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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys

New here so bare with me!

Saw an event for an orgy, thought ooooo that looks fun. But I’m pretty strict on protection (as we should be)

What’s the deal with swapping? I can’t imagine everyone stopping to change condoms?!

Please enlighten me.

Don’t want to be the only one in the room spoiling the mood!

Thanks

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

New partner, new condom. It only takes a few seconds

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

In practice I've no idea but in theory it should be new partner new condom or it's just the men that are semi protected . I doubt if people wash hands, use mouthwash etc between partners so it's a riskier business anyway

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

You need to be hyper-alert in this sort of situation. Was at a party and a few of us were on a bed, one guy finished with one lady and then turned to another lady next to him, was about to mount her with the same condom on until I mentioned it, his response was to say something along the lines of " it's ok, I'm safe "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

New partner, new condom, at least one wingman/ tough guy to enforce rules.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"New partner, new condom, at least one wingman/ tough guy to enforce rules. "

this! Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"You need to be hyper-alert in this sort of situation. Was at a party and a few of us were on a bed, one guy finished with one lady and then turned to another lady next to him, was about to mount her with the same condom on until I mentioned it, his response was to say something along the lines of " it's ok, I'm safe " "

The kind of vigilance required for this kind of play would spoil it for me I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New partner, new condom, at least one wingman/ tough guy to enforce rules.

this! Xx"

Agree, this is our approach too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Tbh most people are fine because they don't want to ruin a good thing, and playing fast and loose will get you banned.

There is always one though, hence the need for someone(s) watching out.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'd be nervous if I was a single woman, without a partner or friend to look out for me. You can't relax fully in that situation.

But with a friend, it works fine. Make sure one person is responsible for you, and they know not to leave or get distracted until you're finished. They can have their own fun after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so much guys haven’t been able to find much info on this subject. Looks like I’ll only be involved if I have someone with me! X

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It depends on exactly what's going on, but you could still at least observe, or participate in a limited way. Don't exclude yourself from the fun altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep vigilant. Others will help police too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't experienced an orgy as such, it was 'just' a party. But two guys did try to go bareback, seemed a bit sheepish when I pointed out safe sex only.

I always carry condoms with me when I go to a club or a party, it saves 'I have no condoms on me' excuse from the guy. But yes, you still need to remain vigilant, unfortunately, or have a wingman with you who'd look out for you without getting distracted.

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Always new condom with each partner also if doing anal new condom before vaginal sex. Must give respect at all times.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"In practice I've no idea but in theory it should be new partner new condom or it's just the men that are semi protected . I doubt if people wash hands, use mouthwash etc between partners so it's a riskier business anyway"

The use of mouthwash at an orgy extends the meaning of the phrase "Do you spit or swallow? "

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