FabSwingers.com forum: Fisting advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So advise needed as a female friend is wanting me to fist her but I am worrying about getting it wrong and hurting her.

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Go slow, use lube, stay slow, use lots more lube. Listen to her. Enjoy

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Lube will help . Start with s finger and build up. Tuck thumb behind other fingers then is should all go in. Keep it well lube. It can often hurt more pulling it out

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Let her fist you, then you will appreciate what it is!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use good bait and go when it’s raining

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

There was a thread on this the other day... It's a bit of a while ago but I think I remember counting 7 different ways of fisting a woman.

If you go don't use enough lube, if she's not turned on, if you go too hard, if your hands are too big or at the wrong angle then yeah you could hurt her. You'll likely not succeed on first attempt but if she's wanting to try it, there'll be others so try different techniques then.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"So advise needed as a female friend is wanting me to fist her but I am worrying about getting it wrong and hurting her."

I'm sure she'll tell you if it hurts her. Go easy as others have said..lots luck and feel you way. Let her push back onto your fingers..fist. exciting, new experiences enjoy.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Lube not luck..yeah luck to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to her

Never rush, she has to be given time to relax and adjust

You can never use to much lube

And as somebody before mentioned, let her fist you, then you will learn and understand

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lube not luck..yeah luck to

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"So advise needed as a female friend is wanting me to fist her but I am worrying about getting it wrong and hurting her."

Lube... good lube not bad lube...

Try "Fist It" or Mister B Fist Extreme.

Serious the later desensitises to minimise pain, but be clean and careful, gentle, respond to the way her body responds, over time you can become more vigorous but the first few times you really need to just take it slowly.

And trust me durex play and all that shit = no good, get a specialist lube (regardless of the stupidity of its name!)

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

If it’s done right it doesn’t hurt - I’ve never had a woman tell me to stop because it hurts and I’ve done it with quite a few woman and introduced a few to it as well

A turned on woman and time are the key - it’s a beautiful thing when it works well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty online videos to watch sometimes a visual aid is very helpful fantastic experience if done right bloody sore if not ..

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"So advise needed as a female friend is wanting me to fist her but I am worrying about getting it wrong and hurting her."

You sound like a considerate guy OP that's a big part of any great experience.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

As others have said, listen to her, she'll be the first to tell you if it's too much etc. Build up to it, plenty of foreplay first so that she's aroused and plenty of lube. Her on her back is probably the best position for a first time as she can relax and maintaining eye contact can be really hot too

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

"So advise needed as a female friend is wanting me to fist her but I am worrying about getting it wrong and hurting her.

You sound like a considerate guy OP that's a big part of any great experience."

My thoughts exactly. Good luck OP

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though never managed it. I think the key is lots of line and let her push herself on to your fist. She can take control of the pain barriers then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

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couldn't agree with you more. It has got to be done the correct way. It's always good to see girls like yourself enjoy it and have obviously perfected the art of the fist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So advise needed as a female friend is wanting me to fist her but I am worrying about getting it wrong and hurting her."
Hey i had a friend got it up but couldn’t get it out they had to call for paramedic assistance

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By *exy Sarah and MichaelCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

We indulge in fishing a lot , and had a long session only last night x

Her body will guide you , don’t be frightened and don’t use too much lube would be our advice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

I'm nervous ??

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By *exy Sarah and MichaelCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

I'm nervous ??"

Nervous about what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

I'm nervous ??"

Plenty of lube. There isn’t such a thing as too much. Take it easy and don’t force it.

Make sure your nails are trimmed or wear a glove.

Both of you will enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

I'm nervous ??

Nervous about what ?"

Getting it right

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

I'm nervous ??"

Don’t be..... if she’s relaxed and you take it slow you’ll be fine.

Give you nails a trim and get in!!!

If it doesn’t happen the first time you can always try again. No different from anal really

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Go at her pace and use lots of lube

And don't be surprised at how much she can be,e or how much she urges you to fist her once you get going.... i thought my hands were too big for fisting but my friend convinced me otherwise... awesome when she is in the mood

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By *orneycouple18Couple
over a year ago

Eastleigh

I never thought I’d like it until I come home pissed one night!

Omg it’s amazing!

Slow, lube, one finger then add another! I have always been laid on my back but a lot of videos are of women in doggy position maybe I’ll try that as I still struggle with the whole fist!

Taking your hand out is the worst part slowly very slowly in my opinion! Too fast and it bloody hurts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go very slowly with plenty of lube gently stretching ... sometimes my hubby just holds his hand still and lets me pull him in when Im ready just b gentle and take it slowly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trim and file your nails to make sure that there are no rough or sharp bits.

Make sure that she's very aroused.

Use lots of lube and take your time and pay attention to how she responds.

Don't be worried if you don't manage it, you can try again.

If you have large hands, try using your non dominant hand, ie left hand if you are right handed, it will be slightly smaller. I can only ever fist with my left hand and with some women, I never managed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go very slowly with plenty of lube gently stretching ... sometimes my hubby just holds his hand still and lets me pull him in when Im ready just b gentle and take it slowly .

Agreed.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

All this is good advice, particularly the listening part. Also don't obsess about getting your fist up there. Move your fisting fingers independently (sort of like playing the piano) - Mrs K loves this! And with your other hand, play with her clit, nipples etc. Don't worry if she asks you to back out a bit at some point. Do it, and as she gets more turned on later you'll be able to go past that point with ease. And don't worry - even if you don't go "all the way" you can have a lot of fun.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"Fisting is amazing when done properly.

So nice that you wanted to find out about it before hand.

Hope you enjoy.

I absolutely love it

im a big fan of it if done right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go very slowly with plenty of lube gently stretching ... sometimes my hubby just holds his hand still and lets me pull him in when Im ready just b gentle and take it slowly .

Agreed.

Oh and clit stimulation is a must helps heighten the pleasure

Once your hand has slid in clench to make a fist and bobs your uncle

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Take time and be patient listen to her and don't be put off if don't manage it first time lots of lube lots of stimulation and don't just keep pushing take a while as u add more fingers hold still in her let her get used to you in her maybe push onto you rather than you push into her if you are worried how she's feeling tuck thumb rite in keep nails trimmed and communicate with each other no rush

Also as some other s have noted come out slowly to talk to each other and work out best position once you've mastered it and both know what works it's an awesome experience however make sure that it's an awesome experience for you both!

Enjoy

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

"All this is good advice, particularly the listening part. Also don't obsess about getting your fist up there. Move your fisting fingers independently (sort of like playing the piano) - Mrs K loves this! And with your other hand, play with her clit, nipples etc. Don't worry if she asks you to back out a bit at some point. Do it, and as she gets more turned on later you'll be able to go past that point with ease. And don't worry - even if you don't go "all the way" you can have a lot of fun. "

Since writing this I felt compelled to test my own advice. On a sunbed, with a beautiful view across Corsica. Happy to confirm it still works. Phew!

If anyone in the vicinity wants to play, do let us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try this with the other half... just not sure how it is possible or if it will be pleasurable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since writing this I felt compelled to test my own advice. On a sunbed, with a beautiful view across Corsica. Happy to confirm it still works. Phew!

If anyone in the vicinity wants to play, do let us know. "

Lucky missus

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Took a bit of time and practice for us and all the advice above is spot on. I can chain orgasms together fisting Mrs TMN that have her begging me to stop/don’t stop like you wouldn’t believe. It’s incredibly erotic and we love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes are watering just reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be too worried if I got my fist stuck! It would look like something out of emmerdale farm gone wrong

emergency..... what’s the emergency?....well

. For one I think it’s slightly wrong/degrading if that’s the word I know it’s down to personal choice but just a no for me (mr) and my hands are way too big anyway haha!

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

"I’ll be too worried if I got my fist stuck! It would look like something out of emmerdale farm gone wrong

emergency..... what’s the emergency?....well

. For one I think it’s slightly wrong/degrading if that’s the word I know it’s down to personal choice but just a no for me (mr) and my hands are way too big anyway haha!

Your fist doesn't get stuck. You pull your thumb in under your fingers and there's not much bulge left to pull out. And something meant for popping out babies can certainly cope with a hand.

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