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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please anyone who will say ahhh single male but has wife please don’t can I just have opinions on my situation let’s be honest I’m not the only one here.

Married long time kids house cars businesses etc etc busy life.

My sex drive Is through the roof my oh not so much but we manage a couple or three times a week. When we have sex we talk about all sorts threesomes gangbangs etc always oh bee pleasured by other men and occasionally women, she gets really wet and cums so hard when talking about BBC and loves the thought of been covered in cum or etc etc you get the idea.

Last week after having a drink I said I had arranged angangbang and the men were out side, she looked excited and nervous all at same time as was all a fluster. I was messing her around but we did have great sex after.

I’m not entirely sure what to do as when ever u try to talk to her when not having sex about looking for other men etc we just end up horny and fucking or something gets on the way.

What are people’s thought especially a female or couple POV is this just fantasy to her or should I press further as she would look amazing been pleasured.

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Create a new FAB account, something basic, bio reads “just looking around” or something like that. Say to her “just found this site, it’s all about the bbc and gangbangs etc that you want. Shall we take a look together?”

If she’s into it, get her to help you create a couples profile and then go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Create a new FAB account, something basic, bio reads “just looking around” or something like that. Say to her “just found this site, it’s all about the bbc and gangbangs etc that you want. Shall we take a look together?”

If she’s into it, get her to help you create a couples profile and then go from there. "

Thought about that but she know I would have “just found” as she knows me lol

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Create a new FAB account, something basic, bio reads “just looking around” or something like that. Say to her “just found this site, it’s all about the bbc and gangbangs etc that you want. Shall we take a look together?”

If she’s into it, get her to help you create a couples profile and then go from there.

Thought about that but she know I would have “just found” as she knows me lol "

That’s why I said create a new account. It says “just joined” or “joined 1 day ago” etc lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How about being completely honest with her. I know you said that something gets in the way when you talk about it or you end up having sex but that's just excuses. If you want to swing successfully you need to be able to communicate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make it sound like sex 2 or 3 times a week is bad? That is great in a lot of relationships outside of thier teens and twenties

As others have said, open a couples account and let her check it out suggest taking some naughty pics and upload them. Once she sees men wanting her then she may wish to take things further.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Have you thought about going to a secluded dogging spot after an evening drink? Could be fun for you both

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"How about being completely honest with her. I know you said that something gets in the way when you talk about it or you end up having sex but that's just excuses. If you want to swing successfully you need to be able to communicate. "

Bang on.

Total transparency.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"You make it sound like sex 2 or 3 times a week is bad? That is great in a lot of relationships outside of thier teens and twenties

As others have said, open a couples account and let her check it out suggest taking some naughty pics and upload them. Once she sees men wanting her then she may wish to take things further."

For what it's worth, a study broke down sexual frequency by age.

People under 30 have sex 112 times a year on average (over twice a week).

That frequency declines to 86 times a year among 30-39 year-old.

69 times annually for those aged 40-49.

Roughly 52 times yearly for couples in their fifties and beyond, according to research conducted at the Kinsey Institute in Indiana.

As others have said swinging is about being open about your sex life. So you need to start as you mean to go on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice taken

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