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What do you deem is vanilla?

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By *adeite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

So we're all different with different idea of what kinky is. So what do you deem as vanilla?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't really, it's not a word I like to use in connection with sex I think it creates an 'us and them' way of thinking.

Most of us are sexual beings somewhere on a very wide spectrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what ice cream you use? lol.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"So we're all different with different idea of what kinky is. So what do you deem as vanilla?

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Monogamous sex with no toys/restraints etc. Even us kinky devils can have some lovely vanilla sex.

Lou x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have always considered Vanilla to be those who are not actively involved in the swinging world, so friends, family work etc.

Having said that we got told recently by another couple that we were to vanilla for them because we were not into BDSM so I guess vanilla is a sliding scale depending on the person.

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By *adeite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Depends what ice cream you use? lol."

I prefer pistachio

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By *adeite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

I just like seeing people's views tbh. But after being told I'm vanilla when I don't think I am it got me thinking about this.

I'd say that if you're not into this and just normal sex then it's vanilla

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just like seeing people's views tbh. But after being told I'm vanilla when I don't think I am it got me thinking about this.

I'd say that if you're not into this and just normal sex then it's vanilla "

It's just another label. I think most labels are useful but this particular one isn't because its not specific

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By *adeite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford


"I just like seeing people's views tbh. But after being told I'm vanilla when I don't think I am it got me thinking about this.

I'd say that if you're not into this and just normal sex then it's vanilla

It's just another label. I think most labels are useful but this particular one isn't because its not specific "

No it really isn't. One person's vanilla is another person's rainbow.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

When there is no imagination in sex and it’s like a robotic process that’s exactly the same each time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just like seeing people's views tbh. But after being told I'm vanilla when I don't think I am it got me thinking about this.

I'd say that if you're not into this and just normal sex then it's vanilla

It's just another label. I think most labels are useful but this particular one isn't because its not specific

No it really isn't. One person's vanilla is another person's rainbow. "

Yep. I'm pretty sure most of my friends would think I'm a perverted freak but to my mind I'm just ordinary

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I just like seeing people's views tbh. But after being told I'm vanilla when I don't think I am it got me thinking about this.

I'd say that if you're not into this and just normal sex then it's vanilla "

By ‘not into this’ do you mean just being on this site? To me, swinging is partner swapping, I don’t think single people are swinging, they’re just using the site to find sex. If a single person is on here to have run of the mill sex with one person at the same time then I’d say that’s pretty ‘vanilla’. But who cares what people say or what they categorise you as, if you’re enjoying yourself crack on.

Lou x

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Tesco shopping for ice cream is about as vanilla as you can get xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice cream.......

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By *obi_DDCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I'm more into BDSM so for me vanilla is non-BDSM, not non-swinging. That said, I'm sure a lot of people would find me vanilla

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

For me vanilla or when couples keep it only in bedroom, just simple sex with no toys, restrains and some of them dont even do oral.

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