FabSwingers.com forum: Dear oh dear

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't usually like to complain on here but this one wound me up no end lol. I've let it get to me.

Fabber posts status saying they feel disrespected and needs cheering up. I send message (with pic) saying, in not the exact words, I'm not looking to meet, I don't like seeing people upset. Just saying, whoever upset you, don't waste your energy thinking about it, they are obviously a little pathetic.

Delete, block

Can't anyone send people a genuine message on here? She was miles away so obviously it wasn't an attempt to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't usually like to complain on here but this one wound me up no end lol. I've let it get to me.

Delete, block

Can't anyone send people a genuine message on here? She was miles away so obviously it wasn't an attempt to get laid

Some see it as your being a white knight

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't take it personally. It could be for any reason.

On the flip side, many sympathetic messengers (not saying you) do try it on later. Women have extremely good reasons to be wary here.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Apparently not. Maybe she was hoping someone closer was going to offer her a cheer up drink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Understandable points. Still very disappointing from my point of view, as it was a genuine message which I made clear, wasn't an attempt to meet. It's just a shame that those reasons are so valid these days.

Hey ho though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit rude of her. But you did include a pic, which sort of makes it seem like you were trying it on

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Im sure you are a decent bloke and what you wrote was v nice, but the lady in question doesnt know this andd she may have had abuse on fab today so she blocks rather than talking! I understand where ur coming from a wee thanku wud have been nice but everyone has their own choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another attention seeking moran that obviously wanted pathetic attention and when you offered genuine support they didn't want that, so unreal, you are so much better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there's alot of people on here that are very self centered and just assume your just trying your luck and that your below them, They forget that yes it's a swinging sex site but it's users are actually real people who for most parts are actually decent people too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did include a pic.

Ah never mind, I'm not usually offended so easily. I see everyone's point. Just a shame is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wanted attention but sounds to me it wasn't your attention that they were after I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They wanted attention but sounds to me it wasn't your attention that they were after I'm afraid "

Haha, makes sense

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