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"Take condoms (obvious,but you'd be amazed), lube, wet wipes, spare makeup and any toys you want. If the place has its own bar, you'll want some cash for that. Also, if there's a hot tub check if towels are supplied - most places do, but you don't want to be stuck drip-drying mid-party. Unless there's a specific dress code, it's usually smart casual for the gents (no t-shirts, no jeans, no trainers) and risque as you like for the ladies." Thank you! | |||
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 I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there? "Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons 
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club." To be honest, women, and particularly single women, can get away with a lot. And I think a lot more leeway is given if you're new. Wear whatever you're comfortable in. I've seen all sorts of outfits at the club I go to. If you have a local friend with experience of clubs, invite them over to go through your wardrobe with you. If you're used to seeing your clothes as unsexy, a fresh pair of eyes that see them as they really are will help. I'm sure you'll have something you look good in. It doesn't have to be "sexy" (you provide that), and you definitely don't need heels. But check with the club first. They might have particular rules. It will help to call them, as what's described on the web site might be what many people choose to wear, not what you have to wear. | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there? "Me too So far we only attend Spas where I can slip straight into a towel for the evening Heels & me = broken ankle & im pretty sure a trip to A&E isn’t sexy | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
S "Omg! I would be there every weekend!
I'm glad I'm not alone with this tho.
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. To be honest, women, and particularly single women, can get away with a lot. And I think a lot more leeway is given if you're new. Wear whatever you're comfortable in. I've seen all sorts of outfits at the club I go to. If you have a local friend with experience of clubs, invite them over to go through your wardrobe with you. If you're used to seeing your clothes as unsexy, a fresh pair of eyes that see them as they really are will help. I'm sure you'll have something you look good in. It doesn't have to be "sexy" (you provide that), and you definitely don't need heels. But check with the club first. They might have particular rules. It will help to call them, as what's described on the web site might be what many people choose to wear, not what you have to wear." I might advertise on a thread for someone to raid my wardrobe "Queer eye" style...tho perhaps only when my self esteem can take it 
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"Hey, we're meeting some friends at a club tomorrow but not 100% sure on what to take or wear, can anyone give us any advice? " Depends on the club. Which one you going to? A lot provide condoms/towels/etc. Don’t worry too much about what to wear. Quite quickly you’ll notice everyone dressing down. So nice lingerie, or a basque, just a towel, or even naked. Whatever you feel comfortable in. Good luck x | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
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Me too
So far we only attend Spas where I can slip straight into a towel for the evening
Heels & me = broken ankle & im pretty sure a trip to A&E isn’t sexy "I usually joke I can't wear heels as they give me nosebleeds, someone actually believed me once.  | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
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Me too
So far we only attend Spas where I can slip straight into a towel for the evening
Heels & me = broken ankle & im pretty sure a trip to A&E isn’t sexy
I usually joke I can't wear heels as they give me nosebleeds, someone actually believed me once. "I can manage a small heel but anything too big and I call them sit down and look pretty shoes lol | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
S "You know I'm totally up for that club too xx | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Me too
So far we only attend Spas where I can slip straight into a towel for the evening
Heels & me = broken ankle & im pretty sure a trip to A&E isn’t sexy
I usually joke I can't wear heels as they give me nosebleeds, someone actually believed me once.
I can manage a small heel but anything too big and I call them sit down and look pretty shoes lol
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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"Hey, we're meeting some friends at a club tomorrow but not 100% sure on what to take or wear, can anyone give us any advice? " a decorative lanyard to hold your debit card but that has a waterproof pouch and a selfie stick not for taking pics you're not allowed to prod unwanted pervs with lol | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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You know I'm totally up for that club too xx"Oh I know you are! Only if it’s thewife, I’d rather you naked toooooo 
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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You know I'm totally up for that club too xx
Oh I know you are! Only if it’s thewife, I’d rather you naked toooooo
"Likewise, you know if we're together clothes won't be on for long xx | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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You know I'm totally up for that club too xx
Oh I know you are! Only if it’s thewife, I’d rather you naked toooooo
Likewise, you know if we're together clothes won't be on for long xx"Exactly, on a good night pretty much everyone ends up naked | |||
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"Hey, we're meeting some friends at a club tomorrow but not 100% sure on what to take or wear, can anyone give us any advice? " when it comes to ladies and couple, female I think tend to to take 1 or 2 outfits I think and whatever toys she likes most | |||
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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Omg! I would be there every weekend!
I'm glad I'm not alone with this tho.
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"To be fair, the dress code is the only thing that puts me off going to a club. I live in jeans n converse and I'd struggle to find anything I own fitting into the "sexy" definition. I can't walk in heels without looking like a baby elephant on stilts. Lol
Maybe there's a clubwear personal shopper out there?
Yes girl!! I am 100% the same lol and I feel awkward as fuck in a club when I’m “dressed up”. Don’t get wrong, I love stockings and a good looking basque but my go to is hoodies, vest tops, jeans and cons
Perhaps I’ll start my own club lol. Men must be naked at all times ladies can wear their Pj’s if they want lol
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You know I'm totally up for that club too xx
Oh I know you are! Only if it’s thewife, I’d rather you naked toooooo
Likewise, you know if we're together clothes won't be on for long xx"Was there even clothes in the first place?
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"Hey, we're meeting some friends at a club tomorrow but not 100% sure on what to take or wear, can anyone give us any advice? " on my first club visit I wore short shirt when I got changed I just had G string on a little bra but had covered up with the robe they give you when your relaxed you can let it down and go from there. just go to room and watch but be prepared for the single men following you around it makes you feel uncomftable | |||
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