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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it have to be either or

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it have to be either or "

Assuming tbh pal

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Is it a bloke in an orange top

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a bloke in an orange top "

Haha the men ain't the problem on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont ghost people messages often get too far down I can't see them anymore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind "

Well you're not ugly.

Are you really being ghosted or just not getting replies?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind "

My first random guess is it was something you said?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

Well you're not ugly.

Are you really being ghosted or just not getting replies?"

Not getting replies thought that's the same thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont ghost people messages often get too far down I can't see them anymore."

I can imagine looking like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

My first random guess is it was something you said?"

Dunno why you'd guess that boss

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By *HX6969Man
over a year ago

St Albans

What's "Ghosted"?

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

Well you're not ugly.

Are you really being ghosted or just not getting replies?

Not getting replies thought that's the same thing "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

As if she didn't jump you there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

That's why then you did not get a reply

Manners funny banter taking note of someone's profile all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

Well gob smacked

And no thats not ghosting its them ignoring your unsolicited mail, like junk mail.

Ghosting is when you get to know someone and they just vanish - like being dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind "

They must be bloody intelligent, I didn't realise our feathered friends could join fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

Well you're not ugly.

Are you really being ghosted or just not getting replies?

Not getting replies thought that's the same thing "

Ghosting is when you break off a relationship by breaking off all communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

Well gob smacked

And no thats not ghosting its them ignoring your unsolicited mail, like junk mail.

Ghosting is when you get to know someone and they just vanish - like being dead. "

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

Your off you nut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't leave your message filters open if you don't want a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

REALLY??!? I am surprised...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I've built relationship with a few on here not necessarily a good one tbf , they also ghost me then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

REALLY??!? I am surprised..."

Obviously couldn't handle my banter anyway

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

And you are seriously questioning why you don't get replies??? It's not about being clever or funny. It's about being genuine!

Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

REALLY??!? I am surprised...

Obviously couldn't handle my banter anyway "

There's banter and then there's banter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're mixing 'ghosting' with the 'thanks but no, thanks' which, according to Fab's FAQ not getting replies to your messages is. As you can't be ghosted if you haven't been in two-way communication with the person before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

Oh dear

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Well I've built relationship with a few on here not necessarily a good one tbf , they also ghost me then "

Maybe you should look at the common denominator here........the way you project yourself and the content of the messages you send!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

She viewed your profile

You messaged her

She didn't reply

That isn't ghosting, that's ignoring someone you have no interest in

Her only mistake, not being in stealth mode.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I honestly have no clue why noone would reply to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't leave your message filters open if you don't want a message "

And this here in lies the problem. Attitude is everything on here. A good respectful attitude works if you out the work in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should just give up,leave join a monastery and accept you,ll never have sex again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly have no clue why noone would reply to you "

Finally someone who gets me hahaha X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you should just give up,leave join a monastery and accept you,ll never have sex again "

I think that's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

Well you're not ugly.

Are you really being ghosted or just not getting replies?

Not getting replies thought that's the same thing "

No

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By *HX6969Man
over a year ago

St Albans


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

Well you're not ugly.

Are you really being ghosted or just not getting replies?

Not getting replies thought that's the same thing

Ghosting is when you break off a relationship by breaking off all communication "

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...

There are no words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't leave your message filters open if you don't want a message "

I understand what you're saying to a degree, as in, if you're unhappy receiving ANY messages then close it down.... however..

I'm gonna put it to you this way.

If you were walking down a high street and there were 200 salesmen between one end and the other would you stop and speak to everyone that spoke to you, or would you put your headphones on until you got to the stall with the stuff on you wanted to buy, or would you avoid the road altogether coz it's not fair on the sales people you don't want to buy from?

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...

There are no words"

Hahahaha FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS"

Your idea of what being a laugh is, may not be the opinion of others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't leave your message filters open if you don't want a message

I understand what you're saying to a degree, as in, if you're unhappy receiving ANY messages then close it down.... however..

I'm gonna put it to you this way.

If you were walking down a high street and there were 200 salesmen between one end and the other would you stop and speak to everyone that spoke to you, or would you put your headphones on until you got to the stall with the stuff on you wanted to buy, or would you avoid the road altogether coz it's not fair on the sales people you don't want to buy from?

P"

Right she didn't reply to Me I'm over it it was completely expected don't think anyone ever has haha this thread is the why behind it please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS

Your idea of what being a laugh is, may not be the opinion of others. "

Agreed but there's got to be a few woman out there who want this surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

Maybe she wasn’t in a cockroach kind of mood?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

Maybe she wasn’t in a cockroach kind of mood?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind "

I think they must all be lesbians and men haters not to be dropping to their knees and thanking you for messaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS

Your idea of what being a laugh is, may not be the opinion of others. "

Very true

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Don't leave your message filters open if you don't want a message "

Just because you can get through filters , doesn't mean you're entitled to a reply.

No reply = no thanks . That's not classed as ghosting. That's classed as someone not wanting to converse with you at all !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS

Your idea of what being a laugh is, may not be the opinion of others.

Agreed but there's got to be a few woman out there who want this surely "

There will be, yes. I can tell you have a wind up sense of humour. Not everyone picks up on that, they will see it as trolling/ being antagonistic. I think that type of bantering should come out when you've let people know the softer side first. As I'm sure you also have that somewhere. It's first impressions on fab. Personality doesn't come through with the written word. That's where ther could be communication issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How in the blue blazers would anyone on here know what someone else was thinking?

If it was the message about the exterminate, well, if you'd sent it me I'd think you were full of yourself, waaaaay ahead of where you should be taking the convo, and quite frankly the thought of someone using the term exterminate makes them sound like a rough bully who has no feckin clue.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

I think they must all be lesbians and men haters not to be dropping to their knees and thanking you for messaging them"

nah their just too busy messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I stay away from younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe this explains.

I like to have a laugh, fuck me I'm a terrible wind up... once I've been spoken to and treated with respect, and vice versa

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How in the blue blazers would anyone on here know what someone else was thinking?

If it was the message about the exterminate, well, if you'd sent it me I'd think you were full of yourself, waaaaay ahead of where you should be taking the convo, and quite frankly the thought of someone using the term exterminate makes them sound like a rough bully who has no feckin clue.

P"

I just had the voice of the Dalek's in my head, to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS

Your idea of what being a laugh is, may not be the opinion of others.

Agreed but there's got to be a few woman out there who want this surely

There will be, yes. I can tell you have a wind up sense of humour. Not everyone picks up on that, they will see it as trolling/ being antagonistic. I think that type of bantering should come out when you've let people know the softer side first. As I'm sure you also have that somewhere. It's first impressions on fab. Personality doesn't come through with the written word. That's where ther could be communication issues "

good advice-thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

I think they must all be lesbians and men haters not to be dropping to their knees and thanking you for messaging them

nah their just too busy messaging me "

FFS save some for us plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either way this ain't a post about whether I been ghosted or not it's more why does no one on here want abit of me at least I ain't boring and a laugh FFS

Your idea of what being a laugh is, may not be the opinion of others.

Agreed but there's got to be a few woman out there who want this surely

There will be, yes. I can tell you have a wind up sense of humour. Not everyone picks up on that, they will see it as trolling/ being antagonistic. I think that type of bantering should come out when you've let people know the softer side first. As I'm sure you also have that somewhere. It's first impressions on fab. Personality doesn't come through with the written word. That's where ther could be communication issues

good advice-thanks "

seriously if I had a face like yours id teach my arse to speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe this explains.

I like to have a laugh, fuck me I'm a terrible wind up... once I've been spoken to and treated with respect, and vice versa

P"

Yeah maybe, I feel like people on here purposely wind me up tbh though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe this explains.

I like to have a laugh, fuck me I'm a terrible wind up... once I've been spoken to and treated with respect, and vice versa

P

Yeah maybe, I feel like people on here purposely wind me up tbh though "

no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ridiculously good looking and amazing in bed, what more do you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm ridiculously good looking and amazing in bed, what more do you want

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Exactly my point !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the op could start sending abusive messages,,,but nooooooooooo he would,nt do that would he,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P"

100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

Was actually going to say something similar... My sweet summer child you have so much to learn about Swinging

P"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P"

You're right maybe I should tone down my brashness and realise I'm not the best thing since sliced bread.... Maybe 3rd best since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway folks going to find a more productive post to look at.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

My sweet summer child you have so much to learn about Swinging

P"

Child? He is older than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P

You're right maybe I should tone down my brashness and realise I'm not the best thing since sliced bread.... Maybe 3rd best since "

Well it depends. If the brashness is what you're really like in real life then keep it as it is, be the real you.

And yes, you're right, you're barely the yeast

Just be yourself. Some will love you, some will loathe you.

You may be better at an event of some kind, where people can see the expression and hear the tone, rather than read the words in their own voice, with their own perception of how you've said something.

I'm a gobby fucker and it's taken a while for people to get used to me. Again, some love me, some loathe me, but I'm true to myself

P

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...lots of people say things like if you were in a pub you wouldn't say these things, we are not in a pub, we are on a site where people look for sex.

Lots of people don't get replies.Sometimes it isn't even the fact of what you say in mails as lots of people admit to not even reading their mails. Lots of people like humour in mails.

Stick to how you want to play it, if it doesn't work after a while mix it up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P

You're right maybe I should tone down my brashness and realise I'm not the best thing since sliced bread.... Maybe 3rd best since

Well it depends. If the brashness is what you're really like in real life then keep it as it is, be the real you.

And yes, you're right, you're barely the yeast

Just be yourself. Some will love you, some will loathe you.

You may be better at an event of some kind, where people can see the expression and hear the tone, rather than read the words in their own voice, with their own perception of how you've said something.

I'm a gobby fucker and it's taken a while for people to get used to me. Again, some love me, some loathe me, but I'm true to myself

P"

god I love a gobby fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen kiddo, you wouldn't walk into a pub where you don't know anyone, storm in bold as brass, throw your hands in the air and yell out "come on then ladies, who wants a piece of this action" then point to your cock would ya?

You'd get people mumbling "who the fuck is this dude and what the hell is he doing"

It's ok to have confidence and maturity - arrogance and entitlement are completely different

P

You're right maybe I should tone down my brashness and realise I'm not the best thing since sliced bread.... Maybe 3rd best since

Well it depends. If the brashness is what you're really like in real life then keep it as it is, be the real you.

And yes, you're right, you're barely the yeast

Just be yourself. Some will love you, some will loathe you.

You may be better at an event of some kind, where people can see the expression and hear the tone, rather than read the words in their own voice, with their own perception of how you've said something.

I'm a gobby fucker and it's taken a while for people to get used to me. Again, some love me, some loathe me, but I'm true to myself

P

god I love a gobby fucker "

It's wiiiiiide open for you Mikki

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyway as this has ended the gorgeous lad 123 bashing and snyde comments thread, anyone on here up for a quickie tonight ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You come across a bit childlike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway as this has ended the gorgeous lad 123 bashing and snyde comments thread, anyone on here up for a quickie tonight ? "

fair play to ya.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You come across a bit childlike."

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway as this has ended the gorgeous lad 123 bashing and snyde comments thread, anyone on here up for a quickie tonight ? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are either of them offers

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud "

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies."

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where's my bird Lola ? She posted a sly comment which I've been waiting for all night now it's gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly "

How is it offensive? Some women/couples may find what you’re sending them offensive which is why they’re ignoring you.

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

As a single lady on here and one that receives a number of very crap messages.

And also as an experienced sub if i received a message from anyone telling me they would exterminate me I would either delete and ignore or if I was in a bratty mood I would tell them that a boy like them could not handle a sub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly

How is it offensive? Some women/couples may find what you’re sending them offensive which is why they’re ignoring you."

Saying I'm coming across childish that's offensive in my book matter of opinion I'm sorry of I've offended you and your gf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single lady on here and one that receives a number of very crap messages.

And also as an experienced sub if i received a message from anyone telling me they would exterminate me I would either delete and ignore or if I was in a bratty mood I would tell them that a boy like them could not handle a sub "

Hahaha tbf it was a piss take ain't into BDSM anyway ain't into taking it up the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are either of them offers "

Nope. I'm not meeting anyone. But i have to say, you are entertaining OP. Your comments are never boring

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"As a single lady on here and one that receives a number of very crap messages.

And also as an experienced sub if i received a message from anyone telling me they would exterminate me I would either delete and ignore or if I was in a bratty mood I would tell them that a boy like them could not handle a sub

Hahaha tbf it was a piss take ain't into BDSM anyway ain't into taking it up the bum "

So why message a sub then if it's not something you are into.

Simply put Read the profile of they are not looking for what you have to offer don't message them

If you message be polite and respectful

And where did you taking it up the bum come into this ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are either of them offers

Nope. I'm not meeting anyone. But i have to say, you are entertaining OP. Your comments are never boring

"

Haha thank you , hit me up if you ever change your mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single lady on here and one that receives a number of very crap messages.

And also as an experienced sub if i received a message from anyone telling me they would exterminate me I would either delete and ignore or if I was in a bratty mood I would tell them that a boy like them could not handle a sub

Hahaha tbf it was a piss take ain't into BDSM anyway ain't into taking it up the bum

So why message a sub then if it's not something you are into.

Simply put Read the profile of they are not looking for what you have to offer don't message them

If you message be polite and respectful

And where did you taking it up the bum come into this ?"

Tbh I only wanted a quickie so she had every right not to reply tbh especially once the charm kicks in there's no going back tbh, I though that's what happened to sub men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady on here and one that receives a number of very crap messages.

And also as an experienced sub if i received a message from anyone telling me they would exterminate me I would either delete and ignore or if I was in a bratty mood I would tell them that a boy like them could not handle a sub

Hahaha tbf it was a piss take ain't into BDSM anyway ain't into taking it up the bum

So why message a sub then if it's not something you are into.

Simply put Read the profile of they are not looking for what you have to offer don't message them

If you message be polite and respectful

And where did you taking it up the bum come into this ?"

I think he’s mixing up a Dominatrix and his Fifty Shades fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single lady on here and one that receives a number of very crap messages.

And also as an experienced sub if i received a message from anyone telling me they would exterminate me I would either delete and ignore or if I was in a bratty mood I would tell them that a boy like them could not handle a sub

Hahaha tbf it was a piss take ain't into BDSM anyway ain't into taking it up the bum

So why message a sub then if it's not something you are into.

Simply put Read the profile of they are not looking for what you have to offer don't message them

If you message be polite and respectful

And where did you taking it up the bum come into this ?

Tbh I only wanted a quickie so she had every right not to reply tbh especially once the charm kicks in there's no going back tbh, I though that's what happened to sub men ? "

Nope some sub men do some don't but none mentioned sub men

Maybe you want to learn more about swinging before letting your charm loss on everyone

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly "

Christ, glad I didn't say what I really thought if you find what I said "offensive" Sorry snowflake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly

Christ, glad I didn't say what I really thought if you find what I said "offensive" Sorry snowflake "

Wow another sly remark how childish ... Does that offend you ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly

Christ, glad I didn't say what I really thought if you find what I said "offensive" Sorry snowflake

Wow another sly remark how childish ... Does that offend you ? "

Not in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You come across a bit childlike.

Oh look another sly comment thought we'd nipped that in the bud

How is it sly? It was a suggestion as to why you don't get replies.

Because it's offensive but not very direct so I find it sly

Christ, glad I didn't say what I really thought if you find what I said "offensive" Sorry snowflake

Wow another sly remark how childish ... Does that offend you ?

Not in the slightest "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow this is just getting silly now.

It's obvious he knows everything and his way is working for him so i would suggest not feeding it anymore "

Tbf ash I am purposely being a prat re BDSM I have no idea about it and each to their own

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I certainly wudnt be interested

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

Banty McBantface

I’m married to a windup. But he also knows better than to unleash it on me if he wants some bedroom action.

There’s a difference between being funny and doing someone’s nut in!!!

But my question to you OP is... can you turn left?!

Mrs Twinkle Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been ghosted by what I thought was a gorgeous top bird. Gutted.

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By *r and Mrs BlackCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply "

.....and that'll be why she didn't reply....she's looking for a good time not pest control...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been ghosted by what I thought was a gorgeous top bird. Gutted. "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

.....and that'll be why she didn't reply....she's looking for a good time not pest control..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

.....and that'll be why she didn't reply....she's looking for a good time not pest control..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

.....and that'll be why she didn't reply....she's looking for a good time not pest control..."

BURRRRN!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A "sub" on here I just messaged, she looked at my profile- I messaged her I don't dominate I exterminate... No reply

.....and that'll be why she didn't reply....she's looking for a good time not pest control..."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow this is just getting silly now.

It's obvious he knows everything and his way is working for him so i would suggest not feeding it anymore

Not doing himself any favours

Neither are you

What by pointing out how immature you are being?"

Na by making sly comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ghosted 24/7 am I really that ugly or are the birds on here just blind

They must be bloody intelligent, I didn't realise our feathered friends could join fab "

It's only dead birds on here hense the ghosting bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I thought my son talked about women, or to women like you do, I'd be ashamed

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wow this is just getting silly now.

It's obvious he knows everything and his way is working for him so i would suggest not feeding it anymore

Not doing himself any favours

Neither are you

What by pointing out how immature you are being?

Na by making sly comments "

I said it so you could see it and read it....Nothing sly with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def: sly : having or showing a cunning and deceitful nature

Not seen any of this

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Def: sly : having or showing a cunning and deceitful nature

Not seen any of this "

My thoughts exactly

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

Tbh I’m just disappointed now in the OP that he’s using a Zoolander quote and doesn’t know it.

I’m getting old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh I’m just disappointed now in the OP that he’s using a Zoolander quote and doesn’t know it.

I’m getting old "

Hahaha FFS , all I know is the Ben Stiller stare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ? "

Was just pointing out the definition of Sly.

Not getting up anyone's ass tonight

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ? "

Won't need one....I've only short legs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if I thought my son talked about women, or to women like you do, I'd be ashamed"

Lucky I ain't your son then I assume he ain't allowed to ask a woman for sex lol

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Tbh I’m just disappointed now in the OP that he’s using a Zoolander quote and doesn’t know it.

I’m getting old

Hahaha FFS , all I know is the Ben Stiller stare "

BLUE STEEL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs "

Shirt legs are good. But may we say Sparkle1974 your ass and ass pic is amazing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh I’m just disappointed now in the OP that he’s using a Zoolander quote and doesn’t know it.

I’m getting old

Hahaha FFS , all I know is the Ben Stiller stare

BLUE STEEL"

FFS should've known that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs

Shirt legs are good. But may we say Sparkle1974 your ass and ass pic is amazing x "

Shock that's why their licking your ass they want to bang you ..... I'm so surprised

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs

Shirt legs are good. But may we say Sparkle1974 your ass and ass pic is amazing x "

Thanks

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs

Shirt legs are good. But may we say Sparkle1974 your ass and ass pic is amazing x

Shock that's why their licking your ass they want to bang you ..... I'm so surprised"

Me too

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Tbh I’m just disappointed now in the OP that he’s using a Zoolander quote and doesn’t know it.

I’m getting old

Hahaha FFS , all I know is the Ben Stiller stare

BLUE STEEL

FFS should've known that "

He also is famous for saying he is “ridiculously good looking”

And he can’t turn left! But the moments gone now! Oh well! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs

Shirt legs are good. But may we say Sparkle1974 your ass and ass pic is amazing x

Shock that's why their licking your ass they want to bang you ..... I'm so surprised"

Wow paying a compliment means we want to bang someone does it.

Grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a bloke in an orange top

Haha the men ain't the problem on here "

No... Apart from the ones that tell other blokes they're birds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I thought my son talked about women, or to women like you do, I'd be ashamed

Lucky I ain't your son then I assume he ain't allowed to ask a woman for sex lol

He probably doesn't need to have to ask/beg....... that'll be down to him no doubt actually having a personality...."

that and he was taught to respect women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god do you all want a step ladder to get further up her arse ?

Won't need one....I've only short legs

Shirt legs are good. But may we say Sparkle1974 your ass and ass pic is amazing x

Shock that's why their licking your ass they want to bang you ..... I'm so surprised

Me too "

If we were wanting to meet this young lady we would of winked then send a very respectable message and let her decide if she would want to respond to us.

Not agree with her in a forum

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it's past his bedtime now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh I’m just disappointed now in the OP that he’s using a Zoolander quote and doesn’t know it.

I’m getting old

Hahaha FFS , all I know is the Ben Stiller stare

BLUE STEEL

FFS should've known that

He also is famous for saying he is “ridiculously good looking”

And he can’t turn left! But the moments gone now! Oh well! Lol!"

Now I get it haha

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By *r and Mrs BlackCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I think it's past his bedtime now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now people as a Welshman I need to set the post right

No self respecting Welsh sheep would lay with any English man

Lmao

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Now now people as a Welshman I need to set the post right

No self respecting Welsh sheep would lay with any English man

Lmao "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck me the banter is hilarious and sheep shaggers ? How original you are both hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now now people as a Welshman I need to set the post right

No self respecting Welsh sheep would lay with any English man

Lmao "

Now THAT’S funny!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Fuck me the banter is hilarious and sheep shaggers ? How original you are both hilarious"

We know but thanks for telling us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me the banter is hilarious and sheep shaggers ? How original you are both hilarious"

I think the joke is actual you could not even be a sheep shagger but I am only guessing that was the joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You three are so cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You three are so cute "

Why thank you kind sir

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ah the face palm thread

Fab never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah the face palm thread

Fab never fails "

Lmao your showing an unusual restraint tonight sweetie xx

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Bitch, we’re adorable

Oh you sly dog "

Can I join the adorable gang please

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By *r and Mrs BlackCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Fuck me the banter is hilarious and sheep shaggers ? How original you are both hilarious"

It's called interacting.....now I appreciate this might come as a suprise to you but it's what grown ups do......they don't demean each other and behave like petulant children when nobody wants to play because they're being generally rude and offensive....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bitch, we’re adorable

Oh you sly dog

Can I join the adorable gang please "

The more the merrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bitch, we’re adorable

Oh you sly dog

I would like to say we are beyond adorable we are Fabulous"

Damn right!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Bitch, we’re adorable

Oh you sly dog

Can I join the adorable gang please

The more the merrier "

Childfree zone

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Ah the face palm thread

Fab never fails

Lmao your showing an unusual restraint tonight sweetie xx"

Well I’m quite found of being restrained

Or have you forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bitch, we’re adorable

Oh you sly dog

Can I join the adorable gang please

The more the merrier

Childfree zone "

This looks like it's going to be a hot fun party all hail the fabulous party

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Fuck me the banter is hilarious and sheep shaggers ? How original you are both hilarious

It's called interacting.....now I appreciate this might come as a suprise to you but it's what grown ups do......they don't demean each other and behave like petulant children when nobody wants to play because they're being generally rude and offensive...."

Seriously? You are lecturing on people being demeaning and acting like children while all around you on the thread are people being nasty , patronising and demeaning to the OP?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

This thread reminded me of how nasty it can be on here at times

To anyone who wants to keep posting on the forum, you will need to read the forum rules before you next post.

Attacking people , dissecting a persons profile, being nasty and bitching are all against forum rules.

Yes I know, people will say it was "banter" when challenged but this was really not, especially when the person you are "bantering " with is not joining in.

Please, lets have some respect for other users, if you don't like what they write so much that it makes you want to attack them, then maybe log off or go view another thread.

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

To the OP, don't be put off from posting, if you get attacked again please report incase a mod hasn't see it and it will be dealt with

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