FabSwingers.com forum: Who in their right mind....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Block em and move on if their response isn't what you were looking for

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Of course you're a priority ~ couples rule, right??

Didn't you see the funny side, just a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s brilliant! Better than a last minute excuse. I’d rather the honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. I’ve heard of similar things from others ‘I’m in my pyjamas’, ‘I’m waiting to hear from this really hot woman’ etc. Not sure whether it’s a passive aggressive way of saying ‘no thanks’ or they are just idiots.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Did you reply back with "you could have had a hole in one but I hear thunder is due?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol. I’ve heard of similar things from others ‘I’m in my pyjamas’, ‘I’m waiting to hear from this really hot woman’ etc. Not sure whether it’s a passive aggressive way of saying ‘no thanks’ or they are just idiots."

If it's after 8pm the chances are I might be in my pjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course you're a priority ~ couples rule, right??

Didn't you see the funny side, just a bit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean yeah ok life happens but when you’ve been messaging for a while.

Yes we are a priority, having sex with me isn’t a given. Don’t devalue yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean yeah ok life happens but when you’ve been messaging for a while.

Yes we are a priority, having sex with me isn’t a given. Don’t devalue yourself. "

Get over yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course you're a priority ~ couples rule, right??

Didn't you see the funny side, just a bit?

Honestly I think I’ve missed it?? But it’s nothing to do with couples or whatever was implied. Not from my perspective at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must be missing something here completely!!!

Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I played golf that would be my answer too. Ha. I know many guys that play golf and do the same thing.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Of course you're a priority ~ couples rule, right??

Didn't you see the funny side, just a bit?

I did, lmfao here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Maybe golf is their priority.

No big deal.

Move on to the next.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Standard men can’t help playing with there balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Maybe golf is their priority.

No big deal.

Move on to the next."

Good weather for golf is rarer than the opportunity for sex!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol, in a thunderstorm!!! Ha ha

He could have said no thanks, actually he could not bothered chasing it.

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By *illbarrenMan
over a year ago

matlock

Maybe golfing was his excuse to not be at home and if it's raining it's not a good excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly made me chuckle

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

His answer was meant to read.

"I have a prior engagement at a golf event but if it is called off due to bad weather, then I'll be free".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex

there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I did chuckle a little bit

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Just out of curiosity- if they went to golf what did he shoot?

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Obviously confused as to what "playing a round" referred to.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex

there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps? "

But who in their right mind....!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Maybe golfing was his excuse to not be at home and if it's raining it's not a good excuse"

This is how I read it too.... the simple solution is often the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex

there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps?

But who in their right mind....!

Someone who likes golf obviously

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex

there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps? "

No ego is fine. He did all the chasing and then suggested the night. We agreed then golf turned up.

Just disappointed as it’d been a while since we last swung. This was us trying to get back into it. So ego is fine, just motivation for the lifestyle is knocked.

Oh well, moan over, next.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Believe it or not some people have other things they enjoy doing besides fab/having sex

there is more to life! Is your ego a little hurt because someone said no to you perhaps?

No ego is fine. He did all the chasing and then suggested the night. We agreed then golf turned up.

Just disappointed as it’d been a while since we last swung. This was us trying to get back into it. So ego is fine, just motivation for the lifestyle is knocked.

Oh well, moan over, next. "

hmm, thought it was your meet invite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Joint agreement.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I must be missing something here completely!!!

Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with? "

Yes, you are meant to treat yourself with respect and value who you have sex with, but don't expect others to have as higher value of you as you do. This person obviously thinks playing golf is preferable.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

I would have found it funny and insulting in equal parts.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I must be missing something here completely!!!

Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with?

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

The word golf sounds boring, you have had a lucky escape I am thinking, better luck next time don't let it bother you he is obviously a very boring person

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Name and shame- was it Tiger?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I actually race motorbikes as another hobby. It's a very time consuming sport as you leave on a Thursday, practice all day Friday, then race Saturday and Sunday.

You arrive home late Sunday night, have to go back to work on Monday and it takes the next two days to get over the excitement and tiredness.

I spend most of my life deciding whether to have sex with someone or prepare /fix the bike for the next race meeting.

I never ever tell the other person, sorry I can't make it as I'm playing with my bike ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiger Woods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are the Hale and Pace of swinging.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Brings a new meaning to the expression 'Rain stopped play'...

....in my case, rain may also prevent me from meeting - because if it's raining, my wife doesn't go out, meaning I can't go out to play...

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Tiger Woods would be ashamed that you want to be first

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

The word golf sounds boring, you have had a lucky escape I am thinking, better luck next time don't let it bother you he is obviously a very boring person

And you’re in Scotland, the home of golf.... I’m appalled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

The word golf sounds boring, you have had a lucky escape I am thinking, better luck next time don't let it bother you he is obviously a very boring person

And you’re in Scotland, the home of golf.... I’m appalled "

Dosent stop it from being boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

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lol see he's got his priorities right, golf then sex

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

WTF who the hell would rather hit a ball with a stick than have sax !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WTF who the hell would rather hit a ball with a stick than have sax !

Lots of people. There are many things I would prefer to do than sex. If it includes music then that’s my priority.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Well, proves he has a life outside of fab, we all need one I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Joint agreement. "

Had you arranged a time and place to meet then?

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I have a no golfers clause exactly for this scenario.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Hiliarious ... best excuse I’ve heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only joined here as I thought it was a website for golfers. Soooo many balls and not enough holes for my liking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex isn't the be all and end all for many especially if you're getting it regularly, why you think so many get let down on meets, it's a need but not a priority

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

If I had a round of golf planned and a meet was offered when I already had plans I'd say no but if the golf is called off I will be available. What's wrong with that? I can see the problem if a meet was planned but they chose golf, that's different.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

If he said this well in advance, no, you are not a priority, unless you and he are close friends who give up absolutely everything for each other. He has vanilla plans, and they are dependent on the weather. The meeting with you is dependent on his vanilla plan. If you are upset by this, find someone more desperate.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"If I had a round of golf planned and a meet was offered when I already had plans I'd say no but if the golf is called off I will be available. What's wrong with that? I can see the problem if a meet was planned but they chose golf, that's different."

Very logical way of putting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha, that's hilarious.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why pop your ball in just one hole when theres 18 with flags on just waiting

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life."

When making judgemental comments on the forum becomes a priority: you have failed at Fab

(Or succeeded, I'm not sure...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Wow...... this guy really loves golf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple message me quite late a couple of weeks ago.

They were on holiday, where I live.

I'm not looking for solo meets.

Frankly, I wish I'd come up with something that amusing.

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Lol, did that really happen? My ghast is flabbered!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in my right mind..

and I don't play golf..

and I don't play with couples..

fancy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Absolutely. Block move on.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life."

So you would rather put on a funny pair of trousers and hit a ball with a stick than have sex ,and you say we are failing in life ,I would say you are doing sex wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His answer was meant to read.

"I have a prior engagement at a golf event but if it is called off due to bad weather, then I'll be free".

A fair point. It really is all in how he worded it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His answer was meant to read.

"I have a prior engagement at a golf event but if it is called off due to bad weather, then I'll be free".

A fair point. It really is all in how he worded it."
exactly the golfer is venerated

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life.

So you would rather put on a funny pair of trousers and hit a ball with a stick than have sex ,and you say we are failing in life ,I would say you are doing sex wrong

Hm. People have different priorities. I can think of a good few things I would do rather than have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When sex with strangers becomes a priority: you failed at life.

So you would rather put on a funny pair of trousers and hit a ball with a stick than have sex ,and you say we are failing in life ,I would say you are doing sex wrong

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it was a prior commitment, part of a team

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would have gone to golf with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

Tee times are in high demand and short supply, it's the same as saying 'sorry I have plans then'

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"Of course you're a priority ~ couples rule, right??

Didn't you see the funny side, just a bit?

I thought it was hilarious. Shows good sense of humour and that's important, surely?

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

If it's after 8pm the chances are I might be in my pjs

But that's not a no, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be missing something here completely!!!

Am I not meant to treat myself with respect or value who I have sex with?

Painful truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funniest thread for a while, loads saying people have other priorities, vanilla things to do etc etc, whilst if it happened to some of them they’d sh1t a brick and moan like hell, our two pennies worth, if they weren’t that keen just move on and forget about it x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Woman says to a couple:

I'm invited to a birthday party, it depends if it's good or not.

Man says to a couple:

I'm meant to be golfing, it depends on the weather.

Responses to situations 1 & 2.

1. Okay lets rearrange, text us later, our party will be better or come around anyway.

2. Livid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately, we can only control our own actions and emotions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CHOICE is everything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"replies to a meet invite with “depends on the rain as I’m meant to be golfing”.

We are a priority not second place. Particularly when it comes to having sex with us.

This is the best thing I've read today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you reply back with "you could have had a hole in one but I hear thunder is due?" "

Funny

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