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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Would you call him bi ?

Only had it once and liked it but not had it ever again since

Just curious to what people’s opinions are

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Would you have/do you want it again?

Would you call yourself bi/curious?

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Would you have/do you want it again?

Would you call yourself bi/curious? "

Would do it again yes and want it again

Was so good

But really do not fancy men and he wanted to kiss which I really do not want

Did enjoy suckin cock tho

I wouldn’t give either only wanted to take

I do use a dildo and have for years

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Would you have/do you want it again?

Would you call yourself bi/curious?

Would do it again yes and want it again

Was so good

But really do not fancy men and he wanted to kiss which I really do not want

Did enjoy suckin cock tho

I wouldn’t give either only wanted to take

I do use a dildo and have for years "

Well there is your answer

As for the kissing you could say that this is a no go, everyone has their own limits & lots on here don't kiss anyone.

You are allowed to enjoy things & want to experience things with certain restrictions if that is your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a fuck about label.

Just love the cock and enjoy it. Don't get hung up on what to call yourself.

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Who gives a fuck about label.

Just love the cock and enjoy it. Don't get hung up on what to call yourself. "

Thanks your correct

I feel

Kinda bad iv actually finally had real cock in my ass and mouth

But it did feel so nice

I think it’s because I already use dildos lots

It didn’t hurt one bit

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Never feel bad for enjoying something

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Never feel bad for enjoying something "

I did really enjoy it

Felt amazing ! Would deffo do it regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sucked a cock once on a transexual I enjoyed it an I'd prob do it again I say I'm 100% straight for I have always had gfs and don't ever ever want a bf lol it was an experience that's my opinion. You only live once. Nice cock btw lol

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you call him bi ?

Only had it once and liked it but not had it ever again since

Just curious to what people’s opinions are "
your username is leedsbi so yes bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's Leeds big 9 incher lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with comments around labels - does it matter? Go for it if you enjoy it and if you really do need to place a label I’d say your bi, but be proud of that as I genuinely believe we’re the lucky ones lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with comments around labels - does it matter? Go for it if you enjoy it and if you really do need to place a label I’d say your bi, but be proud of that as I genuinely believe we’re the lucky ones lol x"

so agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sexuality is more to do with attraction and turn ons than physical acts. A man who is only attracted to men is gay whether he's had sex with a man or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with what you enjoy OP so long as it causes no harm and is legal

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town

"Would you call him bi ?

Only had it once and liked it but not had it ever again since

Just curious to what people’s opinions are "

FFS.. What does it matter?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Would you call him bi ?

Only had it once and liked it but not had it ever again since

Just curious to what people’s opinions are "

Surely if a bloke hasn't got a cock... he's not a bloke?

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By *ryanythingonce7274Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Depends on what you means by 'only have cock once'?

My hubby has sucked a few so does that make him bi? He often asks me. I like doing him with the strap on and I'm sure he'd like the real thing!

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I sucked a cock once on a transexual I enjoyed it an I'd prob do it again I say I'm 100% straight for I have always had gfs and don't ever ever want a bf lol it was an experience that's my opinion. You only live once. Nice cock btw lol "
Ehm ur not 100% straight and thats ok and as u said ud prob do it again! Embrace what u enjoy no point in kidding urself on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh gay as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about giving sexual pleasure...its only skin just in a different shape to pussy after all...

I class as bicurious I dont find men particularly attractive but I will suck a nice cock covered in pussy juice and rim his ass whilst he fucks his lady..mmmmmmm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was with a woman once. I don't describe myself as bi

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think sexuality is more to do with attraction and turn ons than physical acts. A man who is only attracted to men is gay whether he's had sex with a man or not. "

This. You can touch another man's cock and not be gay, (ask a male doctor

) but just as easily can be gay without ever going near one.

Ultimately, do what you enjoy, and don't worry too much about labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are bisexual in my eyes mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality is not as easy as yes or no

The Kinsey scale shows there are a number of different levels of sexuality if you like

0 Exclusively heterosexual

1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual

2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual

3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual

4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual

5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual

6 Exclusively homosexual

X No socio-sexual contacts or reactions

Also sexuality is not about what sexual acts you do it's who you find sexually attractive.

A d*unken night when two girls and guys kiss does not make the gay or bi.

Or experimenting and experiencing new things is just a natural part of exploring ourselves.

There are to many posts like this etc on fab and then there are lots of comments labeling the OP as far or bi etc and alit if this time the posts can come across as degrading to the individual and to being bi etc.

So no you are on the Kinsey scale somewhere but you are not necessarily bi for sucking cock once x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who gives a fuck about label.

Just love the cock and enjoy it. Don't get hung up on what to call yourself. "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said before ignore the labels and just enjoy life.

If you enjoy it then go for it

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Who gives a fuck about label.

Just love the cock and enjoy it. Don't get hung up on what to call yourself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you have/do you want it again?

Would you call yourself bi/curious?

Would do it again yes and want it again

Was so good

But really do not fancy men and he wanted to kiss which I really do not want

Did enjoy suckin cock tho

I wouldn’t give either only wanted to take

I do use a dildo and have for years

Well there is your answer

As for the kissing you could say that this is a no go, everyone has their own limits & lots on here don't kiss anyone.

You are allowed to enjoy things & want to experience things with certain restrictions if that is your choice "

i wouldnt like to meet anyone who doesnt kiss x x

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

"oh gay as fuck"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's Leeds big 9 incher lol"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, i had a threesome with a couple i used to play with reguarly where me and him tried some oral on each other during and i enjoyed it. I have put myself as bi-curious as i would like to try again with a couple but only oral. On fet life they call it hete

exible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol at emoticon appearing r.o.f.l in hetero-flexible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you have/do you want it again?

Would you call yourself bi/curious?

Would do it again yes and want it again

Was so good

But really do not fancy men and he wanted to kiss which I really do not want

Did enjoy suckin cock tho

I wouldn’t give either only wanted to take

I do use a dildo and have for years

Well there is your answer

As for the kissing you could say that this is a no go, everyone has their own limits & lots on here don't kiss anyone.

You are allowed to enjoy things & want to experience things with certain restrictions if that is your choice

i wouldnt like to meet anyone who doesnt kiss x x "
me neither and ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who gives a fuck about label.

Just love the cock and enjoy it. Don't get hung up on what to call yourself. "

This exactly. Why bother with branding or labeling yourself?

You enjoy what you enjoy, why does that need to be categorized?

Hubby says he’s het

exible. When he’s not horny at all he’s pure hetro, put him in a threesome etc he’s flexible enough to keep the fun going for all if it goes that way.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Just enjoy it and don’t analyse too much. Enjoy the moment - life’s too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all fab me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it even matter? Any holes a goal

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

It is all about sexual pleasure and if you enjoyed it great.

Part of the pleasure of this site is exploring boundaries.

Don't beat yourself up about it and just enjoy what gives you pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about it. It’s fun!!!!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Someone who is tee-total does not become an alcoholic because they had a taste of whisky to see if they liked it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that it really matter a jot (just have sex how and with whom you want)...

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_who_have_sex_with_men

Seems to cover what you describe.

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By *avo_1970Man
over a year ago

Halifax

I really enjoy sucking a nice cock, enjoy a female to be present if possible.. not gay but class myself as Bi , but won’t kiss a man , it’s all about sexual arousal and what state of excitement your in at the moment..

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Honestly if it feels good then keep doing it! Life’s to short to worry about how you class your sexuality. Let your freak flag fly I say! Fancy a dick in your butt, fucking go for it. It does feel good, most men would enjoy it but are too scared to admit it.

Do you fella!

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaargh!

It's 2019

Have we not developed enough yet to realise that sex and sexuality is a journey?

So often, we use it define us, yet it remains just one facet of us all in all our wonderous complexity and unique glory

OP, if you like it, go get some more

People may judge, people may discount you, but for heavens sake, don't allow the perceptions of others stop you expressing the sexual you

Don't get hung up on labels or worry about which one you should wear

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Aaaargh!

It's 2019

Have we not developed enough yet to realise that sex and sexuality is a journey?

So often, we use it define us, yet it remains just one facet of us all in all our wonderous complexity and unique glory

OP, if you like it, go get some more

People may judge, people may discount you, but for heavens sake, don't allow the perceptions of others stop you expressing the sexual you

Don't get hung up on labels or worry about which one you should wear"

Love this

Av xx

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

a.k.a. as being imprisoned by your own thoughts of how others perceive you

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I was curious about sucking a cock for years. I never felt any feelings about guys, only the thought of playing with a cock and having them play with mine.

I finally met up with a guy for a quick hotel meet a few weeks back and it was great! There was no sexual attraction between us. It just felt like being with a mate. We sucked each other off and then went about our day.

I identify as bi because of this and I'd meet a guy again for a similar experience, but I don't feel like I fancy guys.

I don't think it really matters. I eat vegan food but I'm not vegan.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

"Aaaargh!

It's 2019

Have we not developed enough yet to realise that sex and sexuality is a journey?

So often, we use it define us, yet it remains just one facet of us all in all our wonderous complexity and unique glory

OP, if you like it, go get some more

People may judge, people may discount you, but for heavens sake, don't allow the perceptions of others stop you expressing the sexual you

Don't get hung up on labels or worry about which one you should wear"

Well said that man!

S x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Who gives a fuck about label.

Just love the cock and enjoy it. Don't get hung up on what to call yourself.

Thanks your correct

I feel

Kinda bad iv actually finally had real cock in my ass and mouth

But it did feel so nice

I think it’s because I already use dildos lots

It didn’t hurt one bit "

From my own POV - I don’t think anything feels better than the real thing - in any hole!

As for how you label yourself - you’ve already labelled yourself as bisexual I see?

It’ll put some people off and attract others - only women on Fab are allowed to be bi without criticism of any kind - which I think is ludicrous!

If you happened to be being fucked by a hot guy whilst I’m passing - I’d happily come and join in! You could both kiss me instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society gives us labels for it to feel more comfortable not us. Be you, whatever that is, and as long as it's concentual and legal then it's not a problem. Mr

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By *uffinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

great thread folks

personally im visiting 2 clubs to hopefully have my first bi experiance on sunday and monday.

I dont see myself as bi or gay - im too fascinated with pussy but it's about experiance - having a near death experiance personally i want to try everything now. so leed guy i'd love that massive cock in my ass.

pm if free on sunday for a session as im in the area.

also fancy having a 3 some with a couple with bi stuff too..

biggest worry is getting a sti.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the right attitude... It has to be about the pleasure (selfish type avoided) and not hypocritical labels..

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

Just enjoy what turns you on. There are endless men who do not eye up men and fancy them in the St, like they do women, yet they love sucking cock.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

I love good cock sucker does that make me gay? Who cares i just love horney fun and as the ladies are sparce hey ho

Just enjoy and have fun life is short

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