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By *rs Dreamweaver OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......

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By *rs Dreamweaver OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

...what a surprise this post has no replies.

Plenty for the weekly repetitive posts...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"...what a surprise this post has no replies.

Plenty for the weekly repetitive posts..."

I'm not sure what you were asking.

As I'm straight and part of a couple I don't have experience of what you say but it must be very frustrating

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Lots of single women on here looking for the same, myself included x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"
there are a lot of women who talk the talk then bam they disappear!

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"

Welcome to my world lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Me too.

Lesbian sheep syndrome.

Baah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......

Welcome to my world lol"

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I can relate. I would love to meet a female playmate for FF fun or meet as a couple... I’m open to so many combinations - but alas - I can’t seem to meet even one!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Lots of single women on here looking for the same, myself included x"

surely your not short on offers??

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

You and me both OP. The search still continues.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I feel your pain

It seems many women on here are only Bi to please their partners or at least will only meet for a threesome not that I’m even against that occasionally but I’m also happily married but my husband knows that if he were every lucky enough to be invited along it would be at the other girls request and not because he wanted a show putting on for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fully bi and more than happy to meet a woman on her own, though I'd love to be able to help fulfill my partner's fantasy about MFF, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always feels like the women close by are not interested in me and the ones who are are up in Scotland or in the South, which can be frustrating too.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I can imagine that this must be frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common frustrations here.

At times, I just want to meet somebody girly like me for bi fun without the last minute but predictable ‘husband wants to watch but won’t join!’.

I have a husband and believe me, he won’t be there if I say it’s only for me. I’ve decided against a singles profile as I may play alone but I’m still in a happy swinging relationship.

Anyway, moan over. Any females in London or Home Counties who want to meet

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By *ancfemWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I agree!!

So hard to meet a female playmate..... all for kok but I’d love some ff time too

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I deleted my single account cos I had no interest...or a little interest that went nowhere once it started to look promising...maybe when I've lost some more weight, I'll try again...but judging by everyone else's experience, for some reason, it's just really hard to find

K x

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"
Its not that there are not the women looking for fem on fem. Its finding a women where there is mutual attraction and that they live within reasonable travelling distance.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ...... Its not that there are not the women looking for fem on fem. Its finding a women where there is mutual attraction and that they live within reasonable travelling distance. "

I think that's exactly it. It's the distance, age and attraction x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"

If you have trouble finding another girl to play with there isn't much chance for the rest of us! What a lovely body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they have to be single?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve met bisexual women in a club and gone of to a private room with them, I do try and avoid bi curious now.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I've given up looking for a woman on here x

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"I've given up looking for a woman on here x "

Same. I'm surprised any women meet women...online especially seems to be really hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't find a female for FF either, a lot are just trying to hook a female for FFM with their partners or Fk buddies. Starts off FF then he enters the picture.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

by looks of this thread its seems as though single ladies looking for ladies have just as hard a time has single fellas looking on here?? very interesting

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I deleted my single account cos I had no interest...or a little interest that went nowhere once it started to look promising...maybe when I've lost some more weight, I'll try again...but judging by everyone else's experience, for some reason, it's just really hard to find

K x"

i really doubt weight is of issue for you, you look fantastic x

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"I deleted my single account cos I had no interest...or a little interest that went nowhere once it started to look promising...maybe when I've lost some more weight, I'll try again...but judging by everyone else's experience, for some reason, it's just really hard to find

K x

i really doubt weight is of issue for you, you look fantastic x"

That a very kind but its good camera angles

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I deleted my single account cos I had no interest...or a little interest that went nowhere once it started to look promising...maybe when I've lost some more weight, I'll try again...but judging by everyone else's experience, for some reason, it's just really hard to find

K x

i really doubt weight is of issue for you, you look fantastic x

That a very kind but its good camera angles "

your very modest i think

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It seems to me that there are a few ladies in this thread who are all looking for the same thing (FF fun) and all saying how difficult it is to find a lady to play with (tell me about it). Am I the only one who can see a solution here???

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"It seems to me that there are a few ladies in this thread who are all looking for the same thing (FF fun) and all saying how difficult it is to find a lady to play with (tell me about it). Am I the only one who can see a solution here???"

Yes

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It seems to me that there are a few ladies in this thread who are all looking for the same thing (FF fun) and all saying how difficult it is to find a lady to play with (tell me about it). Am I the only one who can see a solution here???

Yes "

Reeeaaalllyyy???

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"It seems to me that there are a few ladies in this thread who are all looking for the same thing (FF fun) and all saying how difficult it is to find a lady to play with (tell me about it). Am I the only one who can see a solution here???

Yes

Reeeaaalllyyy???"

A solution is that like minded girls message eachother....maybe they do...but I never get one lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah if only you was closer! I play with or without my man there

H xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find a female for FF either, a lot are just trying to hook a female for FFM with their partners or Fk buddies. Starts off FF then he enters the picture. "

True, even in this thread this is occurring, I love my FF play, hubby joins in later, however I wouldn’t seek out a single female and try to lure them and then introduce hubby, this is frequently what happens here, many single girls are in fact just bait as they really are a couple.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have had similar issues. Also though, some single women are just plain weird! Not that I mind weird, but when they get a bit too clingy and emotional I run for the hills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can all the bisexual woman move near me please then we can all solve each other’s problem

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Can all the bisexual woman move near me please then we can all solve each other’s problem "

On my way

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I can't find a female for FF either, a lot are just trying to hook a female for FFM with their partners or Fk buddies. Starts off FF then he enters the picture. "

I find this all the time. Start chatting to a single female and their fella starts getting mentioned. You ask do they not meet alone and it's a no. So why the fook don't you have a couples profile then!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L loves to play with ladies, would she meet alone, not unless she had met at a club first and felt comfortable.

It often feels black and white on here, there is very little “and”.

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By *inkykitten87Woman
over a year ago

York

Hmmm yes, also finding it hard to find the elusive FF meet.

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By *etAnotherDomMan
over a year ago

london

They've all been turned under a slew of unique cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ...... there are a lot of women who talk the talk then bam they disappear! "

I found that too! I've had better luck at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised it's so hard for women to meet other women, really curious to know why that is.

So curious!

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Always on the lookout for some one on one girly fun

Mrs Playful x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Bi here, he's doesn't join in unless all are comfortable.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

There are some out there, just have to be paitent... certainly agree never any local or close by I’m glad it’s not jus me (f) that feels like this sometimes

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'd love to find a female local for FF play. Hubby doesn't mind me playing alone with ladies. But sadly most female accounts in Cornwall are fake or straight or super skinny so wouldn't be at all interested in me!

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Very surprised, I would have thought this be the most popular combination for meets.

Especially alot of barriers have been demolished in terms of stigma against ff liasons and fem to fem seems so en vogue in the media. Spice girls snoggin, Katie Kissing girls, Tipping-the-velvet, Gentleman Jack, Killing Eve and more.

Maybe the specialist sites a drawing alot ladies away.

Perhaps a Ladies only lounge in the forums on here could be a meeting place solution.

Good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a fact that women are a lot fussier than men when selecting who to meet sexually. They'd probably only have sex with 10-15% of the demographic they're looking for, be it women, couples or men.

Therefore women looking for this are looking for the demographic in shortest supply on Fab anyway, with distance to consider who probably won't remotely fancy them anyway.

Probably the single hardest search on here in terms of numbers available, though at least the fact there are less women seeking this in the first place means they won't be struggling to be even noticed. Just that their intended meets probably don't find them attractive, sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love girls. Was nervous the first time I met on my own but absolutely loved it xx

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Getting over that first hurdle would be an achievement, probably the most thrilling. That could a major issue for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve even blocked single men to loom for the same ha x

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By *nknownAdventureCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

At the risk of offence I just ask that you read the whole post before judging...

Since joining Fab my girlfriend has had an experience and to cut a long story short (yes we'll share wih anybody that wants to get to know us) she doesn't want to share another guy.

We are one of the most balanced couples because I know that there is only one thing that I can't provide for her and that is a woman. I don't feel threatened in fact the opposite because I know she is getting something that mentally she can't enjoy without me sharing in that with her. That doesn't mean I have to be involved but I need to be there for her.

She then shares in my pleasure when I'm with somebody (again... just ask about the Russian when with us lol). We have a genuine need to share all three of us. It doesnt mean equal time but connection.

We think that anybody who joins us is in a position of being able to relax as there is no awkward look or feeling.

Then we come to Fab in that is seems that everybody is playing a game of not being truthful about what they want or even their willingness to actually see anybody.

You have guys pretending to be girls and girls trying to filter couples and in the end nobody getting what they want.

Why can't people be more straightforward... I really don't have a need to be hands on, or even have penetration we just need to feel that everybody is included. Take pleasure when it happens rather than working to a stopwatch.

We know that all Rachel needs is for me to be included (if I want to) and won't relax if I'm being excluded. Why would I want to interfere in her moment it's beautiful

So to the point... For every girl who says that she can't find another girl it's just the same for us looking for the elusive single female. At times there is a pressure to present yourself in a way that isn't true and that stinks.

Please can everybody just be more straight with each other. Don't appear interested and then give one word responses if you're not going to get to know us, just say you're not interested so no messing people about and we'll try not to do the same.

Fab runs on the premise that people state what thy want. please can we get back to that and maybe people will actually meet

Rant over

Ian x

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By *ftofJoyWoman
over a year ago

Harpenden

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By *nknownAdventureCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

P.s....

Please don't get upset when Rachel doesn't want to go off by herself to fulfil your 3some when you're not happy for your wife to do the same....

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Thus far, I've found that most of the attention I get comes from women who are too far under my age preferences. Also, I thought single guys were notorious for dirty messages right off the bat, and trying to get a sexytime meet in as few words as possible, but I've experienced almost nothing but that from women; my profile is pretty clear that I'm not looking for quickies! Ah well.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Thus far, I've found that most of the attention I get comes from women who are too far under my age preferences. Also, I thought single guys were notorious for dirty messages right off the bat, and trying to get a sexytime meet in as few words as possible, but I've experienced almost nothing but that from women; my profile is pretty clear that I'm not looking for quickies! Ah well. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight "

So are spaghetti until they are wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight

So are spaghetti until they are wet "

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By *rs Dreamweaver OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ah if only you was closer! I play with or without my man there

H xx"

Very sexy too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single women on here looking for the same, myself included x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"

Same here fun and friendship with female in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems most are too far away from me

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over a year ago

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By *ily1997Woman
over a year ago

swindon

I guess it can be a bit scary and unsure. Me for example, I am very much wanting to experience a lady but totally not sure what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do any clubs do ladies only nights/events?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One day ladies! One day!

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Thank god, was beginning to think it was just my crappy luck..but no. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a pitty everyone is so far away

I’m fully Bi and would love to meet the right female to become my playmate obviously without any men

Us girls have needs aswell

Spice

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By *ornylicious MinxWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

I’m looking for a women FB, seems I can’t find anyone or they live too far away

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"...what a surprise this post has no replies.

Plenty for the weekly repetitive posts..."

im a fully bi lady I love pusy more than cock been looking for 2 years for single girl off here and only met 1 lots chat but never meet up

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By *iproperswingersCouple
over a year ago

Rainham

Mm girly time rocks. Really gets my mojo going. Have a bit of a girl crush on at the moment for one of my play mates.

Xxx

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"...what a surprise this post has no replies.

Plenty for the weekly repetitive posts...

im a fully bi lady I love pusy more than cock been looking for 2 years for single girl off here and only met 1 lots chat but never meet up"

Pick me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve organised a female only social in our area, we’ve had lots of interest, why not try that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, currently finding they will message me but say only if husband watches or plays.

When I say sorry nicely but only looking for 1:1 it gets shitty then you find it’s the man doing the talking

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By *H and HJCouple
over a year ago

Bangor


"Do any clubs do ladies only nights/events? "

The Townhouse holds amazing female only events called Indulgence from time to time-check them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s lots of bi females on here using single female profiles but most are married/attached or have a man lurking in the shadows, I find that this puts me off! Even tho I want ff fun I’d rather play with a couple that are on here as a couple than have a man appear on a ff meet.....

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"There’s lots of bi females on here using single female profiles but most are married/attached or have a man lurking in the shadows, I find that this puts me off! Even tho I want ff fun I’d rather play with a couple that are on here as a couple than have a man appear on a ff meet....."
...

I'm the same now tbh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s lots of bi females on here using single female profiles but most are married/attached or have a man lurking in the shadows, I find that this puts me off! Even tho I want ff fun I’d rather play with a couple that are on here as a couple than have a man appear on a ff meet....."

Agreed and I’ve seen these profiles but what about genuine cases where I’m part of a couple and want some girl fun alone. Is it worth setting up a separate profile? I’m not sure but tempted

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Its the same here, I'm bi but I'd love some girly fun. If I were closer id take _aven red out for sure xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Its the same here, I'm bi but I'd love some girly fun. If I were closer id take _aven red out for sure xx"

Was thinking the exact same about you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, looking for a girl all I get is messages from old men asking 'can I suck your cock m8'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a varied experience from FAB but safe to say a frustrating one. We are looking for a ‘normal’ couple in that the women can play and the men can stay in the bar downstairs. Sounds simple doesn’t it.

No pressure. It’s not. The guys always push for more. We tried all being on the bed FF and own partner play. It didn’t work eventually the line was crossed and trust was lost.

Even trying to just have the men in the room the other guy would have a couple of drinks and instantly clamber onto the bed instead of just watching.

So eventually the Mrs said. No men. She has a sex life with women outside this FAB world and I am not part of that. I respect it’s her needs and I understand and it’s really horny to here about.. but trying to find a normal couple or woman that has a social connection with us but just has sex with A is sooo hard to find..

personally as ‘the man in the background’ I don’t want to fuck you, simply to meet you would be nice, but that’s it.. the men in the background are not always dirty old perverts..

Any couples that the guy is a laugh and just wants a beer while they play then get in contact. Any women that want a truly Bi woman and no pressure from the man then get in contact she’s a truly amazing woman and plus she’s stunning sexually and physically...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s lots of bi females on here using single female profiles but most are married/attached or have a man lurking in the shadows, I find that this puts me off! Even tho I want ff fun I’d rather play with a couple that are on here as a couple than have a man appear on a ff meet.....

Agreed and I’ve seen these profiles but what about genuine cases where I’m part of a couple and want some girl fun alone. Is it worth setting up a separate profile? I’m not sure but tempted "

I’ve got a single profile. I am married but he’s definitely not getting involved in anything,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a varied experience from FAB but safe to say a frustrating one. We are looking for a ‘normal’ couple in that the women can play and the men can stay in the bar downstairs. Sounds simple doesn’t it.

No pressure. It’s not. The guys always push for more. We tried all being on the bed FF and own partner play. It didn’t work eventually the line was crossed and trust was lost.

Even trying to just have the men in the room the other guy would have a couple of drinks and instantly clamber onto the bed instead of just watching.

So eventually the Mrs said. No men. She has a sex life with women outside this FAB world and I am not part of that. I respect it’s her needs and I understand and it’s really horny to here about.. but trying to find a normal couple or woman that has a social connection with us but just has sex with A is sooo hard to find..

personally as ‘the man in the background’ I don’t want to fuck you, simply to meet you would be nice, but that’s it.. the men in the background are not always dirty old perverts..

Any couples that the guy is a laugh and just wants a beer while they play then get in contact. Any women that want a truly Bi woman and no pressure from the man then get in contact she’s a truly amazing woman and plus she’s stunning sexually and physically... "

If only you were closer!

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

There's a Silks and Sins party coming up for ladies at Purple Mamba in August (have a look at the Lady Chic profile)

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should just rename the single women button to non replying pointless chanting fools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They should just rename the single women button to non replying pointless chanting fools "

Someone’s been burnt before!

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By *riendly_Mancs_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Bi - Tick

Love playing with girls - Tick

Play alone (no males) - Tick

Verified - Tick

Played with girls before - Tick

Phone chat to prove I’m female - Tick

Open to a social meet first - Tick

North West Based

Medium build

Xxx

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By *accaandpearce99Couple
over a year ago

northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s lots of bi females on here using single female profiles but most are married/attached or have a man lurking in the shadows, I find that this puts me off! Even tho I want ff fun I’d rather play with a couple that are on here as a couple than have a man appear on a ff meet.....

Agreed and I’ve seen these profiles but what about genuine cases where I’m part of a couple and want some girl fun alone. Is it worth setting up a separate profile? I’m not sure but tempted "

Maybe, if you both meet and play alone then yeah x

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By *i-DottyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I can't find a female for FF either, a lot are just trying to hook a female for FFM with their partners or Fk buddies. Starts off FF then he enters the picture.

I find this all the time. Start chatting to a single female and their fella starts getting mentioned. You ask do they not meet alone and it's a no. So why the fook don't you have a couples profile then! "

This really fucks me off, happens so much!

I report the profile but nothing seems to be done. They remain on a single woman profile to piss the next person about

I’m in Norwich and happy to travel about Norfolk / Suffolk. if any lovely ladies are reading this I do meet and no surprise FB / BF - check out my profile & veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single women on here looking for the same, myself included x"

Same here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married but if I was to meet a woman then no men would be involved at all. Maybe a few pics to tease but they won't see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for other girls myself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr friend is bi, shes only had experience with other girls in university and wants to explore it more but is shy to come on here

I think the problem is exactly that there are single women who are to shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr friend is bi, shes only had experience with other girls in university and wants to explore it more but is shy to come on here

I think the problem is exactly that there are single women who are to shy "

Maybe so but most know lurking is the other half who isn't happy to just let girls play.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Lots of single women on here looking for the same, myself included x

Same here xx"

No hidden OH's either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr friend is bi, shes only had experience with other girls in university and wants to explore it more but is shy to come on here

I think the problem is exactly that there are single women who are to shy "

Hahaha Very few women are shy, I’m sure if she really wants to come on here she will........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve given up on Fab a couple of times and keep coming back in the hope that I’ll find a lady to play with, so far the only ones close enough to be feasible who I’ve shown interest in have either not responded or gone quiet after an initial chat. I appreciate that not everyone I message is going to be attracted to me obviously!! But I’m losing hope that I’ll find someone with a mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve given up on Fab a couple of times and keep coming back in the hope that I’ll find a lady to play with, so far the only ones close enough to be feasible who I’ve shown interest in have either not responded or gone quiet after an initial chat. I appreciate that not everyone I message is going to be attracted to me obviously!! But I’m losing hope that I’ll find someone with a mutual attraction "

Depends if your age requirements are hard and fast

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By *ooneyloubylouWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Any Norfolk girls up for some one on one girl fun, message me

Kirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very true

Shame really

I’ve even been looking for ages x

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

Lots of couple's seem to be fine with the male having fun but the female will only play with females maby see if any of those lady's can play alown also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we live at opposite ends of the country , Fire has given me a “pass” to to try to meet a girl on her own (I’m VERY bi), but even though you spell it out that I’m looking for just a girl/girl meeting without any male involvement at all - it never happens.

Fire has suggested that I set up a separate profile just for me to meet girls - but like another poster , as far as I’m concerned I’m in a loving and committed relationship and don’t feel the need of a separate profile.

Smoke x

Ps if any girls are going to find themselves in Edinburgh feel free to drop us a line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we live at opposite ends of the country , Fire has given me a “pass” to to try to meet a girl on her own (I’m VERY bi), but even though you spell it out that I’m looking for just a girl/girl meeting without any male involvement at all - it never happens.

Fire has suggested that I set up a separate profile just for me to meet girls - but like another poster , as far as I’m concerned I’m in a loving and committed relationship and don’t feel the need of a separate profile.

Smoke x

Ps if any girls are going to find themselves in Edinburgh feel free to drop us a line "

If you’re struggling then there’s no hope, you’re smoking!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we live at opposite ends of the country , Fire has given me a “pass” to to try to meet a girl on her own (I’m VERY bi), but even though you spell it out that I’m looking for just a girl/girl meeting without any male involvement at all - it never happens.

Fire has suggested that I set up a separate profile just for me to meet girls - but like another poster , as far as I’m concerned I’m in a loving and committed relationship and don’t feel the need of a separate profile.

Smoke x

Ps if any girls are going to find themselves in Edinburgh feel free to drop us a line

If you’re struggling then there’s no hope, you’re smoking! "

Thank you xx

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By *rs Dreamweaver OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I am married but if I was to meet a woman then no men would be involved at all. Maybe a few pics to tease but they won't see it.

"

That is exactly my stance

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Very difficult to find single women or women without partner watching.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome to my world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ...... there are a lot of women who talk the talk then bam they disappear! "

Exactly! So many say they wish to have some fun and the boom, they are gone leaving you wondering what just happened...what the hell I did wrong? Been there and just hidden my single profile as there was no interest from ladies only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Common frustrations here.

At times, I just want to meet somebody girly like me for bi fun without the last minute but predictable ‘husband wants to watch but won’t join!’.

I have a husband and believe me, he won’t be there if I say it’s only for me. I’ve decided against a singles profile as I may play alone but I’m still in a happy swinging relationship.

Anyway, moan over. Any females in London or Home Counties who want to meet "

Me I’m here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi but most of my messages are from couples and guys. If i add a status saying im in a girly mood they just increase. Best to just msg yourself and ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a singles profile too .. but just seemed to be couples fulfilling fantasies .. I’m only interested in one on one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have a singles profile too .. but just seemed to be couples fulfilling fantasies .. I’m only interested in one on one "

Me too. And I don't know how many times I've received messages about it and chat flowed fine just to find at the end hubby will be just watching!

I don't want hubby to be there at all. How many times do I have to say?

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

There was talk of a woman only meet in mcr a while back ... don't know if it ever happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty on single females looking for one on one meets with other women, myself included.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Would love to meet you but not by myself, you look very sexy

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Another lady here looking to meet ladies.

Not had any success on Fab yet. My verification is from a lady I already know well, having originally met as couples, before having two lovely solo meets.

I will be looking back through this thread, to see if there are any ladies who might be interested in meeting.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

I’m looking, I am finding it difficult as there seem to be lots of fake profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs is free to meet fems alone (her preference) and has done in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself have difficulty in finding genuine single females you get chatting to one and suddenly they mention a partner they would love to bring along to watch so I'm still looking for the elusive single females

Mrs lick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking as well have to take a closer look at all the lovely ladies who posted on this thread before me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"

I'm bi and have reached out to women on here a few times. Have read their profiles and been respectful but they don't reply. So after a while I gave up bothering.

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By *orsche40Couple
over a year ago

northwich

Oh if only I could find one x

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Ocd is looking for a lady for one on one meets in rochester/Kent area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight

So are spaghetti until they are wet "

This

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm in Sheffield and would love to chat to anyone local. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah not just me then!

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just a heads up for the Silks and Sins Party this Friday at Purple Mamba x

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By *riendly_Mancs_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Thread was started 9 months ago so just refreshing this for people who missed it originally. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not surprised to see so many ladies struggling here.

My wife is looking for fems and wants no male involvement whatsoever (that includes me). Its the reason she has a singles profiles and not a couples one. But as has been said, most have a guy somewhere who 'wants to watch'.

Maybe she's struggling because she's only at the curious stage and no one wants to be a teacher or maybe she's struggling because we live in a swinging black spot.

Who knows but for her, for now, the search continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My GF looking for a GF ..I don’t get involved ..at the beginning will want me there but not joining in

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"There’s lots of bi females on here using single female profiles but most are married/attached or have a man lurking in the shadows, I find that this puts me off! Even tho I want ff fun I’d rather play with a couple that are on here as a couple than have a man appear on a ff meet.....

Agreed and I’ve seen these profiles but what about genuine cases where I’m part of a couple and want some girl fun alone. Is it worth setting up a separate profile? I’m not sure but tempted "

Mrs T has a single lady profile for just that reason, she has had more luck finding a lady that way. Check her out...it’s deviant_fun

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By *rs Dreamweaver OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Nearly a year later and still no luck.

I have almost given up hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this! The search continues...x

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By *ittenkeeperWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm always looking for lovely ladies, I am joining your continuing search. Any East Anglia ladies please get touch

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Nearly a year later and still no luck.

I have almost given up hope"

Same here... I’m holding onto some hope... maybe when we least expect it...

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By *uzybeeWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Hello

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"My endless search for girl playmates continues.

There are so few single girls looking for the same on here.

One day ......"
Sue likes feminine attractive girls ...like you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Don't rule out the women in couples. As far as I'm concerned my OH can do whatever she wants with another woman and I don't have to be involved in any way. I'd only get involved if all parties wanted that. Other that she's free to roam with other women.

I do realise that a lot of couples sound like that and then try to smuggle in the man as part of the deal, but not all couples are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for meeting some female Fabbers.

But not the ones that want to include their partner x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm open to it, always have been

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Would love to have some fun with other women but do understand that single ladies are reluctant to want hubby involved too, so we are still hoping to eventually have it as a reality

Mrs

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm up for meeting some female Fabbers.

But not the ones that want to include their partner x"

Looks like we're not that far away from each other.

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women that are “single”

Always say but can my fuckbuddy join/watch,

Or can my husband come for safety reasons or,

My master says he has to be involved ... never actually a single lady

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Most women that are “single”

Always say but can my fuckbuddy join/watch,

Or can my husband come for safety reasons or,

My master says he has to be involved ... never actually a single lady"

Yeah this pisses me off. If I don't know the partner exists from the beginning, the answer is no.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Most women that are “single”

Always say but can my fuckbuddy join/watch,

Or can my husband come for safety reasons or,

My master says he has to be involved ... never actually a single lady

Yeah this pisses me off. If I don't know the partner exists from the beginning, the answer is no."

That's really shit. We would never do that. We'd make it clear that I exist and I don't want to be treated like a pariah but we would never use Hannah's interest in women as a ploy to get a threesome. If I'm not involved i won't be trying to muscle in on anything.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Most women that are “single”

Always say but can my fuckbuddy join/watch,

Or can my husband come for safety reasons or,

My master says he has to be involved ... never actually a single lady

Yeah this pisses me off. If I don't know the partner exists from the beginning, the answer is no."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tina had her own profile for many years, met about a dozen women mostly one off's. Most fems were playing under orders from their male partners with hope of guy joining in on a future meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also a single lady here that likes to meet women for one on one meets.

In my experience whilst people say that single women aren't really single and are looking to get someone else involved, this is also true of solo accounts who have been in touch in the past, and then drop in that they want their partner involved. It does happen both ways sadly.

I am very clear on my profile of what I am looking for, but then most don't read them

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"I can relate. I would love to meet a female playmate for FF fun or meet as a couple... I’m open to so many combinations - but alas - I can’t seem to meet even one! "

That's just puzzling

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Part of a couple

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Don't rule out the women in couples. As far as I'm concerned my OH can do whatever she wants with another woman and I don't have to be involved in any way. I'd only get involved if all parties wanted that. Other that she's free to roam with other women.

I do realise that a lot of couples sound like that and then try to smuggle in the man as part of the deal, but not all couples are like that. "

This. I am hoping to find another woman this way. MrD is more than happy for me to play with a woman alone. Then if we all want 4some fun, all good. Also in time if each woman wanted to join in with their partner for mff.

Trouble is...I am incredibly fussy and the women I find attractive are probably not interested in me. Its going to be a long road I think!

MsD

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

B been looking for a girlfriend for some time now no luck at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in a couple but play singly with girls....

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always open to a new female friend x

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By *avoratetoyCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It’s a nightmare on here!!!

I’ve pulled more hot girls on a night out!!

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By *vyrain86Woman
over a year ago

Exeter

I honestly think it's more difficult to find a woman on here than what it would be on a night out.

It's so so difficult xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly think it's more difficult to find a woman on here than what it would be on a night out.

It's so so difficult xx"
Yes finding the right one is hard but when you do it’s so worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and yes he does know about this profile

I would also like to find a female to meet to have a good talk to and play with if we both click

A night out with another like minded female would also be great

No I wouldn't like my husband to come with me and wouldn't like the other female to bring a male with them

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By *havenbabe01Couple
over a year ago

bedfordshire

its so difficult finding a genuine bi fem

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I am married and yes he does know about this profile

I would also like to find a female to meet to have a good talk to and play with if we both click

A night out with another like minded female would also be great

No I wouldn't like my husband to come with me and wouldn't like the other female to bring a male with them

"

You might like to approach Raven Red. She's in the same part of the world as you and also wants to find a lady.

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By *uriouscats30Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Don't rule out the women in couples. As far as I'm concerned my OH can do whatever she wants with another woman and I don't have to be involved in any way. I'd only get involved if all parties wanted that. Other that she's free to roam with other women.

I do realise that a lot of couples sound like that and then try to smuggle in the man as part of the deal, but not all couples are like that. "

Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because i have a partner that would like to watch doesn't mean i'm not capable of saying no or being genuine

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By *rankyandbennyCouple
over a year ago

Belgium

Reading with interest ?? M (Mrs)

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By *illingMeSoftlyCouple
over a year ago

North West

So true. It’s hard on here to find the right (truly bi) girl for ‘girls only’ play dates and not a lot of couples are keen on solo fem meets. We have a couple profile and I have a single profile looking for girly meets. I’m hopeful to meet a gorgeous girl after lockdown for some fun dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So true. It’s hard on here to find the right (truly bi) girl for ‘girls only’ play dates and not a lot of couples are keen on solo fem meets. We have a couple profile and I have a single profile looking for girly meets. I’m hopeful to meet a gorgeous girl after lockdown for some fun dates. "

I wouldn’t let my other half go on her own, it’s about us both having fun and plus.... anything can happen nowadays !

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By *illingMeSoftlyCouple
over a year ago

North West


"So true. It’s hard on here to find the right (truly bi) girl for ‘girls only’ play dates and not a lot of couples are keen on solo fem meets. We have a couple profile and I have a single profile looking for girly meets. I’m hopeful to meet a gorgeous girl after lockdown for some fun dates.

I wouldn’t let my other half go on her own, it’s about us both having fun and plus.... anything can happen nowadays !"

Whatever works for you x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"So true. It’s hard on here to find the right (truly bi) girl for ‘girls only’ play dates and not a lot of couples are keen on solo fem meets. We have a couple profile and I have a single profile looking for girly meets. I’m hopeful to meet a gorgeous girl after lockdown for some fun dates.

I wouldn’t let my other half go on her own, it’s about us both having fun and plus.... anything can happen nowadays !"

I definitely would if that's what she wanted. Luke

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