FabSwingers.com forum: Do any ladies go expecting sex

By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising."

Some do, some don’t.

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Do you?x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some do.

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t. A social is a social.

But then again, I’ve only been on one social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happy just to meet someone for a drink.. But I think to myself that she may be wanting more and I'd be letting her down.

seems like pressure on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising."

Its like the spanish inquisition...nobody expects it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My socials are social only. I don't want the pressure.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If we go to a social we make it clear that is all it is.

In my youth however I didn't exactly expect sex on a first date but I was happy to go ahead if I found the guy attractive and he was willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if it's a social, it's a social, no ifs or buts... And I have never been on a date so wouldn't know about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the logistics.

I’ve met and combined a social with sex, no expectations and no guarantees for either party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the logistics.

I’ve met and combined a social with sex, no expectations and no guarantees for either party."

What is that turns a social into “please fuck me”?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as RoxiAnne is concerned, I’d like to know that too!

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I also said a first date not necessarily a social I have had either but never had sex or expected sex on either one sadly. Second date was great though.lol.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

A social is a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising.

Its like the spanish inquisition...nobody expects it

Actually hate to disillusion you but the inquisition used to make appointments to visit people...so far from being unexpected they were in reality very much expected.

Bit sad knowing that because it could rather spoil the Monty Python sketch

I still find it funny though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the logistics.

I’ve met and combined a social with sex, no expectations and no guarantees for either party.

What is that turns a social into “please fuck me”?

Hmmmmm....let me think.

An accent that can charm my knickers off..

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

For us it depends!! If we meet a couple for a social it could lead to more but that depends on the discussion set out beforehand!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the logistics.

I’ve met and combined a social with sex, no expectations and no guarantees for either party.

What is that turns a social into “please fuck me”?

Hmmmmm....let me think.

An accent that can charm my knickers off..

You should of heard what I just said there

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"In my youth however I didn't exactly expect sex on a first date but I was happy to go ahead if I found the guy attractive and he was willing"

Having seen your photos, I wouldn't have thought many dates of yours weren't willing.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some will some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some will some won't "

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Like racey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising.

Its like the spanish inquisition...nobody expects it

Actually hate to disillusion you but the inquisition used to make appointments to visit people...so far from being unexpected they were in reality very much expected.

Bit sad knowing that because it could rather spoil the Monty Python sketch

I still find it funny though

Pedant!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not expect just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the logistics.

I’ve met and combined a social with sex, no expectations and no guarantees for either party.

What is that turns a social into “please fuck me”?

Overwhelming chemistry?

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By *old1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I need to watch Monty python.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising."

It all depends on what's been agreed beforehand tbh but a social is usually just that

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising."

None of my fem friends do, although they do think about it. It's more of a man thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising.

Its like the spanish inquisition...nobody expects it

Actually hate to disillusion you but the inquisition used to make appointments to visit people...so far from being unexpected they were in reality very much expected.

Bit sad knowing that because it could rather spoil the Monty Python sketch

I still find it funny though

Pedant!!"

I know...as I said bit sad

but at least I can still laugh at things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m meeting a guy solo for a social, it’s purely to see if we click for future play

However- we’ve had an awesome social party we hosted where we hoped for sex, and thankfully we all left happy

Mrs P

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Do any single ladies go on a social or a first date and actually have or expect sex or am I just fantasising."

I've had meets where I thought sex where I thought sex woudn't happen and it has, also the opposite. Just go with the flow, whatever happens happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social has to be a social or everyone feels pressure unless you all have that animal instinct and just have to have each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of my fem friends do, although they do think about it. It's more of a man thing.

While we made a big deal about a social being just a social on our profile + in messages, so far every social hasn't been just a social so kind of given up on that + just see what happens... and that's meeting guys for Daisy where I'm not playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I will meet is for sex. A couple of drinks at a bar to see if we are attracted to each other and then off we go.

I am not interested in just a social coffee with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social to me is just that....ive only broken my rules twice in many years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ladies willing to go on a social meet with me, inbox me.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Sometimes.....

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the logistics.

I’ve met and combined a social with sex, no expectations and no guarantees for either party.

What is that turns a social into “please fuck me”?

He has to be really good-looking, really intelligent and really into me. Rarely happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the circumstances. Whether there is mutual attraction and enough chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was someone I was meeting from here and it was the right setting then I’d like sex (after all that’s what I’m here for) but I’d never expect it as I’d be very disappointed if it never happened.

If I go to clubs I’m there for sex simple as that.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

As a single female I have had social meets that have turned into play meets. Usually completely unexpected but a very pleasant surprise.

If I meet as a couple then it’s more likely that a social will become a play meet because of timing. Still has to be chemistry though.

I never have any expectations about a meet.

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