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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couples can be such hard work, can't they? So many don't even read messages much less reply to them! Then you read on here that they don't like boring one liners! (Doesn't stop almost all replies being boring one liners though!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of fab.

There are many reasons people don't reply.

And it's not a prerequisite they read or reply.

They probably look at Yr profile and you just aren't What They want.

Simple as that.

No reply is the same as a, No Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the world of fab.

There are many reasons people don't reply.

And it's not a prerequisite they read or reply.

They probably look at Yr profile and you just aren't What They want.

Simple as that.

No reply is the same as a, No Thank you"

Yeah, thanks for this. Wasn't sure what it could mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for clarifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your being rejected by enough couples to make you complain on the forums then likely your the problem and not them.

Your a smoker so that will mean two thirds of the couples on here wont meet you.

A lot of people dont like cock pics.

You like shoving your cock down womens throats. Not many women actually enjoy that.

Some will be put off by your bareback photos.

Without seeing what you are mailing to these couples are you by any chance just addressing the female of the couple? Saying I want to fuck you and its the male of the couple thats reading it is really not going to work is it?

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

We will always reply to anyone who has bothered to send a message even if it's a no thank you. Trouble is so many messages we get from single guys are either "Hi " or "nice pics" and most address us as if they are speaking to the female and to be honest if they can't be bothered to put the effort in neither can we .

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We will always reply to anyone who has bothered to send a message even if it's a no thank you. Trouble is so many messages we get from single guys are either "Hi " or "nice pics" and most address us as if they are speaking to the female and to be honest if they can't be bothered to put the effort in neither can we ."

Exactly this!! Av xx

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The majority of women don’t like a man “forcing his cock down their throat”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will always reply to anyone who has bothered to send a message even if it's a no thank you. Trouble is so many messages we get from single guys are either "Hi " or "nice pics" and most address us as if they are speaking to the female and to be honest if they can't be bothered to put the effort in neither can we ."

A little effort, thought and list importantly, respect. That's how fab works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of women don’t like a man “forcing his cock down their throat” "

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of women don’t like a man “forcing his cock down their throat”

Some do "

Yes indeed. The minority.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I have been on Fab a number of years and what I have found, if I put in more effort (ie better messages that are written to their profile, secret words in header, and being someone that they are looking for age/sex/sexuallity) I have had reasonable luck at getting a nice repsonse. Of those a few turn into actual meets.

On the other hand.. If I get horny one day and just copy and paste I hardly get any reponses.

So in the end it is on each one of us guys to send relevant well written messages without being pushy.

Thats all we can do..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perhaps I will have to re-phrase: love a woman gagging on my cock. Does that sound better?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Couples can be such hard work, can't they? So many don't even read messages much less reply to them! Then you read on here that they don't like boring one liners! (Doesn't stop almost all replies being boring one liners though!) "

Stinks of disrespect and anger...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couples can be such hard work, can't they? So many don't even read messages much less reply to them! Then you read on here that they don't like boring one liners! (Doesn't stop almost all replies being boring one liners though!)

Stinks of disrespect and anger...

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Your take on it. You're wrong though.

In my experience, more women than couples reply. So, what is it about couples that make them so poor at replying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I will have to re-phrase: love a woman gagging on my cock. Does that sound better?"

Not really.

Women that enjoy gagging on a cock may not find anything wrong with it.

I don't necessarily find anything wrong with it, but it would absolutely mean we were singing from totally different hymn sheets.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Don’t think you can just say couples?...we find it equally as hard trying to meet a single bi female. We try and approach the message polite and respectful but we have learned this is the world of fab (or we are really unattractive) lol

I’m pretty sure everyone on here finds it hard work at times. Mind you I don’t seem to see many people complain about how much “hard work” it is meeting men lol

In our experience couples have always been polite in answering messages

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

We'll reply to anyone who has obviously read our profile, and therefore meets who we're looking for. Everyone else can fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll reply to anyone who has obviously read our profile, and therefore meets who we're looking for. Everyone else can fuck off. "

Pretty much

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Thing is for us...when I've replied politely to a comment to a man we probably wouldn't click with, it's seen as a "green light" and then we've even had rude messages x

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Couples can be such hard work, can't they? So many don't even read messages much less reply to them! Then you read on here that they don't like boring one liners! (Doesn't stop almost all replies being boring one liners though!)

Stinks of disrespect and anger...

Your take on it. You're wrong though.

In my experience, more women than couples reply. So, what is it about couples that make them so poor at replying?"

Well you need to appeal to 2 people, rather than 1 so that already lessens the chance of a reply.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We will always reply to anyone who has bothered to send a message even if it's a no thank you. Trouble is so many messages we get from single guys are either "Hi " or "nice pics" and most address us as if they are speaking to the female and to be honest if they can't be bothered to put the effort in neither can we ."

I'd agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples can be such hard work, can't they? So many don't even read messages much less reply to them! Then you read on here that they don't like boring one liners! (Doesn't stop almost all replies being boring one liners though!)

Stinks of disrespect and anger...

Your take on it. You're wrong though.

In my experience, more women than couples reply. So, what is it about couples that make them so poor at replying?

Well you need to appeal to 2 people, rather than 1 so that already lessens the chance of a reply."

Exactly this.

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

We rarely reply to single guys that show themselves having sex on pics with women

We know exactly where it goes and what does we don’t need pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

As a couple we don’t allow messages from single guys, I’ll message them if we’re interested. We slowed them to message for a while but honestly the amount of utter bollocks we were getting was ridiculous because almost none of them read our profile.

If I don’t reply to a message generally it’s because you don’t meet the criteria we would be after.

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