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"Hi we haven't gone this far yet. But have any couples allowed a bull to totally take charge of them?" This is something we enjoy | |||
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"Hi we haven't gone this far yet. But have any couples allowed a bull to totally take charge of them? This is something we enjoy" That sounds hot. What kind of things does he make you do? | |||
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"Just like to fuck in front of my husband" Do you let bull fill you with spunk | |||
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"Every time. That’s the whole point" Exactly true bull play | |||
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"Every time. That’s the whole point" Mmmm | |||
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"Do you mean take charge as in rule the whole relationship ? That what a bull does I thought " The ultimate relationship, once all accept their role. | |||
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"Do you mean take charge as in rule the whole relationship ? That what a bull does I thought " No, it’s really not. It might be what a small percentage of couples want but for most you have a very specific role to fill and you have no part to play in the rest of their lives. Mike from the keys and anklets podcast uses a great analogy about the roles of a Cuckoldstress, her Cuck and her bull. Think of it like Star Wars. The Cuckoldstress is Princess Leia and her Cuck is Luke Skywalker. The Bull is Darth Vader. He’s still got a main part, but he’s got very limited screen time and his job is to make a big impact in a very short space of time. | |||
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"Degrading hubby and make him do duties ?" we used to meet a cockhold Cpl and john used to real degrade him and he loved it cockhold is that. | |||
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"Yes but ultimately hotwife is really the one in charge We have started seeing a dom guy regularly and he totally doms sissy verbally and physically makes the sissy rim him and gag on his cock , Sissy has to take my panties off for him and put his cock in me . Even making sissy take him up the ass before spraying his spunk over the sissy face . So all good we think ." Seems like a true hot wife relationship. Nice profile. Is sissy locked 24/7?   | |||
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"Yes but ultimately hotwife is really the one in charge We have started seeing a dom guy regularly and he totally doms sissy verbally and physically makes the sissy rim him and gag on his cock , Sissy has to take my panties off for him and put his cock in me . Even making sissy take him up the ass before spraying his spunk over the sissy face . So all good we think ." love the pics, lucky cuck. | |||
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"We enjoy reverse rolls cuck queening, so always on the lookout for a couple who may enjoy this interaction. " We both seem to get a kick out of the bit of jealousy she gets from being made to watch. Cleaning up etc or sharing chastity with another cuck etc | |||
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"We enjoy reverse rolls cuck queening, so always on the lookout for a couple who may enjoy this interaction. We both seem to get a kick out of the bit of jealousy she gets from being made to watch. Cleaning up etc or sharing chastity with another cuck etc" We've yet to try this but it's something we're both keen! I (female) like being degraded and humiliated so I think I'd really enjoy this. C has made me perform clean up after he's finished before in a swap scenario that was hot! | |||
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"We enjoy reverse rolls cuck queening, so always on the lookout for a couple who may enjoy this interaction. We both seem to get a kick out of the bit of jealousy she gets from being made to watch. Cleaning up etc or sharing chastity with another cuck etc We've yet to try this but it's something we're both keen! I (female) like being degraded and humiliated so I think I'd really enjoy this. C has made me perform clean up after he's finished before in a swap scenario that was hot!"  | |||
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"Yes but ultimately hotwife is really the one in charge We have started seeing a dom guy regularly and he totally doms sissy verbally and physically makes the sissy rim him and gag on his cock , Sissy has to take my panties off for him and put his cock in me . Even making sissy take him up the ass before spraying his spunk over the sissy face . So all good we think ." | |||
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"Hi I think we are like Skipton couple but love to a little further and allow the Bull more control. Sounds stupid when you write it but maybe he decides how I dress have my hair done etc. Sorry guys I'm rambling lol" I do this with a couple I have been seeing | |||
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"Do you mean take charge as in rule the whole relationship ? That what a bull does I thought No, it’s really not. It might be what a small percentage of couples want but for most you have a very specific role to fill and you have no part to play in the rest of their lives. Mike from the keys and anklets podcast uses a great analogy about the roles of a Cuckoldstress, her Cuck and her bull. Think of it like Star Wars. The Cuckoldstress is Princess Leia and her Cuck is Luke Skywalker. The Bull is Darth Vader. He’s still got a main part, but he’s got very limited screen time and his job is to make a big impact in a very short space of time. " That's a whole lot of inc3st!  | |||
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"Do you mean take charge as in rule the whole relationship ? That what a bull does I thought No, it’s really not. It might be what a small percentage of couples want but for most you have a very specific role to fill and you have no part to play in the rest of their lives. Mike from the keys and anklets podcast uses a great analogy about the roles of a Cuckoldstress, her Cuck and her bull. Think of it like Star Wars. The Cuckoldstress is Princess Leia and her Cuck is Luke Skywalker. The Bull is Darth Vader. He’s still got a main part, but he’s got very limited screen time and his job is to make a big impact in a very short space of time. That's a whole lot of inc3st! "Lol | |||
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"I don't think what your saying op is extreme ? it seems the norm with cuckold couples from a sexual point of view when a guy vists me as soon as hes in the door (regular guys this is) he takes charge as im submissive and cucky does as hes told" Exactly this however in group chat with her Bull between meets there is still very much a hierarchy that I as the cuck am expected to follow! | |||
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"Extreme is when the bull chooses other people for the wife to please with out the couple having any say, in my opinion" The Cuckoldstress is very much the one in charge, not the Bull - something that’s misunderstood by many | |||
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"Please can someone explain what cuckolding or extreme cuckolding means as I always thought it just meant when someone in a marriage has an unsolicited affair? " In its dictionary sense then yes it is. In the sexual sense for most there is more consent involved. As for extreme cuckolding, well that is in the eye of the beholder. One persons extreme is anothers standard fare. Most of the extreme cuckolding I have heard of I have my doubts about, I'm sure a limited number of people do it but there are only a few I believe as it can involve life changing circumstances. E.g. Total denial Emotional pain Divorce I doubt most would chose that path as effectively finishes with the cuck being left behind. Were as for most cuckolding is an experience to be shared. Like I say most of the extreme stuff I have my doubts about. | |||
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"Please can someone explain what cuckolding or extreme cuckolding means as I always thought it just meant when someone in a marriage has an unsolicited affair? " Many get confused between what the porn industry portrays and what genuine cuckold couples practice. In the simplest sense the Cuck (the Male in the relationship) allows his wife / partner to sleep with other men (Bulls). Cuckolding tends to involve more of a humiliation aspect. Stag & Vixen is much more positive - the guy isn’t a Cuck (he’s a proud stag) and he wants to share his partner Hot wifing is a bit of catch all - lots in this general dynamic use and it can mean many things. We are more of a hot wife couple (not cuckold as it’s very positive for us and no humiliation involved and not Stag & Vixen as it’s me (Mrs Twinkle) who actively decides who I like the look of!). And yes it’s 100% consensual for us! | |||
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"Please can someone explain what cuckolding or extreme cuckolding means as I always thought it just meant when someone in a marriage has an unsolicited affair? In its dictionary sense then yes it is. In the sexual sense for most there is more consent involved. As for extreme cuckolding, well that is in the eye of the beholder. One persons extreme is anothers standard fare. Most of the extreme cuckolding I have heard of I have my doubts about, I'm sure a limited number of people do it but there are only a few I believe as it can involve life changing circumstances. E.g. Total denial Emotional pain Divorce I doubt most would chose that path as effectively finishes with the cuck being left behind. Were as for most cuckolding is an experience to be shared. Like I say most of the extreme stuff I have my doubts about. " So from reading that I've been cuckold. I never been an exhibitionist as I always see sex as a private intimate affair... But one of my fantasy is to bed a married man who wife offered him to me.. What's that classified as?  definitely believe in consentual sex for all parties | |||
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"Do for future reference, when a guy messages me asking if I'm interested in cuckolding, he means his wife given him permission to sleep with someone else I.e me? " The cuckold tends to be the male, who is sharing their partner. In your fantasy, the wife would be the cuckold (although there is a different term - cuckcake rings a bell). If a male contacted you who wants to be a cuckold, then I suspect they want to start a relationship with you on the understanding that you would take other lovers. There are quite a few couples on here who would happily take you up on sharing their husbands. | |||
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"Do for future reference, when a guy messages me asking if I'm interested in cuckolding, he means his wife given him permission to sleep with someone else I.e me? " In this instance, I would assume the guy wants you to cuckold him. So he watches you with other men. | |||
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"Please can someone explain what cuckolding or extreme cuckolding means as I always thought it just meant when someone in a marriage has an unsolicited affair? In its dictionary sense then yes it is. In the sexual sense for most there is more consent involved. As for extreme cuckolding, well that is in the eye of the beholder. One persons extreme is anothers standard fare. Most of the extreme cuckolding I have heard of I have my doubts about, I'm sure a limited number of people do it but there are only a few I believe as it can involve life changing circumstances. E.g. Total denial Emotional pain Divorce I doubt most would chose that path as effectively finishes with the cuck being left behind. Were as for most cuckolding is an experience to be shared. Like I say most of the extreme stuff I have my doubts about. So from reading that I've been cuckold. I never been an exhibitionist as I always see sex as a private intimate affair... But one of my fantasy is to bed a married man who wife offered him to me.. What's that classified as? definitely believe in consentual sex for all parties"It’s called CuckQueening when it’s the other way round... or sometimes people refer to a Hot Husband. There’s been a fair few forum posts about it! A lot less common this way round but definitely still a thing! | |||
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"Please can someone explain what cuckolding or extreme cuckolding means as I always thought it just meant when someone in a marriage has an unsolicited affair? In its dictionary sense then yes it is. In the sexual sense for most there is more consent involved. As for extreme cuckolding, well that is in the eye of the beholder. One persons extreme is anothers standard fare. Most of the extreme cuckolding I have heard of I have my doubts about, I'm sure a limited number of people do it but there are only a few I believe as it can involve life changing circumstances. E.g. Total denial Emotional pain Divorce I doubt most would chose that path as effectively finishes with the cuck being left behind. Were as for most cuckolding is an experience to be shared. Like I say most of the extreme stuff I have my doubts about. So from reading that I've been cuckold. I never been an exhibitionist as I always see sex as a private intimate affair... But one of my fantasy is to bed a married man who wife offered him to me.. What's that classified as? definitely believe in consentual sex for all parties
It’s called CuckQueening when it’s the other way round... or sometimes people refer to a Hot Husband. There’s been a fair few forum posts about it!
A lot less common this way round but definitely still a thing!"Yes great fun love it or put the cuck with the queen to watch etc | |||
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"Spend 5 years in a cuckold relationship, for the first year S just dated a few guys, sometimes she told me about her meets, other times she would tell me after that fact, I think she needed to know to could handle the relationship and tested me to see if I accepted the situation...when she told me that she wanted a long term boyfriend, and that she has found Neil that she was attracted to mind and body, I told her that I wanted that for her, S was surprised at this, she said that if she developed a relationship with Neil then she would be his, she did not want to feel like a slut being taken by me and Neil, so we agree that I would give up all rights to S... i told her that I was happy with it and wanted her to take Neil as her lover, when S told me that she already gad feelings for Neil and that if we did this she would fall in loved with him, i reassured her that I would help her fall in line with him if that's what she wanted...I asked if she wanted him more than me...she said him, but he was not the type of guy that wanted a gf relationship, so leading a cuckold relationship was right for them both...S kept telling me she was sorry and that she was being unfair on me...I told her that I wanted this for her...and if she wanted to leave me for him then I would help her, we spent another 4 years together, until Neil wanted a real relationship with S...And asked her to leave me, in truth she left me years earlier...i was there to facilitate the situation which we both accepted...I helped S move into Neil's ... and agreed that I would not see anyone else until she was sure their relationship would work...after 3 Months apart she was happy lining with Neil and made it official to her family and friends...at that point I had totally lost my gf if 5 yrs, i was in pain over it but was happy for her...that relationship ended over ten years ago, she was the love of my life and I let this happen just to make her happy, I'll never meet a woman like S again, but I'm glad I did...I miss her" We enjoy cuck fun and we’re dorry to pour cold water on anyone’s fantasies but this has just put us back a step. Quite scary. | |||
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"Spend 5 years in a cuckold relationship, for the first year S just dated a few guys, sometimes she told me about her meets, other times she would tell me after that fact, I think she needed to know to could handle the relationship and tested me to see if I accepted the situation...when she told me that she wanted a long term boyfriend, and that she has found Neil that she was attracted to mind and body, I told her that I wanted that for her, S was surprised at this, she said that if she developed a relationship with Neil then she would be his, she did not want to feel like a slut being taken by me and Neil, so we agree that I would give up all rights to S... i told her that I was happy with it and wanted her to take Neil as her lover, when S told me that she already gad feelings for Neil and that if we did this she would fall in loved with him, i reassured her that I would help her fall in line with him if that's what she wanted...I asked if she wanted him more than me...she said him, but he was not the type of guy that wanted a gf relationship, so leading a cuckold relationship was right for them both...S kept telling me she was sorry and that she was being unfair on me...I told her that I wanted this for her...and if she wanted to leave me for him then I would help her, we spent another 4 years together, until Neil wanted a real relationship with S...And asked her to leave me, in truth she left me years earlier...i was there to facilitate the situation which we both accepted...I helped S move into Neil's ... and agreed that I would not see anyone else until she was sure their relationship would work...after 3 Months apart she was happy lining with Neil and made it official to her family and friends...at that point I had totally lost my gf if 5 yrs, i was in pain over it but was happy for her...that relationship ended over ten years ago, she was the love of my life and I let this happen just to make her happy, I'll never meet a woman like S again, but I'm glad I did...I miss her We enjoy cuck fun and we’re dorry to pour cold water on anyone’s fantasies but this has just put us back a step. Quite scary. " can i ask why ??? you know each other and you know how strong you are ? but you want to go by something a single guy has wrote the may or may not be true ?? .. its been said often you have to be a strong together couple to be a cuckold couple ...i go by me and cuck i know no one can break our bond and i also know we are on the same page 100% dont worry what what others say because they failed ...if you have a good relationship and both want then there's no reason for it to go wrong as you both want it .... | |||
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"Do you mean take charge as in rule the whole relationship ? That what a bull does I thought No, it’s really not. It might be what a small percentage of couples want but for most you have a very specific role to fill and you have no part to play in the rest of their lives. Mike from the keys and anklets podcast uses a great analogy about the roles of a Cuckoldstress, her Cuck and her bull. Think of it like Star Wars. The Cuckoldstress is Princess Leia and her Cuck is Luke Skywalker. The Bull is Darth Vader. He’s still got a main part, but he’s got very limited screen time and his job is to make a big impact in a very short space of time. " You had me at Star Wars lol | |||
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"Please can someone explain what cuckolding or extreme cuckolding means as I always thought it just meant when someone in a marriage has an unsolicited affair? Many get confused between what the porn industry portrays and what genuine cuckold couples practice. In the simplest sense the Cuck (the Male in the relationship) allows his wife / partner to sleep with other men (Bulls). Cuckolding tends to involve more of a humiliation aspect. Stag & Vixen is much more positive - the guy isn’t a Cuck (he’s a proud stag) and he wants to share his partner Hot wifing is a bit of catch all - lots in this general dynamic use and it can mean many things. We are more of a hot wife couple (not cuckold as it’s very positive for us and no humiliation involved and not Stag & Vixen as it’s me (Mrs Twinkle) who actively decides who I like the look of!). And yes it’s 100% consensual for us!" I think you mean Stag-Vixen is more positive for you as a couple. Different people have different tastes and sometime they can change over time. With regard to humiliation in my experience it is usually the wannabe/fantasist cuck that has the strongest desire to be humiliated. Those in an actual relationship hope to be humiliated by their partner with me there to facilitate the process as the wife/girlfriend gains confidence. | |||
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"Spend 5 years in a cuckold relationship, for the first year S just dated a few guys, sometimes she told me about her meets, other times she would tell me after that fact, I think she needed to know to could handle the relationship and tested me to see if I accepted the situation...when she told me that she wanted a long term boyfriend, and that she has found Neil that she was attracted to mind and body, I told her that I wanted that for her, S was surprised at this, she said that if she developed a relationship with Neil then she would be his, she did not want to feel like a slut being taken by me and Neil, so we agree that I would give up all rights to S... i told her that I was happy with it and wanted her to take Neil as her lover, when S told me that she already gad feelings for Neil and that if we did this she would fall in loved with him, i reassured her that I would help her fall in line with him if that's what she wanted...I asked if she wanted him more than me...she said him, but he was not the type of guy that wanted a gf relationship, so leading a cuckold relationship was right for them both...S kept telling me she was sorry and that she was being unfair on me...I told her that I wanted this for her...and if she wanted to leave me for him then I would help her, we spent another 4 years together, until Neil wanted a real relationship with S...And asked her to leave me, in truth she left me years earlier...i was there to facilitate the situation which we both accepted...I helped S move into Neil's ... and agreed that I would not see anyone else until she was sure their relationship would work...after 3 Months apart she was happy lining with Neil and made it official to her family and friends...at that point I had totally lost my gf if 5 yrs, i was in pain over it but was happy for her...that relationship ended over ten years ago, she was the love of my life and I let this happen just to make her happy, I'll never meet a woman like S again, but I'm glad I did...I miss her We enjoy cuck fun and we’re dorry to pour cold water on anyone’s fantasies but this has just put us back a step. Quite scary. " You can say that again. I became a Bull almost by accident I saw some similarities between my experiences as a BDSM Dom and cuckolding and noticed a lot of overlaps. A Dom is only a Dom because the sub gives him permission to be. A responsible Bull would never sabotage a relationship. I always consider it an honour when a couple lets me play a role in their sexual relationship and I have never failed to respect their boundaries whatever they might be. | |||
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"The main misconception for me is how much power the wife has. My previous experience as a bull learnt me that it's v much about the dynamic between the wife and the bull. Before the fun begins you have to respect that there is a deep love between cuck and wife. Only once you have that firmly established can you really get to the kinky stuff Obv my opinion xx" Agreed | |||
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"I make my cuck hubby swallow my bulls spunk direct from the bulls condom. I love to snip the end with scissors & watch him swallow the load. " This is exactly thecsort of cuckold couple that I, as a bull enjoy. They clearly understand and can articulate in practical terms wgat cuckolding means to them and what they want from the cuckold session and meet. Top cuckold couple ! | |||
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"The main misconception for me is how much power the wife has. My previous experience as a bull learnt me that it's v much about the dynamic between the wife and the bull. Before the fun begins you have to respect that there is a deep love between cuck and wife. Only once you have that firmly established can you really get to the kinky stuff Obv my opinion xx Agreed "Without Question | |||
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