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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, action shots of you having sex, or sexual acts, with someone on your profile - are they a turn on, or turn off for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete lol

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Done with a bit of taste (subjective I know) there ok, oozing orrifices - no ta!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We find them confusing... Can never tell if they are people on profile or peeps they've met. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Done with a bit of taste (subjective I know) there ok, oozing orrifices - no ta!"

It is subjective - but this is actually completely my thoughts too!

‘Tasteful’ if you can describe it as that haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I’d definitely rather seen a nice, cute face pic than an ‘action’ one!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not keen, one or two maybe but not loads ~ especially on a single guys profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, action shots of you having sex, or sexual acts, with someone on your profile - are they a turn on, or turn off for you?"

Complete turn off for most.

And another thing to consider is what is the need of more than one cock photo???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so keen on them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Turn off for me. Less so on couple profiles, but I'd still rather not see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed. They're easily avoided if I don't want to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I m not a fan of them on singles profiles. How ever on couples profiles that's a different story

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's not a deal breaker, but they're not my favourite.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Oh maybe we should put ours in our friends only album then haha whoops!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Turn off for me. Why would I want to see you balls deep in a random?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it..you are a guy, you have had a woman..don't need to see her fadge..turn off for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definite off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tastefull suggestive arty pics i can like.

Untastefull tacky GGG spec stuff no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not that keen on it but we all have different tastes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm on a someone's profile, then I'd rather see pictures of them and not some uncredited playmate having fun with them aha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather see the face/body of the person who's profile it is. Single guys with loads of different girls in their pics would put me off (especially lots of bareback sex pics).

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Any photograph, even explicit action shots, can be beautiful, sexy, a turn on, erotic or sensual - it just depends on how much care and thought has gone into taking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge turn-off, but also useful as it tells me I would have nothing in common with the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan, no. I appreciate beauty and class. Some things are better left unseen.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don't mind one or two. But when the profile is entirely made up of play pics, especially when it's a man's profile and you can hardly see him at all (an inch of cock or the top of his thighs) it irritates me and is a delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm a huge fan of them.

Just check out my profile to see

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

We have a few in our friends only pics but they’re tasteful. Any time we see cum shots, or mouths dripping with cum or boobs covered we move on.

There’s no need for it, it’s not particularly attractive to us. Quite like seeing it in real life at meets but it’s a bit desperate in my opinion.

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a few in our friends only pics but they’re tasteful. Any time we see cum shots, or mouths dripping with cum or boobs covered we move on.

There’s no need for it, it’s not particularly attractive to us. Quite like seeing it in real life at meets but it’s a bit desperate in my opinion.

S "

I think this seems to be the case, either a complet turn off, or if people like them only ‘tasteful’ ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once messaged a couple who had a pic with the wife with 4 guys. We asked which one was her other half? She replied they all were, and sent us a photo of her being jizzed on by them all.

At that point we ceased communicating...

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud


"We once messaged a couple who had a pic with the wife with 4 guys. We asked which one was her other half? She replied they all were, and sent us a photo of her being jizzed on by them all.

At that point we ceased communicating..."

Wow lol I mean each to their own and all that but crikey that’s a lot of cum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few in our friends only pics but they’re tasteful. Any time we see cum shots, or mouths dripping with cum or boobs covered we move on.

There’s no need for it, it’s not particularly attractive to us. Quite like seeing it in real life at meets but it’s a bit desperate in my opinion.

S

I think this seems to be the case, either a complet turn off, or if people like them only ‘tasteful’ ones"
so you'll be keeping yours in private pics then

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Oh maybe we should put ours in our friends only album then haha whoops! "

Please don’t

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"We once messaged a couple who had a pic with the wife with 4 guys. We asked which one was her other half? She replied they all were, and sent us a photo of her being jizzed on by them all.

At that point we ceased communicating..."

I do find it harder on couples profiles with lots of group shots to figure out who's who. At least on a guys profile, I know he's the guy!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t do it for me...

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

As a single male, very interesting thread some valid important points, maybe time to update profile images.

“ Just need to find a good photographer know “.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"As a single male, very interesting thread some valid important points, maybe time to update profile images.

“ Just need to find a good photographer know “."

Now dam spell check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As newbies . I'm glad we looked at this thread, wouldn't have been aware it could be such a game changer for so many people . As a couple our pics are of us . Not with a whole load of randoms I can see why that would put people off and would and has out us of especially with singles profiles..

Major problem we have is we both have distinctive rather large tattoos . And both of us have to be very discrete on here as to our jobs so we cant put face pics or even full body pics ...

Any advice .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a few in our friends only pics but they’re tasteful. Any time we see cum shots, or mouths dripping with cum or boobs covered we move on.

There’s no need for it, it’s not particularly attractive to us. Quite like seeing it in real life at meets but it’s a bit desperate in my opinion.

S

I think this seems to be the case, either a complet turn off, or if people like them only ‘tasteful’ onesso you'll be keeping yours in private pics then "

No in action photos at all I’m afraid, can’t say ive ever really taken any on a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a definite turn off - and on a single guys profile it makes us wonder whether he has permission to post those pictures that contain others and as such makes us question the integrity of the guy involved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off and I delete.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife


"Oh maybe we should put ours in our friends only album then haha whoops!

Please don’t "

I already did haha I felt like I must be putting people off, it's very hard navigating the fab world of Dos and don'ts

I dont really mind action shots on a couples profile and D loves a good cream pie shot we must be in the minority

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few in our friends only pics but they’re tasteful. Any time we see cum shots, or mouths dripping with cum or boobs covered we move on.

There’s no need for it, it’s not particularly attractive to us. Quite like seeing it in real life at meets but it’s a bit desperate in my opinion.

S

I think this seems to be the case, either a complet turn off, or if people like them only ‘tasteful’ onesso you'll be keeping yours in private pics then

No in action photos at all I’m afraid, can’t say ive ever really taken any on a meet!"
too busy?

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Its a definite turn off - and on a single guys profile it makes us wonder whether he has permission to post those pictures that contain others and as such makes us question the integrity of the guy involved..."

I had permission to post images, would never do anything to cause upset or distress to anyone, totally respect boundaries

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Its a definite turn off - and on a single guys profile it makes us wonder whether he has permission to post those pictures that contain others and as such makes us question the integrity of the guy involved...

I had permission to post images, would never do anything to cause upset or distress to anyone, totally respect boundaries "

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Its a definite turn off - and on a single guys profile it makes us wonder whether he has permission to post those pictures that contain others and as such makes us question the integrity of the guy involved...

I had permission to post images, would never do anything to cause upset or distress to anyone, totally respect boundaries "

As they had permission from me to post images on their page.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally prefer to just see the person that I'm interested in, within a pic. Who they've done isn't relevant.

Worse - often there is much more of the other body in the shot, than the profile owner.

If your photos do not allow viewers to accurately perceive how you look, then you have failed - they will move on to the next profile instead, who does make it easy for them to see if they find you attractive. Unless you have something to hide and would like people to meet you blind

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"As newbies . I'm glad we looked at this thread, wouldn't have been aware it could be such a game changer for so many people . As a couple our pics are of us . Not with a whole load of randoms I can see why that would put people off and would and has out us of especially with singles profiles..

Major problem we have is we both have distinctive rather large tattoos . And both of us have to be very discrete on here as to our jobs so we cant put face pics or even full body pics ...

Any advice ..... "

You could consider makeup over the tattoos or using a photo editor software to blurr or remove them. You can keep photos as private, only sharing them with people that you choose to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't. "

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year."

If you read the thread there are quite a few reasons why women are not keen on 'action shots'.

Your last sentence as well...

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"I generally prefer to just see the person that I'm interested in, within a pic. Who they've done isn't relevant.

Worse - often there is much more of the other body in the shot, than the profile owner.

If your photos do not allow viewers to accurately perceive how you look, then you have failed - they will move on to the next profile instead, who does make it easy for them to see if they find you attractive. Unless you have something to hide and would like people to meet you blind "

Valid point taken “ nothing to hide here “ but must book a photo shoot and update profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, action shots of you having sex, or sexual acts, with someone on your profile - are they a turn on, or turn off for you?"

Not my bag. Each to their own though.

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By *oreFunForAllCouple
over a year ago

Dumstable

We like a mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they are doing and who they are doing it with. Can make or break it for me, like verifications can too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year."

I love to see a guy I’m with, with other women but only live. I really don’t like to see action shots on a profile. They actually turn me off a person tbh. Not sure why it is but it’s not the same as watching them with someone in front of me. I do think guys like to show off their action pics just like guys with their cock pics, like a trophy or something. It’s the same with gratuitous verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

If you read the thread there are quite a few reasons why women are not keen on 'action shots'.

Your last sentence as well... "

I did read it and not many reasons why other than stating it's a turn off. It's a general forumite consensus. Does that reflect fabbers? Not sure forums reflect the fab thinking as it's a very small representation and certain groups who chat a lot tend to gravitate towards similar reasoning.

Would be interesting to hear opinions of those who aren't forumites. I know a few who would not share this view.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


" I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year."

Hundreds? As in, at least 4 or 5 every single week throughout the whole year, without fail? And even then only 260 max which is a lot but not really hundreds, so maybe - daily? Every single day for a whole year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year."

What a ridiculous assertion! Even if they do, some of them might still value discretion and subtlety. By the way I have no idea what DS is, but from the tone of your post I can only assume it's something insulting

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Don’t anyone look at our profile

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We both really don't mind, it doesn't put us off. We only saw one this week on our feed, the woman from a couples profile was being piledrived and we both thought it was a hot pic, arty and 80s in nature. Fabbed obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t anyone look at our profile "

Haven’t come across yours before, but I’ll certainly be looking at it from now on after seeing your pics!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have lots of meets. Doesn't mean I want details of them hanging out all over Fab.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Couples with action shots yes, tasteful ones. Single profiles is a no thanks x

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By *andVCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Don’t anyone look at our profile "

Same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

Hundreds? As in, at least 4 or 5 every single week throughout the whole year, without fail? And even then only 260 max which is a lot but not really hundreds, so maybe - daily? Every single day for a whole year? "

I've been on here over 5 years and there are thousands more. Many are party and club goers and so can be meeting 5 to 10 a week when at them. Wouldn't take many events, and if going to swingfields, some could play with 20-40 at it, so it's not so incredulous as you might think. Only 4 or 5% use the forums.

I know some ladies who yes have over 5-600 veries showing. There are a few who after reaching 100 delete and start a new profile (a couple stating very selective in it too ).

But I guess you were avoiding the main point and trying to discredit it on a small point. Hopefully the explanation answers your concern on the maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

What a ridiculous assertion! Even if they do, some of them might still value discretion and subtlety. By the way I have no idea what DS is, but from the tone of your post I can only assume it's something insulting"

And how is that rediculous? Did I question anyone's discretion? Why you saying it's insulting or are you taking that in an insulating way? Sounds rather judgemental the way you assume something without knowing.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


" I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

Hundreds? As in, at least 4 or 5 every single week throughout the whole year, without fail? And even then only 260 max which is a lot but not really hundreds, so maybe - daily? Every single day for a whole year?

I've been on here over 5 years and there are thousands more. Many are party and club goers and so can be meeting 5 to 10 a week when at them. Wouldn't take many events, and if going to swingfields, some could play with 20-40 at it, so it's not so incredulous as you might think. Only 4 or 5% use the forums.

I know some ladies who yes have over 5-600 veries showing. There are a few who after reaching 100 delete and start a new profile (a couple stating very selective in it too ).

But I guess you were avoiding the main point and trying to discredit it on a small point. Hopefully the explanation answers your concern on the maths. "

Nope

Having been on the scene on and off for over 13 years and attended clubs several times a month on many occasions, I’ve yet to meet or observe any women who’ve played with 20-40 people in any one night let alone repeatedly. But ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My, my Mr Touch. Made a few people touchy here. A dream of yours is it to meet a woman who knows what she wants and what she’s doing? Practice makes perfect? Or quality over quantity?

Have to agree with you about the forums though. Groupthink mentality starts to set in and that’s why I think it is important to challenge the consensus on the threads and get people thinking. Plus it’s fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

What a ridiculous assertion! Even if they do, some of them might still value discretion and subtlety. By the way I have no idea what DS is, but from the tone of your post I can only assume it's something insulting

And how is that rediculous? Did I question anyone's discretion? Why you saying it's insulting or are you taking that in an insulating way? Sounds rather judgemental the way you assume something without knowing. "

Discretion - ie in not having intimate pictures plastered all over the Internet. I admit I am on the wrong site for subtlety and discretion. Not sure what is judgemental about my view? Women are free to meet as often as they like, but don't assume that all of them meet 500 times a year. That's what I found ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

Hundreds? As in, at least 4 or 5 every single week throughout the whole year, without fail? And even then only 260 max which is a lot but not really hundreds, so maybe - daily? Every single day for a whole year?

I've been on here over 5 years and there are thousands more. Many are party and club goers and so can be meeting 5 to 10 a week when at them. Wouldn't take many events, and if going to swingfields, some could play with 20-40 at it, so it's not so incredulous as you might think. Only 4 or 5% use the forums.

I know some ladies who yes have over 5-600 veries showing. There are a few who after reaching 100 delete and start a new profile (a couple stating very selective in it too ).

But I guess you were avoiding the main point and trying to discredit it on a small point. Hopefully the explanation answers your concern on the maths.

Nope

Having been on the scene on and off for over 13 years and attended clubs several times a month on many occasions, I’ve yet to meet or observe any women who’ve played with 20-40 people in any one night let alone repeatedly. But ok!"

There was a lady from London who only a few weeks ago was stating she could play with 30 different guts on a night in a club. So there are a few around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

What a ridiculous assertion! Even if they do, some of them might still value discretion and subtlety. By the way I have no idea what DS is, but from the tone of your post I can only assume it's something insulting

And how is that rediculous? Did I question anyone's discretion? Why you saying it's insulting or are you taking that in an insulating way? Sounds rather judgemental the way you assume something without knowing.

Discretion - ie in not having intimate pictures plastered all over the Internet. I admit I am on the wrong site for subtlety and discretion. Not sure what is judgemental about my view? Women are free to meet as often as they like, but don't assume that all of them meet 500 times a year. That's what I found ridiculous. "

I wondered why you'd raised discretion as an argument on such a public site where non members can view everything and only ones profile name and photo are blurred out.

Where did I say 'All' or even give that suggestion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My, my Mr Touch. Made a few people touchy here. A dream of yours is it to meet a woman who knows what she wants and what she’s doing? Practice makes perfect? Or quality over quantity?

Have to agree with you about the forums though. Groupthink mentality starts to set in and that’s why I think it is important to challenge the consensus on the threads and get people thinking. Plus it’s fun "

You got the point that I was putting out there, that regulars all soon start to say much the same thing, some without realising it, some denying it, but it's a fact if life. We absorb subconsciously a lot from those we surround ourselves with, whether that be ideals, behaviour or thought. Most don't and are uncomfortable to challenge the status quo. It's also wrong to assume those who do are arrogant, bigotted, antagonists or argumentative. Some are, but others do it out of a genuine interest. An inquisitive mind.

Fun maybe for some, for others it's healthy and informative.

Unfortunately so much is personalised when people feel threatened, there's little need to feel threatened with general comments though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think guys like action shots, but by the sounds of it women don't.

It's an interesting subject. Few women like to think he's been with many ladies, maybe it's to demonstrate she is more special. Definitely has a touch of DS.

I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

What a ridiculous assertion! Even if they do, some of them might still value discretion and subtlety. By the way I have no idea what DS is, but from the tone of your post I can only assume it's something insulting

And how is that rediculous? Did I question anyone's discretion? Why you saying it's insulting or are you taking that in an insulating way? Sounds rather judgemental the way you assume something without knowing.

Discretion - ie in not having intimate pictures plastered all over the Internet. I admit I am on the wrong site for subtlety and discretion. Not sure what is judgemental about my view? Women are free to meet as often as they like, but don't assume that all of them meet 500 times a year. That's what I found ridiculous.

I wondered why you'd raised discretion as an argument on such a public site where non members can view everything and only ones profile name and photo are blurred out.

Where did I say 'All' or even give that suggestion?"

"most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year." not "all," granted, but suggesting a majority. I would argue that it is still possible to maintain a sense of discretion/privacy, even on a public forum

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Not for me it's like them saying " ooooo look what I did"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me it's like them saying " ooooo look what I did" "
bit like a veri then or a status update

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Not for me it's like them saying " ooooo look what I did" bit like a veri then or a status update "

Rather not see the visual evidence...

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract

Not so keen on action shots of single women or couples who’s profile says safe sex then they show pics being barebacked by different cocks

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"Any photograph, even explicit action shots, can be beautiful, sexy, a turn on, erotic or sensual - it just depends on how much care and thought has gone into taking them. "

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


" I think it's rather irrelevant as most of these ladies have hundreds of meets a year.

Hundreds? As in, at least 4 or 5 every single week throughout the whole year, without fail? And even then only 260 max which is a lot but not really hundreds, so maybe - daily? Every single day for a whole year?

I've been on here over 5 years and there are thousands more. Many are party and club goers and so can be meeting 5 to 10 a week when at them. Wouldn't take many events, and if going to swingfields, some could play with 20-40 at it, so it's not so incredulous as you might think. Only 4 or 5% use the forums.

I know some ladies who yes have over 5-600 veries showing. There are a few who after reaching 100 delete and start a new profile (a couple stating very selective in it too ).

But I guess you were avoiding the main point and trying to discredit it on a small point. Hopefully the explanation answers your concern on the maths.

Nope

Having been on the scene on and off for over 13 years and attended clubs several times a month on many occasions, I’ve yet to meet or observe any women who’ve played with 20-40 people in any one night let alone repeatedly. But ok!

There was a lady from London who only a few weeks ago was stating she could play with 30 different guts on a night in a club. So there are a few around."

I can agree with you on ‘a few’ rather than ‘most.’

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