FabSwingers.com forum: Being quite nice

By *lackCherry OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Its an odd one for us this as well meeting people at clubs and often through the pm system here we quite like talking to people and getting to know them.

The problem with this seems to be that without mentioning any sort of sexual interest or encounter the other party often assumes that being nice and talking to them equates to them being "in".

How do you guys deal with this ?

and before you say it we have and do express our non interest in pursuing sex with the person but often because we have been "nice" chatted and got to know them they keep on badgering and harassing and almost pleading...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are probably just frustrated and with no other avenues you become the unfortunate focus of those frustrations. Best bet is to keep contact with just your sexual meets. There are sites like Facebook for friends.