FabSwingers.com forum: Nerves getting the better of me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So on my FAB wish list shall we call is a meet with a MF couple.I've been very lucky to have been messaged by some lovely looking couples and invited for a meet.But everytime my nerves get the better of me.How can something I really want to do make me so nervous?

I've had plenty of male meets with no issues.Just feel like im missing out on some amazing opportunities and dont know how to get over my nerves.Feel free to share your first time experiences

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps just go for a social meet to take the pressure off? I’m sure any decent couple would agree to that and expect nothing more. That way it’s simply a drink with two people

By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Best advice you'll get above. A social with no expectations. If it goes well, then the question can be asked later or a meet can be set up for a later time. If it doesn't go well, then you've been out for a drink.

By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

"So on my FAB wish list shall we call is a meet with a MF couple.I've been very lucky to have been messaged by some lovely looking couples and invited for a meet.But everytime my nerves get the better of me.How can something I really want to do make me so nervous?

I've had plenty of male meets with no issues.Just feel like im missing out on some amazing opportunities and dont know how to get over my nerves.Feel free to share your first time experiences

Probably a typical male response but jump right in and enjoy yourself. My first experience with a couple was at a club so little time to feel nervous and had a great time.

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Perhaps just go for a social meet to take the pressure off? I’m sure any decent couple would agree to that and expect nothing more. That way it’s simply a drink with two people "

This..

No expectations, no pressure just a chat..

Nerves are all part of it so they will know where your coming from..

By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Maybe your more comfortable with just one person so maybe a social meet with one of the couple and if you get on a social meet with both and see how it goes