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finding a mff 3sum so hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my partner thought joining this site would be easy to find what we was looking for but its actually very difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think u might be better with more pics of u both on display...otherwise its hard work in my opinion, as u would know single women get so much mail...they need something thats gonna stand out to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and maybe a club would be good... getta wee private room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding an 'F' to join us has been pretty tricky ... all in good time i guess, but would be nice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve found it alot easyer than finding a mmf suprisingly

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Me and my partner thought joining this site would be easy to find what we was looking for but its actually very difficult."

now you have to put your mindset in the same position as single men.... welcome to our world!!

so why did you think it would be easy? it is an honest question.... i think that is part of the problem and the perception....

how do you both stand out from everyone else looking for the same thing... what is your selling point... what makes people think "wow i have to meet that couple"...

the problem for a lot of single ladies is they don't want to be treated like someone elses plaything.... again, perception.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet couples but have to build a wee bit of trust first and I tend to like meeting people through socials first. Good luck with finding what you want xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my partner thought joining this site would be easy to find what we was looking for but its actually very difficult.

now you have to put your mindset in the same position as single men.... welcome to our world!!

so why did you think it would be easy? it is an honest question.... i think that is part of the problem and the perception....

how do you both stand out from everyone else looking for the same thing... what is your selling point... what makes people think "wow i have to meet that couple"...

the problem for a lot of single ladies is they don't want to be treated like someone elses plaything.... again, perception....."

+1

Im afraid you are in competition for a lady with a lot (if not most) of the other members on the site, it isn't easy, but your rewards are proportional to the work you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus because of a few select idiots I think some women are wary of couples only looking for a single female because it could be just a guy using a couples profile to try and get around the 'no single guys' thing and when it comes to a meet coming up with excuses like 'oh she can't make it but we could still do stuff' etc.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Me and my partner thought joining this site would be easy to find what we was looking for but its actually very difficult.

now you have to put your mindset in the same position as single men.... welcome to our world!!

so why did you think it would be easy? it is an honest question.... i think that is part of the problem and the perception....

how do you both stand out from everyone else looking for the same thing... what is your selling point... what makes people think "wow i have to meet that couple"...

the problem for a lot of single ladies is they don't want to be treated like someone elses plaything.... again, perception....."

This^^^^^^

What are u offering to a single fem that she cant get at a club...

i meet couples, but i have to click with both of them, and they me, its far easier to do that outside than in here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We made an approach to a few localish ladies. We let them know what would be on offer, what facilities were available at our place and also more about ourselves than in our normal profile. Most answered within 48hrs, and those that expressed interest went on to arrange a rendezvous that agreed to them so that we could have that 'frank chat' over a cuppa or glass of plonk that usually goes on beforehand. The results were very successful, thanks to the site.

In the prep, we studied their profiles very carefully to make sure we were approaching the right people, and let them drive the dialogue in the way and at the pace that they wished. That turned out more important than the messages we sent ourselves, which were tailored to the individual desires and attributes of each lady's profile, so as to be 'especially for them'.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am actually finding it quite hard to arrange to meet a couple on here, to be honest - as everyone above has said - I need to fancy both the man and the woman and to be assured that a) I am not going to be used as a plaything, b) they are both as up for it as each other, c) the chap isn't going to suddenly "have" to meet me on his own - oh to live in the Midlands!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am actually finding it quite hard to arrange to meet a couple on here, to be honest - as everyone above has said - I need to fancy both the man and the woman and to be assured that a) I am not going to be used as a plaything, b) they are both as up for it as each other, c) the chap isn't going to suddenly "have" to meet me on his own - oh to live in the Midlands!!!! "

I'm visiting the midlands with my wife but I forgot to pick her up when she went to the service station loo,will get her on the way back anyway.Lets fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am actually finding it quite hard to arrange to meet a couple on here, to be honest - as everyone above has said - I need to fancy both the man and the woman and to be assured that a) I am not going to be used as a plaything, b) they are both as up for it as each other, c) the chap isn't going to suddenly "have" to meet me on his own - oh to live in the Midlands!!!!

I'm visiting the midlands with my wife but I forgot to pick her up when she went to the service station loo,will get her on the way back anyway.Lets fuck!"

How can i say no to such a charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once posted a thread on here where to meet bi single women and got flamed to death. So I won't make that mistake again.

Also getting meets is really easy.

GO TO CLUBS !!!! really it is that straight forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once posted a thread on here where to meet bi single women and got flamed to death. So I won't make that mistake again.

Also getting meets is really easy.

GO TO CLUBS !!!! really it is that straight forward. "

prison?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have had one meet with a women from here but proving hard to find more as our first one could of been better. We want to meet socially first and will always chat on msn or bbm first. We have been on cam to prove we are genuine but always end up getting male interest which is not what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best going to socials and gay/lesbian clubs for single women. Men on here are easy to find as are usually attracted visually where as women normally are attracted to personality as well as looking nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest we have tried and tried.. and while one of my good friends and I at some point will get to have some fun together, we have come to the conclusion its better and easier to go on an escort site an hunt for a girl we both like the looks of.

No messing around.. no wanting to come for a social or hanging around after.. Could be an idea for some.

Cali

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We have made friends having chatted, flirted with and had a laugh getting to know one another. It became less of a priority. Very time consuming. Near misses. If it happens then fine if not no worries. Que sera sera. In all honesty we dont hardly wink or message anyone anymore so only have ourselves to blame

I guess if someone were to like our profile and contact us then we'd take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a club like abfabs oe kestrals vut voth are in south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best going to socials and gay/lesbian clubs for single women. Men on here are easy to find as are usually attracted visually where as women normally are attracted to personality as well as looking nice"

dunno about that, i was just asked to shove my cock in some girls gub....without even a hello

like id refuse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut up moaning already lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best going to socials and gay/lesbian clubs for single women. Men on here are easy to find as are usually attracted visually where as women normally are attracted to personality as well as looking nice"

I said exactly this is an Thread I started on how to find single bi girls, Oh my I got smashed for suggesting it !!!

it is what I do !!

XXXXXXXXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had one meet with a women from here but proving hard to find more as our first one could of been better. We want to meet socially first and will always chat on msn or bbm first. We have been on cam to prove we are genuine but always end up getting male interest which is not what we are looking for."

It would be a lot easier if you met couples.

That way you'd get your MFF times two, plus you'd have infinitely more choice

but it's your call.

We used to advertise for single women but gave up when we found those we contacted came with a, hitherto unmentioned, male partner.

Good luck.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry your not the only ones, we are finding things hard too. Had a few timewasters which is very annoying even gave someone a 2nd chance but still did not show.

Keep tweeking our profile n adding meet requests but nothing.

I am sure they will all come at once like buses n u will be fighting them off.

xxx

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By *andymanleeds43Man
over a year ago

Leeds

try other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a case of being patient, when I 1st joined here I stuggled to get a F for 1:1.

Now I am looking for a MF couple to let me join me...Had some interest but being single, I'm just biding my time...

All good things come to those who wait

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"I am actually finding it quite hard to arrange to meet a couple on here, to be honest - as everyone above has said - I need to fancy both the man and the woman and to be assured that a) I am not going to be used as a plaything, b) they are both as up for it as each other, c) the chap isn't going to suddenly "have" to meet me on his own - oh to live in the Midlands!!!! "

We would love you to move to the Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am actually finding it quite hard to arrange to meet a couple on here, to be honest - as everyone above has said - I need to fancy both the man and the woman and to be assured that a) I am not going to be used as a plaything, b) they are both as up for it as each other, c) the chap isn't going to suddenly "have" to meet me on his own - oh to live in the Midlands!!!! "

Totally agree with you! I like to meet couples occasionally but my last experience put me off totally for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you are so far away

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