FabSwingers.com forum: Whats the safest way to have anal ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone, never had anal before and my

gf and i want to do it in the near future can ye give me some tips that might make the best experience for both of us rather than it going wrong and never happening again ? thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure the door's locked

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

be the giver, not the receiver.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

slow and with plenty of lube dont forget its not self lubricating like her pussy is so you need lube and take your time working up to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LUBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be the giver and don't let your partner within a mile of a strap on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe start with your thumb and work your way up, with lots of lube

Also even though its nice to go from one hole to the other be careful as the germs in your anus are not suppose to go into the pussy, and can cause cystitus or other infections

Relax and Enjoy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lube lube lube!!! and take it slow, FFS dont ram it in all at once....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have already said - lots of lube, take it easy and toys made for the purpose can be a good introduction ......

As to being a giver - whats sauce for the goose !

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

The safest way is to do it to yourself with a dildo about a dozen or so times... you soon work out what works and what doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her sphincter will contract the moment you try to push anything into it so make sure you use PLENTY of lube and slowly push your bell end in and then withdraw completely. This will give her anus a little stretch and allow it to relax again. More lube and then try again and she should be more relaxed because she's experienced the feeling of entry now. Push in further but go slow. About 4 inches in the anal tract turns slightly so it might feel like you can't go further. All you have to do is change the angle of your penis until you feel it go past the point of resistance and she'll feel it too. I'd be surprised if she doesn't mention it tbh. Once you've got that far it should be more pleasurable for her, and certainly for you. Go slow, allow her to find your rhythym and take your cue from her. Good luck.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Yeah - what wishy said. But don't expect to get all the way on the first attempt. It's something you gotta work your way up to.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Make sure she has plenty of anaesthetic, pile cream,numbers for emergency doctors , rubber rings, styptic pencil to stop the blood flow, toilet rolls , douche bag, pillows to bite on , tons of vodka, soap to wash the shit off your cock , soap powder for the sheets, lots of lube , ear plugs for you and the neighbours and paracetamol.

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By *ayneandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

our first few times, we used loads of lube and found using a condom helped. After the first few tims its great! If she really wants it, perist with some pain and it will be fab for you both!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Preparation - loosen up first with toys, using lots of lube and then take it slowly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this post for real? i never asked, just had a go, common sense

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

On a tightrope of a crocodile infested river ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone, never had anal before and my

gf and i want to do it in the near future can ye give me some tips that might make the best experience for both of us rather than it going wrong and never happening again ? thanks "

The absolute safest way is to use someone elses arse and double bag your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lube yes and let her be in control and push back on you. You can work up to it using fingers,thumbs and toys, but i find it better when i am relaxed and after I have cum oh and more lube.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

And if she asks you yo stop or slow down, to so immediately!

I find that going in ay the wrong angle can ruin it for that session, but get it right and it's great.

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By *ane and JonnyCouple
over a year ago

Clwyd

"Hey everyone, never had anal before and my

gf and i want to do it in the near future can ye give me some tips that might make the best experience for both of us rather than it going wrong and never happening again ? thanks "

Working your way up a set of three different sized butt plugs first with plenty of lube on them, then a condom, again lubed up (yes-with water based lube) but we have even gone as far as to fill a small syringe (like the ones you use to give small children medicine [recommend you throw it away after!!]) full of lube up there to deliver a nice dollop of lube ready for penetration!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Her sphincter will contract the moment you try to push anything into it so make sure you use PLENTY of lube and slowly push your bell end in and then withdraw completely. This will give her anus a little stretch and allow it to relax again. More lube and then try again and she should be more relaxed because she's experienced the feeling of entry now. Push in further but go slow. About 4 inches in the anal tract turns slightly so it might feel like you can't go further. All you have to do is change the angle of your penis until you feel it go past the point of resistance and she'll feel it too. I'd be surprised if she doesn't mention it tbh. Once you've got that far it should be more pleasurable for her, and certainly for you. Go slow, allow her to find your rhythym and take your cue from her. Good luck."

thanks for the rele GREAT advice

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

practice on a farm animal..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the safest way to have anal? Definitely up the arse I'd say. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on her side knees up too her chest this straightens out back passage lots and lots of lube ,fingers first ,then cock in a little pull out then in a little more ,untill fully in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gay BFF gave me a crash course in anal as a gay man (my BFF) says clean the area (douche) make sure it's tidy no man wants to pull out and find a bit of sweet corn on the end of his knob. Also wheb douching make sure the water is clear thats a goo indication the area is clean. Prep the area by playing with it make sure it's a finger or something small to get it ready, lots of lube, be relaxed and be patient.

This is how I prepare for any anal fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try bending her over in different positions to see which one relax's her anus the most, it'll open slightly, loadsa lube, go slow...and let her ride you! (her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube and her on top, that way she is in total control as long as you don't go thrusting up into her

Like everything with sex, just experiment and have fun

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on the subject of lube, ive been told to use a silicone based lube, as waterbased ones are just absorbed by the body.

Lubes especially for anal are more slippery and last longer! Ann Summers sell em, and of course any sex shop.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"Maybe start with your thumb and work your way up, with lots of lube

Also even though its nice to go from one hole to the other be careful as the germs in your anus are not suppose to go into the pussy, and can cause cystitus or other infections

Relax and Enjoy xxx "

we do that...helps if youve had a enema or douche before.....so dirty and horny, but yes water infections not good.....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Never used lube...

Being relaxed and into it is what matters, doggy might be traditional but takes away the womans control, face to face or woman on top are great positions to try.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

the safest way to have anal is make sure your dog has a muzzle on first in case he nips you lol

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