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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant for this to be posted in the lounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is sex overrated? Yes! Although I am quite biased, I haven't had any in quite a long time so I say that to make myself feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

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I dare say it's gone on an extended summer break with mine

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is sex overrated? Yes! Although I am quite biased, I haven't had any in quite a long time so I say that to make myself feel better. "

Things are less complicated when you're not having sex.

I prefer food at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

I dare say it's gone on an extended summer break with mine "

I hope they're enjoying themselves

Because I'm left here bored rigid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring. "

Haha why is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo overrated I get more outa self pleasure these days

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring.

Haha why is that?"

People go on about it so much and attach so many petty rules to it. A thread on here ran for about 100 messages all discussing ways to say no. Gets on my nerves lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Defo overrated I get more outa self pleasure these days "

It's so much easier to have a lady wank isn't it

No having to get ready, no awkwardness, no disappointment.

I cum every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is sex overrated? Yes! Although I am quite biased, I haven't had any in quite a long time so I say that to make myself feel better.

Things are less complicated when you're not having sex.

I prefer food at the moment "

Same, that might be why I am not getting any. . I do make you right on life being less complicated as a result of not having sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring.

Haha why is that?

People go on about it so much and attach so many petty rules to it. A thread on here ran for about 100 messages all discussing ways to say no. Gets on my nerves lol "

Maybe it's time for a Fab break for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo overrated I get more outa self pleasure these days

It's so much easier to have a lady wank isn't it

No having to get ready, no awkwardness, no disappointment.

Yip can please myself for as long as I like and hit major orgasm, a guy can never take me to where I can take myself

I cum every time "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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When I get the meh I embrace it. My libido isn't unwaveringly high and it feels like a bloody lot of effort to meet. You might change your mind closer to the weekend; fannies are fickle things.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring.

Haha why is that?

People go on about it so much and attach so many petty rules to it. A thread on here ran for about 100 messages all discussing ways to say no. Gets on my nerves lol

Maybe it's time for a Fab break for you "

Thanks - I appreciate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get the meh I embrace it. My libido isn't unwaveringly high and it feels like a bloody lot of effort to meet. You might change your mind closer to the weekend; fannies are fickle things. "

In my head I'm like go get ready and put some effort in you have fanny flutters, hahaha but I like to kick back with my toys not boys

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"When I get the meh I embrace it. My libido isn't unwaveringly high and it feels like a bloody lot of effort to meet. You might change your mind closer to the weekend; fannies are fickle things. "

They’re all cunts in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is like air sometimes.

It's only important if you're not getting any!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I get the meh I embrace it. My libido isn't unwaveringly high and it feels like a bloody lot of effort to meet. You might change your mind closer to the weekend; fannies are fickle things. "

My fanny is definitely fickle

She constantly changes her mind and behaves like a cunt

I've been embracing Netflix and wine for too many weekends now I need my mojo to come back before my fickle fanny goes completely grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. I can't think of much better than giving pleasure to a woman and making sure she is satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex is like air sometimes.

It's only important if you're not getting any! "

Haha this is so true!

I feel obliged to have sex at the moment

But I secretly can't be arsed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no. I can't think of much better than giving pleasure to a woman and making sure she is satisfied. "

I here that all the time, my last meet and his verifications all appeared great I left unsatisfied sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather the lady is satisfied more than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix "
sex has its moments I think, I think the more you do it the less enjoyable it gets, leaving it for say 2 or 3 weeks what a difference that makes certainly for me to any sexual encounter, it's more intense and exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is like air sometimes.

It's only important if you're not getting any!

Haha this is so true!

I feel obliged to have sex at the moment

But I secretly can't be arsed!"

And having just perused your pictures it'd be a waste of talent not to enjoy yourself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hell no. I can't think of much better than giving pleasure to a woman and making sure she is satisfied.

I here that all the time, my last meet and his verifications all appeared great I left unsatisfied sadly

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Sex with strangers is almost always unsatisfactory after the kid in a sweet shop mentality is over.

I'm trying to push my boundaries at the moment to try and get me mojo back - but to be honest it's not doing it for me.

I would rather get to know someone and have a regular thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no. I can't think of much better than giving pleasure to a woman and making sure she is satisfied.

I here that all the time, my last meet and his verifications all appeared great I left unsatisfied sadly

The find of regular guy on here is so fkn hard, harder that some cocks you see lol..

I totally feel the same, but feel I lead the conversations o feel like a copper at times, so just gonna see what happens I'm never in a rush to meet so be aswell to stick with toys until I feel a good connection n maybe then take things further,

Sex with strangers is almost always unsatisfactory after the kid in a sweet shop mentality is over.

I'm trying to push my boundaries at the moment to try and get me mojo back - but to be honest it's not doing it for me.

I would rather get to know someone and have a regular thing."

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Could it be planetary too. Things beyond your control can govern your labido.

Give it time or consult Professor Brian Cox.

Xxxc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could it be planetary too. Things beyond your control can govern your labido.

Give it time or consult Professor Brian Cox.

Xxxc"

Brian looks quite shaggable - I like the clever ones

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Benidorm SPAIN

Good sex is never overrated, we try to avoid situations that would fail in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go though stages , where I don’t meet anyone for ages , and then there’s time I go crazy and meet. I find I prefer to stick to people I’ve already met though x

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Defo overrated I get more outa self pleasure these days

It's so much easier to have a lady wank isn't it

No having to get ready, no awkwardness, no disappointment.

I cum every time "

So it’s not a physical issue. Aha, I see the root cause, you’ve set your age filters far too low and as a result have yet to experience the incredible sensation and joy of a sexual encounter with a sixty something male. Best sex a woman can ever get. A fact confirmed in extensive research by Sydney University.

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

The last time I had sex it was pretty fucking good, but then I have had opportunities to meet since and just couldn’t be arsed to through the whole process. Maybe it is overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo overrated I get more outa self pleasure these days

It's so much easier to have a lady wank isn't it

No having to get ready, no awkwardness, no disappointment.

I cum every time

I'd endup calling him daddy lmao

So it’s not a physical issue. Aha, I see the root cause, you’ve set your age filters far too low and as a result have yet to experience the incredible sensation and joy of a sexual encounter with a sixty something male. Best sex a woman can ever get. A fact confirmed in extensive research by Sydney University. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix "

I think that I’m rather young to be thinking the same, though, I do tend to agree.

It’s become rather monotonous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without connection yes.. sex with connection no, i never neet & fuck.. just doesnt interest me and have no drive for that id sooner stay home & watch a documentary on baboons.

Id rather have 100 meets with the right person build tension, lust for her read her learn her then when it happens its mind blowing time after time... that keeps my fire alive

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring.

Haha why is that?

People go on about it so much and attach so many petty rules to it. A thread on here ran for about 100 messages all discussing ways to say no. Gets on my nerves lol "

there is only one way to say no ffs !!! its NO!!!! lol and sex aint over rated to me I still love it at 60 lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"This site knocks most of the horniness out of me. It actually makes sex boring. "

Quite often the same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex without connection yes.. sex with connection no, i never neet & fuck.. just doesnt interest me and have no drive for that id sooner stay home & watch a documentary on baboons.

Id rather have 100 meets with the right person build tension, lust for her read her learn her then when it happens its mind blowing time after time... that keeps my fire alive"

Most people on here want to meet and fuck.

They say they want a connection- but the only connection they want is their penis connected to a part of your body

I'm not saying it's a bad thing - but rubbing body parts with strangers is mostly boring.

Unless I've had a couple of glasses of wine

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I do find my love affair with the tele/playstation and fridge/snack cupboard tend to take over me sometimes.

I think being single makes me fickle even when I'm horny.

I know what you mean about clever ones. I've got the hots for Emma Barnett, Newsnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo overrated I get more outa self pleasure these days "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe what you need is a LTR with someone who can enjoy the swinging scene with you. Then you have the best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe what you need is a LTR with someone who can enjoy the swinging scene with you. Then you have the best of both worlds. "

I don't know what I want anymore

Mostly wine and things with cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex without connection yes.. sex with connection no, i never neet & fuck.. just doesnt interest me and have no drive for that id sooner stay home & watch a documentary on baboons.

Id rather have 100 meets with the right person build tension, lust for her read her learn her then when it happens its mind blowing time after time... that keeps my fire alive

Most people on here want to meet and fuck.

They say they want a connection- but the only connection they want is their penis connected to a part of your body

I'm not saying it's a bad thing - but rubbing body parts with strangers is mostly boring.

Unless I've had a couple of glasses of wine

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Agree most do. Then you find that one diamond

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex without connection yes.. sex with connection no, i never neet & fuck.. just doesnt interest me and have no drive for that id sooner stay home & watch a documentary on baboons.

Id rather have 100 meets with the right person build tension, lust for her read her learn her then when it happens its mind blowing time after time... that keeps my fire alive

Most people on here want to meet and fuck.

They say they want a connection- but the only connection they want is their penis connected to a part of your body

I'm not saying it's a bad thing - but rubbing body parts with strangers is mostly boring.

Unless I've had a couple of glasses of wine

Agree most do. Then you find that one diamond "

Aww good for you - there have been a lot of Fab luuuuurve stories recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe what you need is a LTR with someone who can enjoy the swinging scene with you. Then you have the best of both worlds.

I don't know what I want anymore

Mostly wine and things with cheese "
Hey i havnt seen cheese and biscuits on a menu for ages was in a pub the other day and was on menu so I ordered it £6.25 omg I nearly couldn’t finish it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe what you need is a LTR with someone who can enjoy the swinging scene with you. Then you have the best of both worlds.

I don't know what I want anymore

Mostly wine and things with cheese Hey i havnt seen cheese and biscuits on a menu for ages was in a pub the other day and was on menu so I ordered it £6.25 omg I nearly couldn’t finish it "

Cheese and biscuits are far better and more delicious than some of the sex on offer on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe what you need is a LTR with someone who can enjoy the swinging scene with you. Then you have the best of both worlds.

I don't know what I want anymore

Mostly wine and things with cheese Hey i havnt seen cheese and biscuits on a menu for ages was in a pub the other day and was on menu so I ordered it £6.25 omg I nearly couldn’t finish it

Cheese and biscuits are far better and more delicious than some of the sex on offer on here "
If you love cheese you would have loved that, I may just order it as my meal next time

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

No, with the right person that gets your mind and filth, but with the wrong person yes, overrated when you are not fulfilled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, with the right person that gets your mind and filth, but with the wrong person yes, overrated when you are not fulfilled."

Exactly - sex with randoms is just body parts rubbing together - I have my own hand / toys for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix "

pjs wine and netflix great idea. Did that at the weekend total chill out when I could have been out. Has to be done.

No, I love sex, it is very much under rated and not lost my mojo. I did awhile back but found it again and on the hunt for a good sexy guy to drop by...which they have! When people on fab chat or text and then fob me off by saying yes lets arrange something then change their mind or cant because they have a wife who does not know about him being on here can change my thoughts yeah fuck em lets party with wine and netflix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is sex overrated? Yes! Although I am quite biased, I haven't had any in quite a long time so I say that to make myself feel better. "

what makes it overrated for you?

I love it give me more! Sex can relieve a lot of tensions and make you feel so damn good. Others think sex is a chore and a bore and you cannot rate sex or can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is sex overrated? Yes! Although I am quite biased, I haven't had any in quite a long time so I say that to make myself feel better.

what makes it overrated for you?

I love it give me more! Sex can relieve a lot of tensions and make you feel so damn good. Others think sex is a chore and a bore and you cannot rate sex or can you?"

It's not overrated (at least good sex anyhow), I was just saying that because it has been a while, I was making light of it.

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Nope sorry, sex is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends who you are having sex with and what you expect from sex with that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends who you are having sex with and what you expect from sex with that person "

Agree, you only receive as much as you give but it is too easy accessible maybe that's why...

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix "

I think foreplay, the chase, flirting, etc is far far better than the actual sex so you're not alone in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's over-hyped OP. Probably too much of a good thing takes the edge off. I blame the media ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, with the right person that gets your mind and filth, but with the wrong person yes, overrated when you are not fulfilled.

Exactly - sex with randoms is just body parts rubbing together - I have my own hand / toys for that "

Agreed with totally. Find the right person who gets your mind working, then everything else after is amazing. Even the smallest of touches can get me going with that person

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

The day I say sex is overrated is the day I hang up my spurs....

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

With the right person it’s mind blowing ... with the wrong one it’s a damp squib ,,...It’s the right person at the moment ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have the energy or enthusiasm to compete

Becoming more happy in my own company

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix "

Nothing wrong with with just a night in with wine, Netflix and PJ the best threesome ever.

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By *uracell-DannyMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I would not necessarily agree with the assertion that sex is overrated.

I would draw a distinction between sex and intamcy. You can explore being intimate without being physical...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends who you are having sex with and what you expect from sex with that person

Agree, you only receive as much as you give but it is too easy accessible maybe that's why... "

For a single female, it is ridiculously easy to access on here... I have had some fucking amazing sex with some great guys. Infact I have had some of the best sex of my life, so accessibility doesn't make it easily over rated, in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With the right person it’s mind blowing ... with the wrong one it’s a damp squib ,,...It’s the right person at the moment .."

Yes I just haven't met anyone that's right for a long time

I normally meet when I'm lonely to be honest and that just makes it even more depressing!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Haven't been in the mood for a while. That could be a problem if it runs into years. Oh, wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be very much overrated. But at the same time is that because of the people / person you are with?

We go through dry spells with each other and then rampant again.

Sex always feels good but so does chocolate. Just everything in its right place and right time that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get, the more I come to the conclusion that yes, yes it is.

At least it's certainly proving to be not worth the effort that men (and to an extent couples) have to put in to get it.

In all honesty if I stacked up the amount of time I have wasted on here on no-shows and ghosts trying to find a playmate for L and myself and then billed myself at minimum wage I could probably pay for weekly escorts until I was in my 50s. By which point I don't anticipate my unit will still be working or that I'll want to put down my ovaltine to use it :P

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I go with the view this could be my last time.... make it fucking amazing!

Is sex overrated - absolutely not!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

If you're having good sex, then no way is it over rated. If all you are doing is going through the motions, then yeah it definitely can be.

People have talked about connection - this is can be over rated. It is great if you get it but in truth you do not know if they're any good until you're in bed fucking. You could get along great chatting but if they are wooden or lethargic, then it's not going to be any fun. Some one night stands have been outstanding for me with barely a message exchanged, others there's been great anticipation from messages, meals out and laughs only for it to be a complete lame duck.

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By *ilentnoiseMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix "

What you are feeling is a reflection of what you need right now and it doesn’t sound like casual sex with randoms is it. Like everything in life, our sexual desire ebbs and flows. Don’t try to force your mojo to come back. Let your body and mind do that naturally. Listen to what your feelings are telling you right now - what you crave is connection and something more than just the physical. Take your time. P.S. sorry if that all sounds a bit ‘dear Deirdre-ish’.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix

What you are feeling is a reflection of what you need right now and it doesn’t sound like casual sex with randoms is it. Like everything in life, our sexual desire ebbs and flows. Don’t try to force your mojo to come back. Let your body and mind do that naturally. Listen to what your feelings are telling you right now - what you crave is connection and something more than just the physical. Take your time. P.S. sorry if that all sounds a bit ‘dear Deirdre-ish’. "

Haha I think you're right Deirdre

I've been thinking for a while now that's it's time for a Fab break.

I'm unsure of how to meet people though - the same men are on all the dating sites - and I work with mainly women

I officially give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day I say sex is overrated is the day I hang up my spurs...."
My God you have spurs and a stetson

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By *ilentnoiseMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix

What you are feeling is a reflection of what you need right now and it doesn’t sound like casual sex with randoms is it. Like everything in life, our sexual desire ebbs and flows. Don’t try to force your mojo to come back. Let your body and mind do that naturally. Listen to what your feelings are telling you right now - what you crave is connection and something more than just the physical. Take your time. P.S. sorry if that all sounds a bit ‘dear Deirdre-ish’.

Haha I think you're right Deirdre

I've been thinking for a while now that's it's time for a Fab break.

I'm unsure of how to meet people though - the same men are on all the dating sites - and I work with mainly women

I officially give up!"

Have you thought about giving meet up a try and searching for events in your area? I think it’s a great way to meet new people without the focus being on sex. It shifts the whole agenda from sexual to social.

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over a year ago


"Has anyone seen my mojo?

It's run away, along with giving any fucks about meeting anyone new.

Do you find yourselves in the middle of things you think you 'should ' be enjoying but finding it all a bit meh ..

Instead of the MMF I had planned for next weekend I quite fancy staying at home in my PJ,s with wine and Netflix

What you are feeling is a reflection of what you need right now and it doesn’t sound like casual sex with randoms is it. Like everything in life, our sexual desire ebbs and flows. Don’t try to force your mojo to come back. Let your body and mind do that naturally. Listen to what your feelings are telling you right now - what you crave is connection and something more than just the physical. Take your time. P.S. sorry if that all sounds a bit ‘dear Deirdre-ish’.

Haha I think you're right Deirdre

I've been thinking for a while now that's it's time for a Fab break.

I'm unsure of how to meet people though - the same men are on all the dating sites - and I work with mainly women

I officially give up!

Have you thought about giving meet up a try and searching for events in your area? I think it’s a great way to meet new people without the focus being on sex. It shifts the whole agenda from sexual to social. "

I have looked at that - but it gives me anxiety a little bit lol.

I'm not really a group activities kind of gal.

I'm OK with my own company - I'm used to it x

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over a year ago

I go to every meeting with the intention of making something interesting happen. I go to meetings intending to do my best to make it work for the other person and I find that, whether it works or not, I always come away with something interesting I've learnt about the other or about myself. Whether I cum or not is actually a secondary consideration.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Sex alone yes, sex with the right person and added extras no

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