FabSwingers.com forum: Seperate Rooms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are thinking of giving this a try and wondered what others experiences were. We have also arrange to do a halfway meet swap with the girls spending a weekend at the others house. Anyone tried this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wouldnt ask such a question in here lol

you will get loads on here telling you this is swinging etc

Everyone has their own views and opinions and you wont stop people telling them you but my personal opinion is if its what you want to do then give it ago

Many on here wouldnt dream of playing in seperate beds let alone rooms or house, its all down to how secure your relationship is and what works fo xr you

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If the thought excites you all... go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What rocks your boat, is the sea you should sail it on

Love to all xx

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

No I couldn't but not because any safety or jealousy but I love watching hubby with another women so I don't think I would want to be in another room with somewhere ells it would feel like a batrial sort of.

And when home we usually go through what we did what we saw and have fab sex at home too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really wouldnt ask such a question in here lol

you"

Good advice but its entertaining watching people come and tell someone they aren't real swingers if they are doing this and they should be doing that.

I've no popcorn but may look later to see how it ends.

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By *hristina_m82Couple
over a year ago

Leeds/manchester

we've done seperate room fun before and luv'd it. Talking about what had happened afterwards led to amazing sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is a real swingers?

the term swinger covers so much now days, to me its just a expression that people who arnt in a monogamous relationship use, long gone are the days that swinging ment you had to be a couple with a set of car keys

mind you saying that in them days didnt the 'couple' use to go off to play alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can be fun like, but just depends on how you as a couple get your kicks out of swinging,

the lass i done it with just loved hearing about what i got up to with others in another room or even on my own when i was on here as a couple with her and she used to love reading my messages to other couples seeing how i went on etc, think she was impressed i wasnt rude or nothing

where another girl i was in a couple got her kicks out of watching me with others and being with me as well infront of others and having me watch her, wasnt the sort of couple where you both play seperatley and before we were a couple and just meeting hearing about me being with someone else just was something she didnt want to hear , let alone play in another room lol

i can understand both points, takes alot more trust and less jealousy to do seperate room, but what ever meets you do need to match the kicks your both looking for or its going to create problems in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer seperate room play, and we have also discussed "I go to hers and he comes to ours" too, so we're on the same track as you.

You will probably find that the people who like "watching" will be against seperate room fun.

We all have our own ideas and preferences how we want to play, or the fantasies we think we want to explore.

It probably wont matter to singles whether or not they are in the same room as both parties of a couple, for obvious reasons, well obvious to me anyway, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we've done seperate room fun before and luv'd it. Talking about what had happened afterwards led to amazing sex. "

Yes same here, infact with you guys....

lol

Separate city swap is def on our 'to do' list also, we know it's not for everyone but we find separate room fun a huge turn on with the right people

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Never really thought of this but it sounds interesting for sure !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried it last month. Wasn't to bad. It didn't give the same buzz as watching Louise with another guy in th same room.

Part of the turn on for us is to watch each other with the other partner.

I'm sure it's different strokes for different folks

James x

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"We prefer seperate room play, and we have also discussed "I go to hers and he comes to ours" too, so we're on the same track as you.

You will probably find that the people who like "watching" will be against seperate room fun.

We all have our own ideas and preferences how we want to play, or the fantasies we think we want to explore.

It probably wont matter to singles whether or not they are in the same room as both parties of a couple, for obvious reasons, well obvious to me anyway, lol

extremely horny and love it, but its obviously down to everyones interpretation, its for some but not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we also love seperate room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to OP... try it small scale first and see if you like it..

Its about what turns you on as a couple.. not what we all think..

For me its a no..but then some would say I often have seperate room fun, as my Master is rarely actually physically here for a midweek play.. but does watch me on cam... helps me pick the guys... and we get a great thrill from that.. ( but some wouldnt like it)

We are always adjusting what works for us .... and talk about how when we change something it felt for us both.. Not afraid to say if something didnt work..

Try it.. if it turns you on in your mind, your more than half way there.. Just make sure your both sure and good luck.

Cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

The thing to ask is why you havnt done it before, are any concerns you had now addressed.

We shag sometimes together, sometimes apart, sometimes at other ends of the country, but its a place we have arrived at, and isnt for everyone,we dont do jealousy. Knowing the other is having a good time is enough for us.

Thats us, do what feels right for you, with an awareness that what turns us on changes over time.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

been there,done that,wrote the book and wore the t-shirt then done it again n again as it was.......fab lol trust and strong relationship required for it to be successful not everyones cup of tea but definately ours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id agree with the majority thats telling you ,,,if it turns you on,,,go for it

no one can tell you the right and wronges.we have played together with another cpl,we have played in seperate rooms ,,which we both enjoy i may add

its whatever floats your boat ,no one elses xx

auds xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"id agree with the majority thats telling you ,,,if it turns you on,,,go for it

no one can tell you the right and wronges.we have played together with another cpl,we have played in seperate rooms ,,which we both enjoy i may add

its whatever floats your boat ,no one elses xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seperate rooms work well as long as there is 100% trust and chemisrty between all 4

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I rather like taking a lady into another room and leaving hubby alone .... Evil ! !

(Okay i confess have only done it once, but it was pretty horny).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For Mark and I the only time we have done separate room fun is at parties with people we know and trust and who know our boundaries,,, its usually Mark that plays and i usually chill out and have a dance or a drink, but occasionally both of us play at the same time..

i much prefer Mark to be there for me i enjoy playing with him AND someone else... and Mark much prefers me to be there too but sometimes with people we trust, we enjoy the moment and go with the flow and if im a bit tired or sore ( condoms make me a bit sore after a while even with lube) i will take a break. nothing wrong with separate room play at all, if thats what gets you going, but for us,, we prefer same room most of the time.. esp if meeting just one(two?) on one(two?) with a couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For Mark and I the only time we have done separate room fun is at parties with people we know and trust and who know our boundaries,,, its usually Mark that plays and i usually chill out and have a dance or a drink, but occasionally both of us play at the same time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby loves watching me with other guys, but he also loves me telling him he cant watch! He loves the thrill of being in the bar or banished out of the room and knowing I am being naughty, but he doesnt know how or who with!

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

We prefer playing together but have done the separate meet thing and liked it. What we'd really like to try though is swapping fems.. Me go to theirs one week and her come to ours the next. Mr Muffet loves this idea..

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