FabSwingers.com forum: Club recommendations in and around London?

By *rabble OP Man
over a year ago

Hammersmith

Can anyone recommend a club to me in or around London where there is plenty of play and chance to get involved?

I've been to a private club before but it was all very much BDSM themed with a fair bit of spanking and flogging going on, but no real hard play.

I would like to find a place where most people are naked and there is plenty of fucking going on and other sorts play. It would also need to be welcoming to new guests like myself

Ay suggestions or advise would be most welcome

By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"AbFabParties out near Heathrow is really good. It's a huge bungalow with a heated covered swimming pool and plenty of classy people. You need to phone them and get on the guest list though."

Agree with this. It's also a spa during the day (Kestrels is its daytime name) and in warm weather, as much play goes on as during the night time parties but you can get in on a day pass and I think it's cheaper (especially for single blokes) ... possibly an idea to see if you like the place.

By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Adfabs is best, but to give you an example of the difficulty you might face -

I was at ClubLick the other night, now I was there without my partner, but went because it was their 7th Aniversary, and Gary wanted me to come. It was a cracking event, over 100 people there, around ten single girls, and maybe 10 single guys, maybe 3 of them new to the scene.

One of them kept asking me for advice throughout the night, probably because I was talking to everyone and was friendly and approachable. I gave him some advice, told him to be sociable and friendly, and NOT to expect anything.

An hour or so goes by, at which point the club is really jumping, it was packed out, really good night, loads of people dancing, I was racing around collecting glasses and helping out basically as they were short handed, and I speak to the guy again later and he says 'So when does it all start...?'

This at once betrays his perceptions about the scene that he has - For one, it has 'started' as far as the other couples there were concerned. They were dancing, talking, socialising and having a good time. There were people up in the playroom, but obviously he can't go up there as a single guy.

This was followed by a similar comment of 'Where is all the action..' now the club only opened at 10pm and started filling up around 11.30pm and he said this around 12.30, I kind of had to explain to him that people were not there to start having sex as and when he felt like it and we take things at their own pace, but right now they were dancing and being very sexual on the dance floor. Now to be fair to him I did him socialise and make an effort to talk to people.

But just be clear don't expect to get sex just because you go to a club.