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Would the offer of a massage make you meet someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite a lot of guys on here seem to think they are amazing at giving massages and seek to think thats what will get me to meet them.

Just wondering does this sort of offer actually appeal to people because it doesnt for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't be down to the offer of a massage alone but I do have a massage fantasy and so if that's something we both enjoy then I will be more open to meeting.

It's just like any other sexual practice, you're more likely to meet someone who enjoys the same things as you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a lot of guys on here seem to think they are amazing at giving massages and seek to think thats what will get me to meet them.

Just wondering does this sort of offer actually appeal to people because it doesnt for me?"
is that hubby asking?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"It wouldn't be down to the offer of a massage alone but I do have a massage fantasy and so if that's something we both enjoy then I will be more open to meeting.

It's just like any other sexual practice, you're more likely to meet someone who enjoys the same things as you do. "

I could not agree more

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope, it puts my teeth on edge.

And if they mention yoni massage even worse!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. It sort of feels like, you wouldn't normally meet me, but how about this extra?

Still no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

It would really appeal to me yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The above, plus you don't know if they're the type to try it on while you're there.

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

The offers have got so common that actually we find it off putting now! Everyone claims to offer a massage, as if that's the absolute key to a great meet.

A decent message just honestly saying what you want, that's the rare treat!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't mind if it happened during a meet sort of thing, but I don't like it as part of the package being sold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't appeal to me. I'm a qualified therapist an unless you are qualified with a full A&P and can conduct an assessment with specific questions you can easily cause someone some damage.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

The offer of any massage, straight away is a "No thank you"

The oils completely bugger up my Nylons and they are expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, it puts my teeth on edge.

And if they mention yoni massage even worse!"

I'm totally with you on this!!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Yep everyone suddenly becomes a physio or a mister grey , generally try both between messages and profile.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

Being a professional massage therapist it puts me off. As it's usually crap and a waste of my time.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've found that in a club.. guys seem to do very well offering massages.

In fact I can think of 3 times in the past week that I know of a guy offering a massage and getting lucky. 4 if I count the one I gave and got one in return

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

In terms of fab I doubt the offer of an 'innocent' massage washes well. We all like a massage but however a innocent an amazing massage claims to be most see it as coming with expectations or strings. I would say if anyone meets it has little to do with the offer of a massage and everthing to do with the other person actually wanting to meet them. So a massage may add a selling point but it has little value to securing a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt make me make me want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it's actually cringe for me... I hate massages

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, I social first anyway but even on a sex meet I wouldn't be interested.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"In terms of fab I doubt the offer of an 'innocent' massage washes well. We all like a massage but however a innocent an amazing massage claims to be most see it as coming with expectations or strings. I would say if anyone meets it has little to do with the offer of a massage and everthing to do with the other person actually wanting to meet them. So a massage may add a selling point but it has little value to securing a meet."
I had a guy promise me a nsa massage at a club. He gave me a great massage.. then got his cock out.. I kinda looked at him and just reminded him that he said nothing in return and got dressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a professional massage therapist it puts me off. As it's usually crap and a waste of my time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't temp me, as unless someone properly knows what they're doing and I'd already be interested in meeting them, in which case I'd incorporate it into the meet providing I felt it would enhance the meet somewhat.

If I'm having a massage I want a massage, I like to relax, I like to unwind and forget the world.

P

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We met with a guy who was a professional massage therapist, his job was in sports, met him because he was hot and a great guy and not because of the massage, I didn’t know in our early chats what his job was and it certainly wasn’t his opening message and the first meet didn’t involve a massage but the second did and wow, started off with a deep tissue massage at his work place so all professional, then became erotic, had me wetter than an otters pocket just through massage and definitely had a happy ending. We have had plenty of other people messaging saying about massage but don’t think it would be the same if not professional and wouldn’t look to meet if that was their opening message, so guess I just got lucky

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"The above, plus you don't know if they're the type to try it on while you're there. "

Have a social or 2 first see how you get on then take it from there...I did it was great x

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"We met with a guy who was a professional massage therapist, his job was in sports, met him because he was hot and a great guy and not because of the massage, I didn’t know in our early chats what his job was and it certainly wasn’t his opening message and the first meet didn’t involve a massage but the second did and wow, started off with a deep tissue massage at his work place so all professional, then became erotic, had me wetter than an otters pocket just through massage and definitely had a happy ending. We have had plenty of other people messaging saying about massage but don’t think it would be the same if not professional and wouldn’t look to meet if that was their opening message, so guess I just got lucky "

I agree xx

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"In terms of fab I doubt the offer of an 'innocent' massage washes well. We all like a massage but however a innocent an amazing massage claims to be most see it as coming with expectations or strings. I would say if anyone meets it has little to do with the offer of a massage and everthing to do with the other person actually wanting to meet them. So a massage may add a selling point but it has little value to securing a meet."

this x

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By *enie MeenieMan
over a year ago

Crawley Down

Nope unless they are massaging my dick with their lips

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We love a good sensual and relaxed massage with scented oils it relaxes her and she's usually gagging for sex afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a lot of guys on here seem to think they are amazing at giving massages and seek to think thats what will get me to meet them.

Just wondering does this sort of offer actually appeal to people because it doesnt for me?"

No, it's one of the things that puts us off actually.

Mrs

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes because I like to receive and give massages, baby oil ones so you know it's gonna end up slippery and sexual

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A massage usually makes me sleepy. It'd be counterproductive.

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