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Still get Nervous?

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By *erts_darlings1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

watford

We do

We have been chatting to a lovely couple for a short time and we are meeting them tonight for the very first time.

We are meeting for a social with the possibility of going on to a club after.

The nervous excitement starts for us as soon as we are sure the meet is going to take place. The real butterflies start the night before the meet. by the morning of the meet (now) it's hard to concentrate on much else

For us, we love this part of meeting new people, how will we all get on? Will we just go home after the social? Will we hit it off and end up in a club together?

It feels like Christmas eve did when we were kids

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I get this feeling every time I walk into a club, fully dressed in my prettiest outfit.

But I do get a buzz from it x

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By *erts_darlings1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

watford


"I get this feeling every time I walk into a club, fully dressed in my prettiest outfit.

But I do get a buzz from it x "

Love that buzz

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Hell yes, still get nervous before we go to a club. We’re ok when we’re in there with a drink in hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird I never get nervous I especially enjoy meeting people who are new to the whole thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got so bad that I've put an hold on meeting. The anxiety gets too much for me . Even with people we have met previously

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I get this feeling every time I walk into a club, fully dressed in my prettiest outfit.

But I do get a buzz from it x "

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs still gets nerves even when meeting strictly for social only. Even more so if we enter a club (and even tho we've been to the same one a few times before).

Mr doesn't mind so much.

I suppose it's all about how you feel as a social butterfly and meeting new people in general.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I do (female) C doesn't!!

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

We both still get very nervous before meeting new people or going to a new club but think that all adds to the excitement of it all.

If we where to lose those nerves before hand then its not exciting any more or we have become to hardened to the whole thing and we would probably walk away from it all xxx

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"We both still get very nervous before meeting new people or going to a new club but think that all adds to the excitement of it all.

If we where to lose those nerves before hand then its not exciting any more or we have become to hardened to the whole thing and we would probably walk away from it all xxx "

Never thought of it like this, good point. I spend so much time looking at others that look so confident,

I drive to a club and walk in with my belly in a knot, then sit all shy until I am loosened up. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous excitement is good

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By *erts_darlings1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

watford


"We both still get very nervous before meeting new people or going to a new club but think that all adds to the excitement of it all.

If we where to lose those nerves before hand then its not exciting any more or we have become to hardened to the whole thing and we would probably walk away from it all xxx "

This is how we see it as well.

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By *erts_darlings1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

watford

Update.

Fantastic meet last night! Went beyond expectations. Think we will be nervous if and when we meet them again

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Update.

Fantastic meet last night! Went beyond expectations. Think we will be nervous if and when we meet them again "

Ah it's great to hear when Fab works

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

The nervous anticipation whilst heading to a meet is all part of the excitement...

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Allways get nervous when meeting new people but it's the best feeling when you get there

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love the nervous excitment feeling I get

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Canr beat the nervous feeling i get on meeting someone and not just on first meets either

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I dont really get nervous anymore. Just a buzz from the anticipation. I can feel it building as the meeting gets closer and as I'm dressing. Wearing something hot doing my hair and wakeup and my favourite perfume.

Love that buzz

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's it nerves or the buzz of what's to come.

We've only had a couple of meets and I won't lie we do both get a little nervous about an hour before,but when they are here or we're in a club it soon fades and other feelings start to kick in lol

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

I know what you mean..even though everything will be fine, it’s always an exiting and nervous first meet! After that is just fun!

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I think that if you don't get the butterflies effect when your going for a meet then the fun factor is gone. You're just going through the emotions and that will show on the meet.

Only my personal opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that if you don't get the butterflies effect when your going for a meet then the fun factor is gone. You're just going through the emotions and that will show on the meet.

Only my personal opinion "

Agree completely, it adds to the whole occasion, humour is really important with us and helps the nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for single old guys too!

I was sooooo nervous going to meet a couple in Chams a few years ago.

It was a lovely meet though.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

The butterflies is part of the fun, although we're quite relaxed with socials now. The fun part still is a groundhog day moment of nervous excitement.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Looking forward to getting that feeling again soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely get nervous....the nearer the time comes to meeting or going to a party the worse I get! Once I'm there though its all good!! Mr F is much better at it than me...he's the one that gets me in the door, gets me a drink and makes me feel calmer!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say...when the nerves stop...il give it up.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I definitely get nervous....the nearer the time comes to meeting or going to a party the worse I get! Once I'm there though its all good!! Mr F is much better at it than me...he's the one that gets me in the door, gets me a drink and makes me feel calmer!!

PT x"

Lol I'd say that I'm more nervous than the wife she's very calm but she still feels it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we ever stop getting nervous we will stop swinging...

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I always get nervous before meets or clubs. Soon subsides though! Stay positive!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Still get nervous if meeting a guy or couple but not a party or club, nervous excitement is good though

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Yes, especially the last few minutes when we've done all the getting ready and are just waiting for that doorbell to ring. But it soon dissapears once the action starts.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Not nervous, however my watch tells me my heart rate increases a fair rate.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Just going through the nervous stages before visiting Club SX for the first time on a party night...huge guest list... nerve-wracking for a single male especially!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Yes, especially the last few minutes when we've done all the getting ready and are just waiting for that doorbell to ring. But it soon dissapears once the action starts. "

In that long, slow, Leslie Philips style...

....I say, Ding-Dong...

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"We both still get very nervous before meeting new people or going to a new club but think that all adds to the excitement of it all.

If we where to lose those nerves before hand then its not exciting any more or we have become to hardened to the whole thing and we would probably walk away from it all xxx "

Feel exactly the same way. Someone once said to us the day you stop getting a little nervous is the time you should consider quitting.

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