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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Looking for something new to try with my very willing sub

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're going to have to be a little more specific. Soft and hard limits for instance?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

ffs i thought this was looking for sandwich suggestions!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What kind of thing does your sub enjoy? Are we talking punishment, task setting?

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Kettering

chicken marinara on a foot long whole grain??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have you done before, otherwise you're going to get a lot of suggestions for thiungs you might have done already...

One of my favs is the counting game, in the morning of the day you meet, you set your sub a counting task, how many times they think about sex that day, how many times they have looked at their phone to see if you've been in touch, you get the piture. Then when you meet, you ask them to give you the number, you can choose if the number if worthy of a treat or a punushment.

A variation couold involve timed check ins throughout the day, combined with a thought task, for instance, every hour on the hour, you ask for a sexual thought along a theme. Again, depending on how the task is completed, you reward or punish as is fit. This one can be made harder by playing with the time intervals, every odd numbered tap in (1, 3, 5, etc) is on the hour, every even one (2, 4, 6, etc) is off the hour.

When I play D/S, it is about tasks and how they are completed, from there good things, or great things happen, depending on your mindset and definition of good and great things...

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

Take her to a bar, dressed in normal clothes, so what comes next will be more of a surprise, and with instructions to choose a guy with smaller hands than you, she then has to get talking to him and explain that she really wants to try fisting but your hands are too big, would he please help her out as she takes a bottle of lube from her handbag.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Take her to a bar, dressed in normal clothes, so what comes next will be more of a surprise, and with instructions to choose a guy with smaller hands than you, she then has to get talking to him and explain that she really wants to try fisting but your hands are too big, would he please help her out as she takes a bottle of lube from her handbag."

Well back in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn it wrong forum topic, was going to suggest a Italian BMT on wheat toasted with cheese and honey mustard.

Hmmmmmmmm subs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a big yellow sub, that we can all live in?

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

You’ve probably already done these but I’ve been having mine wear an elastic band on his wrist and he has to snap it every time I text him SNAP wherever he is. I occasionally get him to snap it somewhere else....

S (Mrs)

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