Mr (55) first rather than Mrs (49) which a lot of profiles do.

But who cares. If people don't meet us because of the age thing that's their loss.

We have been shocked by how many years some people knock off their real age on here, surely it just leaves people disappointed when they actually meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember tho you can only change one age so have to be the first named as this is the one that shows after profile name.

We made the mistake of putting Mr (55) first rather than Mrs (49) which a lot of profiles do.

But who cares. If people don't meet us because of the age thing that's their loss.

We have been shocked by how many years some people knock off their real age on here, surely it just leaves people disappointed when they actually meet them "

I love being fifty and can't understand why anyone would lie..

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By *ohnsamCouple
over a year ago

Bramley

We much prefer more mature people 60+ so your still a bit young for us!

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

For me, stick with your true ages. Your photos speak for themselves and show a very attractive couple, irrespective of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your as old as the swingers you feel dont worry about it.Why put some kinky gear on and take some new pics revamp your profile and leave ages the same .At the very least you get a fun photo sesh.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Interest in us has slowed down since we both went over the 50 mark, is it time to follow the herd and change our ages on here? After all seems like so many do lie about there age, or do we stick to our guns and when we play at parties and clubs freak out people when they look at our profile later and realise they’ve played with a couple of oldies? "

You could rock any age you liked...great profile and pics.

I say tell a white one afterall 50 is the new 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stay true to your self's and let me know if you want to meet another old timer!

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Although of course, if you find out that you fall off everyone’s search criteria by being 50+, feel free to lie a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number and we will all get there eventually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, why should you? Honesty is the best policy.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"So in a year or so I'll be on the proverbial scrapheap while my guy still has years ahead of him?! "

No we get better with age we got what the men want

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

To be honest on here it does narrow the field somewhat but in 'real life' i am frequently amazed by how many younger women find a 'silver fox' appealing.

I would say real age and see.... seems to be working better than when i was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my age and older my lumits go up as i age but if you prefer younger meet younger

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

Late 50 s here, I still live in hope

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Blimey I’m almost 60 ... nothing stopping me or lack of interest here

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By *plotgoblinsMan
over a year ago

heritage coast

63 and still going strong

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Some folks like older ages than themselves please dont change them

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We can on this site 3 years ago at 54 male 49 female and definitely got more messages then , but not sure if this site is as busy nowadays, be interesting to know if couples in there 40s think so , we alway think that looks are better thing to go bye than age ? You have to fancy the couple and age does not really affect that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love more mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interest in us has slowed down since we both went over the 50 mark, is it time to follow the herd and change our ages on here? After all seems like so many do lie about there age, or do we stick to our guns and when we play at parties and clubs freak out people when they look at our profile later and realise they’ve played with a couple of oldies? "

Oldies!!! You are still youngsters 50's+ are more considerate and more experienced.

Keep persevering the wait will be worth it ??

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By *onytonicMan
over a year ago

farsley

I'm 51 and my partner in crime "Jess" is 29. Keep it real and enjoy!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Honesty is best. If you look after yourself and love each other then it doesn't matter about others. You will meet people on holiday or in clubs and parties that may have you filtered online but you hit it off because of the way you look and act. It's their loss by limiting their field with filters. Just enjoy your experience and each other. I (Mr) very rarely find ladies as sexy as Mrs Skyeblue and I would back myself against the majority of 30-40 something mem in terms of fitness and physique. Rock what you have and who you are!

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By *ossauMan
over a year ago

Perth

Definitely do not change your ages. Plenty out there would want to meet you both. I certainly would xx

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Definitely be what you are never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 67 and having a new start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stuck with my age and in fairly good shape but have noticed interest has dropped off quite a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you look terrific!

Stick to your real age. I'm 62 this year, and yes it does go quiet, but I'd tried lying on here a few years ago, and it's just not worth it.

The filters are a disadvantage at this age too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interest in us has slowed down since we both went over the 50 mark, is it time to follow the herd and change our ages on here? After all seems like so many do lie about there age, or do we stick to our guns and when we play at parties and clubs freak out people when they look at our profile later and realise they’ve played with a couple of oldies? "

Nothing better than a mature lady.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

50 and 60’s here and still playing

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By *k8kttMan
over a year ago

Wickford

Just wait until you get to 60+, I am 63 and it seems that nobody wants to meet up with people over your age. I am finding it extremely difficult to find a couple who want to meet """an old git"""

Good luck in your search and best wishes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nearly there and still get guys in their 20s interested in a fuck...I maybe be on their fantasy fuck list but do I care...nah. happy days

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No point in lying about your age by changing it OP, you'll only get found out. Personally speaking, I get really annoyed if I find out people have lied and won't meet them. What else have they lied about to try and get me to meet them? Well, that's the way my mind thinks anyway.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Be proud of your age. Lying is not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some really really old people on here

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders


"I'm nearly there and still get guys in their 20s interested in a fuck...I maybe be on their fantasy fuck list but do I care...nah. happy days "

..but they may be ashamed to take you for a drink in front of his mates ie good to fuck but only behind closed doors ?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"No point in lying about your age by changing it OP, you'll only get found out. Personally speaking, I get really annoyed if I find out people have lied and won't meet them. What else have they lied about to try and get me to meet them? Well, that's the way my mind thinks anyway. "

Me too! Our first ever couple we meet stated they were mid 40’s. When we met they seemed a ‘had a hard paper round’ mid 50’s. I asked them what age they were, they told the truth (they were 55 & 57!) I asked why they had put 10 years younger on their profile as surely they would be found out! Their reply was; everyone lies on Fab! Lol I did point out we hadn’t! Hey ho everyone runs their fab account how they seem fit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm nearly there and still get guys in their 20s interested in a fuck...I maybe be on their fantasy fuck list but do I care...nah. happy days

..but they may be ashamed to take you for a drink in front of his mates ie good to fuck but only behind closed doors ?"

I'm here to fuck them not date them

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders


"I'm nearly there and still get guys in their 20s interested in a fuck...I maybe be on their fantasy fuck list but do I care...nah. happy days

..but they may be ashamed to take you for a drink in front of his mates ie good to fuck but only behind closed doors ?

I'm here to fuck them not date them "

...mutual respect should be a minimum requirement

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm nearly there and still get guys in their 20s interested in a fuck...I maybe be on their fantasy fuck list but do I care...nah. happy days

..but they may be ashamed to take you for a drink in front of his mates ie good to fuck but only behind closed doors ?"

Oh yes, have experienced this lol.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"There's some really really old people on here "

Yep and proud to be old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some really really old people on here "
Don't worry, you'll be there sooner than you think! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some really really old people on here

Yep and proud to be old. "
Oh my lord........54?!!!

Gorgeous! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with you being over 50!

Youve a great body, sound good fun and looking to enjoy life.

I find it difficult as a guy at 55.Just need a couple or women to give me an opportunity to meet?? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's some really really old people on here

Yep and proud to be old. "

Yep old and proud, not sure where you are going with this.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some really really old people on here

Yep and proud to be old. "

Id rather meet an older woman with a body like yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some really really old people on here "

Don't worry babe .. you'll be 30 soon and the young 20 yr olds will think you're really really old too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some really really old people on here

Don't worry babe .. you'll be 30 soon and the young 20 yr olds will think you're really really old too xx"

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Age is just a number and we will all get there eventually..."

This is a cliche that is patently untrue. Age can be wrinkly skin, saggy bits, thinning hair and loss of stamina!

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Age is just a number and we will all get there eventually...

This is a cliche that is patently untrue. Age can be wrinkly skin, saggy bits, thinning hair and loss of stamina!"
But apart from that getting old is great

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Getting older is not ideal but the alternative is considerably less inviting....

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I'm nearly there and still get guys in their 20s interested in a fuck...I maybe be on their fantasy fuck list but do I care...nah. happy days "

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Be yourselves.

And yourselves are hot!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Both over 50, think clubs show how good you really look over projection of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 50. You’ll get plenty of interest still. I’ll give up when my sex drive does.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

This site only allows one change of age so ours shows us as younger than we actually are but we are still as active as we were ten years ago. My ambition is when they come to nail the coffin lid down it will not fit because I have still got an erection and they have to manipulate a knothole to coincide.

Our strike rate has not dimminished over the years and we still get as much sex as we want.

50, 60, bah humbug!!! get some time in.

G&A

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By * and G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

We prefer mature and are only really looking for over 50s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy being the age you are! If people can't see the person instead of the age then it's their loss and your lucky escape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We as a couple fall both sides the 50 line...lol...for us age is a number its all about the chemistry on the night...

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

In my fifties, maybe I haven't got so much stamina as before but I'm more successful -in terms of dates- than ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking at your pictures I definitely don't understand why there gorgeous might be because of the amount of veris on TV's you've met as it says your straight male"

Really lol, as we’ve never played with a TV just met them when we ran a club night, hubby is defo straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr) have a thing for over 50s and definitely if they are curvy.

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By *agenta400Woman
over a year ago

All over the shop

I started on here after my 50th birthday 6 months ago.

Hasn’t stopped me!!

I have noticed my previous interest in younger men (in their 30’s) has diminished and I prefer guys nearer to my own age. It’s really nice to talk to someone with the same age references. I laugh more with resonance.

Plus guys in their 40’s and 50’s are more laid back, know what they’re doing and are more likely to have as many ailments as me!!

Mutual groaning as well as mutual moaning is satisfying. :0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I am in my 30s I prefer to who I was in my 20s. I'm not dreading getting to 40. Actually looking forward to it if anything, as I see myself now to who I once was and wouldn't go back.

Embrace your age whatever it is

If that fails then 5 years deduction gives you 5 more years on here in your 40s lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems some ladies are partial to a silver fox )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick with your true age, we always have. If you think interest has dropped off since you've hit 50 wait until you hit 60 "
Nothing wrong being 60 till you get there lol.

Age is only a number, well that's what we keep telling ourselves.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Got to be over 50 to turn our heads

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By *he InquisitorMan
over a year ago

rotherham

50 but still can't seem to get meets .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Stick with your true age, we always have. If you think interest has dropped off since you've hit 50 wait until you hit 60 Nothing wrong being 60 till you get there lol.

Age is only a number, well that's what we keep telling ourselves. "

I'm genuinely not bothered about being 62. I just have to remind myself that I am because inside I still feel like I did at 42.

I don't think that age is just a number though. The number is important and significant

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Just enjoy your filthy fifties

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By *iknaknok42Man
over a year ago

limavady

Be fifty and be filthy,,,enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just enjoy your filthy fifties"

and 60's and 70's and 80's and 90's ...there is no age to stop having sexual fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure it’s your age. You both look great. There was a thread earlier about the amount of veri’s putting people off. I saw you had 340 plus. Maybe there is a link?

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not sure it’s your age. You both look great. There was a thread earlier about the amount of veri’s putting people off. I saw you had 340 plus. Maybe there is a link?

Xx"

To be honest there probably is, but as we insist on safe sex then people who don’t want to meet up because of the amount of veris we wouldn’t want to meet! Why would we meet judgemental people?

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By *adforit1304Man
over a year ago

Limerick/Clare

I’m turning 50 in a few days time , i hope it won’t be downhill from there , i have to say you look stunning.

Have you heard if the expression

The older the fiddle the sweeter the tune

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Keep your age as it is,then people have a choice still.

If you're still getting meets at clubs then keep at it and enjoy.

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

We seem to be having the same problem!! Obviously once you are over 50 you're too old for fun times. Bloody frustrating because when we do meet people at parties or the odd club we have been to we are frequently told we dont look our ages. Trying to find other couples to play with is proving very tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interest in us has slowed down since we both went over the 50 mark, is it time to follow the herd and change our ages on here? After all seems like so many do lie about there age, or do we stick to our guns and when we play at parties and clubs freak out people when they look at our profile later and realise they’ve played with a couple of oldies? "

Age is just a number it’s how you feel on the inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seem to be having the same problem!! Obviously once you are over 50 you're too old for fun times. Bloody frustrating because when we do meet people at parties or the odd club we have been to we are frequently told we dont look our ages. Trying to find other couples to play with is proving very tricky. "
Wait till you get into your 60s then you have problems lol

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By *neamigoMan
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it


"Interest in us has slowed down since we both went over the 50 mark, is it time to follow the herd and change our ages on here? After all seems like so many do lie about there age, or do we stick to our guns and when we play at parties and clubs freak out people when they look at our profile later and realise they’ve played with a couple of oldies? "

Well from a male perspective you would be on my hot list !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know how you feel but age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being 50 you look great. Anyway age is just a number .

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Live your life

Forget your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showing our age hasn't done us any harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or me!

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

My age has not stopped me getting plenty of offers from 20s up hot guys, nor have they slowed down, just enjoy yourselves

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