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By *incsladyandscotsman OP   Couple
over a year ago

North fife

When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute..

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away

They're "broad" categories I guess?

Also, if you considered yourself curvey but not beautiful, can you technically become a BBW by putting on a few pounds?

Or would you have to be just a BW?

Maybe over thinking this now? eople should just go with whatever they feel, after all it's just a category and people are just going to look at their pics and hopefully read their profile, then make their own opinion.

That said, I'd like to be referred to as a QHMRFDB (quite handsome man with reasonably fit Dad bod. |

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Honestly I don't know. All I know is I like bigger women. If people want to catigorise them self thats fine, all I know is I like what I like and not going women in boxes. Plus on a person note I know so comfortable with categorising women as bbw (I know many are and self identify as such which is fine). But for me I just find it a just dehumanises, comodifies and is also a little bit patronising. But that that my personal feeling, I have no problem with people using it if they want. But the way I see things is you are a woman, you are who you are and got what you have. Awesomeness (or not) has little to do with size or body shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boxes of descriptions are only one person's perspective, I don't usually use them as an indicator of the person or whether I would like them. Interests and smoking are more of a choice indicator, for me the body is an exploration of enjoyment no matter what label people give themselves. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares!

Everyone has there own opinions of curvy/BBW blah blah, really is no need to label anyone just post pics x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We both thought I fitted the curvy description when we joined, I'm neither chunky nor BBW however it soon became clear that on Fab the three mean the same thing. Use whatever description you want some will agree with it and some won't, the most important thing is that you're happy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been called bbw....im not im just fat with curves....i think you should call yourself what you want theres always someone who wont agree

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Embrace the terms you want to. My experience here as up to an 18/20 and currently a 14/16 is that people put you in whatever category they want to.

I chose curvy when I joined because it sounded nicer than large. I'm keeping it because my body curves. I have pictures and people can/do draw their own conclusions.

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By *storiaCouple
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been called bbw....im not im just fat with curves....i think you should call yourself what you want theres always someone who wont agree"

That's what I say about myself

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By *storiaCouple
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

How do you even decide if you fit the category? We’ve been thinking about going to a BBW club night but we don’t want to offend anyone either. I consider myself a very curvy lady but it’s a grey area.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I LOVE curvy women and curvy men !!

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By *incsladyandscotsman OP   Couple
over a year ago

North fife


"How do you even decide if you fit the category? We’ve been thinking about going to a BBW club night but we don’t want to offend anyone either. I consider myself a very curvy lady but it’s a grey area. "

This is something I'm dealing with too, i don't want to turn up to a bbw night to be told I'm not... My pictures do not make me large, however at 5 ft 7 and a solid size 16 I am 'big' in person.

I have tagged bbw on some of my pics and have had people message to tell me I'm not bbw so shouldn't tag it.

Haha I refer to myself as chunky, it really doesn't bother me, I am who I am.. However I prefer to play with women that are of similar size to me and upwards, purely for my own silly comfort, so I go for those in the BBW catagory.. Its very confusing ha

L x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"This is something I'm dealing with too, i don't want to turn up to a bbw night to be told I'm not... My pictures do not make me large, however at 5 ft 7 and a solid size 16 I am 'big' in person.

I have tagged bbw on some of my pics and have had people message to tell me I'm not bbw so shouldn't tag it.

Haha I refer to myself as chunky, it really doesn't bother me, I am who I am.. However I prefer to play with women that are of similar size to me and upwards, purely for my own silly comfort, so I go for those in the BBW catagory.. Its very confusing ha

L x"

I think you can go to a BBW night no matter what size you are - no one is going to stop you at the door and say you aren’t big enough. As you prefer to play with women who are big then you have just as much right to be there as anyone else. Go for it and enjoy yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say bbw 18-24

Ssbbw 24+

But thinks it all down to shape and how u carry yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you even decide if you fit the category? We’ve been thinking about going to a BBW club night but we don’t want to offend anyone either. I consider myself a very curvy lady but it’s a grey area. "

The bbw curvy girl events have all ladies from a size 10-12 upwards tbh they never resrrict any size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute.. "

She is always BBW to me, I love women with curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute.. "

I didn't get to read your opening post as I was too busy looking at that picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say bbw 18-24

Ssbbw 24+

But thinks it all down to shape and how u carry yourself "

I fully agree with this xx

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By *ossauMan
over a year ago

Perth

Labels are irrelevant really, just look at the pics.

It is not the shape I go by it is the person inside.

As far as labels go I am FAB - fat arsed bloke!

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By *incsladyandscotsman OP   Couple
over a year ago

North fife


"I didn't get to read your opening post as I was too busy looking at that picture "

Haha I blush, why thank you not often I have a face pic public.

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't get to read your opening post as I was too busy looking at that picture

Haha I blush, why thank you not often I have a face pic public.

L xx"

Well please do make more public... Or feel free to inbox me some more. They would be greatly appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does a woman stop being chunky/curvy and fall within the BBW catagory? Is it a certain size, a certain physical attribute.. "

Everybody will have a different opinion. For me, a BBW is size 20+ A woman should have curves I find women size 14 - 18 very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been called bbw....im not im just fat with curves....i think you should call yourself what you want theres always someone who wont agree"

You have a very sexy body.

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