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By *ay.81 OP   Man
over a year ago

UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Have you smoked if you didn't inhale?

And, no, it doesn't make you gay, going back and doing it again, might suggest you are, or that you're bi.

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By *empseyANDRedheadCouple
over a year ago

warwick

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on how many times you've done it after the third time they accept you as one of their own

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends if you enjoyed it or not. I’d say you were at least bi

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Depends if you enjoyed it or not. I’d say you were at least bi"

if you repeatedly sucked it yes. one off then nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bi but pretty close to gay

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Nope, it makes you Bisexual at most, to be gay you have to be attracted only to people of your own gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, one suck and suddenly you’re the only gay in the village!!

Of course it doesn’t make you gay, it just means you sucked a dick.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


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No, but you might have been before you did

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

If a woman kisses,fondles or lick's another woman more then three times does that make her gay also?

The straight police can say what they like, however sex is just sex, if you like it, do it, if you don't, don't. If you want to try something and everyone else is in agreement, try it. You'll never know if you don't. If you don't like it, no harm no foul. Not very difficult to understand is it?

Personally, sometimes I do sometimes I don't, depends on the people we are with and the situation at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you just be bi curious like the women who start out on here ?

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Do you lay in bed fantasizing about sucking cock and cute bums on men.

Maybe your so far in the closet your in Narnia!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you just be bi curious like the women who start out on here ? "
and remain bi curious on their profiles forever you mean lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It means you've indulged in a bisexual act, if you were pegged by a woman would that make you gay as you've had sex up your bum or you sucked the dildo ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you just be bi curious like the women who start out on here ? and remain bi curious on their profiles forever you mean lol "
i got sucked off by a bloke in glory hole, does that make me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, bi maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, bi maybe "
who me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you just be bi curious like the women who start out on here ? and remain bi curious on their profiles forever you mean lol i got sucked off by a bloke in glory hole, does that make me? "
gloryhole lol well I imagine if you went to a gloryhole you pretty much know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you just be bi curious like the women who start out on here ? and remain bi curious on their profiles forever you mean lol i got sucked off by a bloke in glory hole, does that make me? gloryhole lol well I imagine if you went to a gloryhole you pretty much know lol "
i knee it was bloke but am not attracted to blokes, I just thought, it’s a suck lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Oh no tottally not gay when your trying to pull women and couples who say no gay/bi/bi-conscious men on their profile.

On the other hand it makes you tottaly gay if your trying to pull people's who's profiles say gay/bi/bi-curious men only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not gay. But my boyfriend is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Not if you sucked dick, no. But it does if you only want to play with boy parts as a result and not girl parts

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I typically don't find guys attractive as I do woman. However I do love how exciting it feels having fun with the right guy. I'm certainly not gay. Bi at most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you bi not gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooo it was a one off, I love women lol

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Just don't swallow and you'll still be straight

Seriously though does it matter ? Do what you enjoy and forget the labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't swallow and you'll still be straight

Seriously though does it matter ? Do what you enjoy and forget the labels "

csn see your white bits

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Just don't swallow and you'll still be straight

Seriously though does it matter ? Do what you enjoy and forget the labels csn see your white bits "

I don't label them. They're just bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't swallow and you'll still be straight

Seriously though does it matter ? Do what you enjoy and forget the labels csn see your white bits

I don't label them. They're just bits "

ok I can see your bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of guys for whom MFM is the greatest turn on imaginable. In the heat of a scenario like that when all is going well, sucking dick can just be a natural progression. I hate the labels of bi / bi curious - if a guy puts that in his profile, I guarantee he will be inundated with messages from bi and gay guys for one on one when that will be Totally NOT his thing.

Maybe we need further categories - give over- let’s just enjoy ourselves with what all those involved are comfortable with !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you are definitely gay lol

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

If you have only sucked a cock once," then no your not gay. More than that and you loved it your just a cock sucker and that's it, join the club. You have not changed into anything else at all.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Just don't swallow and you'll still be straight

Seriously though does it matter ? Do what you enjoy and forget the labels csn see your white bits

I don't label them. They're just bits ok I can see your bits "

I know. I'm such a filthy minx having such pictures on display

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Why are people so childish about sexuality. Why on earth would it make you gay? did you do it and suddenly find yourself only attracted to men, do women no longer hold any appeal to you?

If this somehow miraculously happened then congratulations, you are now a gay.

If you're like the rest of humans being on earth whos sexuality isnt a flip switch, you're bi at most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't swallow and you'll still be straight

Seriously though does it matter ? Do what you enjoy and forget the labels csn see your white bits

I don't label them. They're just bits ok I can see your bits

Is this place not moderated lol

I know. I'm such a filthy minx having such pictures on display "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno what happend there

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over a year ago

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"There are lots of guys for whom MFM is the greatest turn on imaginable. In the heat of a scenario like that when all is going well, sucking dick can just be a natural progression. I hate the labels of bi / bi curious - if a guy puts that in his profile, I guarantee he will be inundated with messages from bi and gay guys for one on one when that will be Totally NOT his thing.

Maybe we need further categories - give over- let’s just enjoy ourselves with what all those involved are comfortable with !"

Agree with you...100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If s bloke sucks a dick he’s clearly not fucking straight lol defo bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I may be a lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I may be a lesbian "

You n me both wish lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I may be a lesbian

You n me both wish lol "

i love women

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a woman’s arse bent over, gets me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a woman’s arse bent over, gets me every time "

They all look the same bent over even the old ens lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a woman’s arse bent over, gets me every time

They all look the same bent over even the old ens lol "

exactly lol nah,I think it’s an animalistic thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a woman’s arse bent over, gets me every time

They all look the same bent over even the old ens lol exactly lol nah,I think it’s an animalistic thing "

Think your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I may be a lesbian

You n me both wish lol "

Thinking it might be the better option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I may be a lesbian

You n me both wish lol

Thinking it might be the better option "

how rude lol

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Same sex , sex means your bi sexual or gay unless you was forced to do it which I doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same sex , sex means your bi sexual or gay unless you was forced to do it which I doubt"
i fell and my dick went in the glory hole, tragic accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about it. Just do what you want.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

According to Marilyn Manson,only if you got hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t worry about it. Just do what you want. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t worry about it. Just do what you want. "
i just thought of it as a neutral mouth, be different if saw the bloke

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

It doesn't matter as long as you enjoy it.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No, but you might have been before you did "

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex


"If a woman kisses,fondles or lick's another woman more then three times does that make her gay also?

The straight police can say what they like, however sex is just sex, if you like it, do it, if you don't, don't. If you want to try something and everyone else is in agreement, try it. You'll never know if you don't. If you don't like it, no harm no foul. Not very difficult to understand is it?

Personally, sometimes I do sometimes I don't, depends on the people we are with and the situation at the time. "

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

No it just means your open to new adventures

To me being gay is being physically attracted to a man, wanting a relationship with one falling in love

Sexual experiences are just that and doing something that many consider taboo will always be fun & give you a buzz, enjoy it

I’d only label it if it becomes something your looking for as it makes it easier for guys to find you but even then I’d only suggest your bi

MrsH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious to start with and if you liked it and returned then bi, if you left the fanny fluttering flaps behind then yes, gay.

Now that wasn't hard

Grabs the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bi curious ... if youd do it again your bi.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

sex is sex no matter who's arse its hanging on

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

depends which part of dick you sucked...if it was his finger your ok...well as long as he hadnt stuck it up his arse first..

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Not if you only do it once every six months

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Totally gay. No going back now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally gay. No going back now. "

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Op are you sitting there thinking about it or has it t crossed your mind more than twice today that's your answer

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Well I must be a raving homosexual them

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

What does your boyfriend think about it?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well I must be a raving homosexual them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe a GENUINELY straight man would never suck another dick, the thought would make them wretch even if it was on a pre-op trans. They are bisexual at least.

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By *lltogethernowMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I typically don't find guys attractive as I do woman. However I do love how exciting it feels having fun with the right guy. I'm certainly not gay. Bi at most."

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

No it doesn’t. Unless you’re not interested in woman anymore?

Who cares do what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why pigeonhole it, if you enjoy it then great, do it again. If you didn’t then great, don’t do it again.

No need to label it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. As we all know, labels are confusing, and rarely provide all the information you need.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Unless you are looking for a relationship witha man and have no interest in women than your not gay, if you like men and women and would be interested in a relationship with either of them them potentially you are bi. If it's just a naughty situations when you get the horn hard, you suck cock them to me that makes you bi playful.

Who cares anyway just get down there and enjoy it.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Someone suck me ..... lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Sucking a cock doesn’t mean you want to marry them and have children together. You maybe just a guy who likes sucking cocks - don’t analyse it, just enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you are looking for a relationship witha man and have no interest in women than your not gay, if you like men and women and would be interested in a relationship with either of them them potentially you are bi. If it's just a naughty situations when you get the horn hard, you suck cock them to me that makes you bi playful.

Who cares anyway just get down there and

enjoy it."

This !!

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

Sucking cock is fun. If you enjoyed it do it again if you didn't don't.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

This probably suggests your a cocksucker like me...

Hi Cocksucker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh get him a pink feather boa!

No, it means you are sexual.

Ok If the recipient of the suck looked like Freddie Mercury then on the gay scale you'd register.

I'd they looked like Bet Lynch, then you'd score almost zero.

But just enjoy and don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sexual acts are much more telling of sexuality than emotional attraction, don’t agree it is the other way round.

What if a guy only wants emotional relationship with a guy with absolutely no sexual contact, you still consider than a full blown gay man?

What if a guy has lots of sexual contact with other men but does not want an emotional relationship with one? You consider that just a playful straight man?

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

It's funny I dont class my self as gay , I do class as bi as I like sucking cock and taking strapon and dildos but I could never have a relationship with a guy.

Also wife gets so turned on with man on man stuff who.am I to complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's funny I dont class my self as gay , I do class as bi as I like sucking cock and taking strapon and dildos but I could never have a relationship with a guy.

Also wife gets so turned on with man on man stuff who.am I to complain "

At least you do not call yourself straight like many on here when in fact you are bi, good on you for facing the truth

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester


"I typically don't find guys attractive as I do woman. However I do love how exciting it feels having fun with the right guy. I'm certainly not gay. Bi at most."

100% totally agree ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't that binary. There's a massive spectrum between straight and gay.

I reckon you're somewhere between the two but up the straight end!

It's all about having fun so RELAX (mmm maybe not a good idea to quote a frankie goes to hollywood song!!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

It doesn’t make you straight!

Just enjoy it and go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why we have to have these labels, if you like somebody thats cool, why should it matter about sexuality or being in a certain group, fuck it, enjoy yourselves!!

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


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Nope.. But what does it matter anyway? Stop stressing over labels FFS...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is sexuality just the acts you do for pleasure or the attraction you feel to genders?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Were you in jail?

If not, then you are at least bi.

But prob more gay. But, at least you you can get way more sex than most "single men" on here

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By *yeball91Man
over a year ago

southampton

Hetexible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it make you a murderer if you only murder someone once? The answer is the same as to your question op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide say you were bi. And if you want to practice more on me let me know

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian."

Bollocks.

Sexual acts reveal you...even against your own perception.

I would have to have a gun held against my family to do any thing with a guy.

I am very straight. But you are a person...just like me, and are entitled to enjoy yourself legally.

So just do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs people really need to educate!

If you fall in love with and want to spend your life with and are sexually attracted to MEN and have no attraction to ladies your GAY

If your male and feel all those things for ladies your STRAIGHT

If you are male and can have those feelins for both men and woman your BI and if when ha feelin horny u grab cock from time to time and suck or even fuck your a horny straight fucker who from time to time likes dick

Its really that simple! No biggy no drama jst get on with it and njoy the dick and fuck what u think it make u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is kinda gay I'd say.more gay than straight for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian.

Bollocks.

Sexual acts reveal you...even against your own perception.

I would have to have a gun held against my family to do any thing with a guy.

I am very straight. But you are a person...just like me, and are entitled to enjoy yourself legally.

So just do that. "

As a genuine straight bloke, what you think of other blokes who consider themselves straight who go for cross dressers and transvestites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Only if you feel gay, but does it really matter?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian.

Bollocks.

Sexual acts reveal you...even against your own perception.

I would have to have a gun held against my family to do any thing with a guy.

I am very straight. But you are a person...just like me, and are entitled to enjoy yourself legally.

So just do that.

As a genuine straight bloke, what you think of other blokes who consider themselves straight who go for cross dressers and transvestites?"

They find a person who has a penis attractive.

Irrelevant of the window dressing.

They are bi...at least.

So now, the whole world is their oyster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian.

Bollocks.

Sexual acts reveal you...even against your own perception.

I would have to have a gun held against my family to do any thing with a guy.

I am very straight. But you are a person...just like me, and are entitled to enjoy yourself legally.

So just do that.

As a genuine straight bloke, what you think of other blokes who consider themselves straight who go for cross dressers and transvestites?"

Your straight who likes to fuck a tranny witha dick frm time to time

My point is it always seems people on here need to label people and i dont get it! Its a sex site u shag who u wana wen u wana it doesnt matter if its a man or woman or a tranny asling as we are all happy gettin what we want why we bringin labels into it? Shag away and be happy is all im sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian.

Bollocks.

Sexual acts reveal you...even against your own perception.

I would have to have a gun held against my family to do any thing with a guy.

I am very straight. But you are a person...just like me, and are entitled to enjoy yourself legally.

So just do that.

As a genuine straight bloke, what you think of other blokes who consider themselves straight who go for cross dressers and transvestites?

They find a person who has a penis attractive.

Irrelevant of the window dressing.

They are bi...at least.

So now, the whole world is their oyster "

Thank you I do not for a minute believe they are straight, they are kidding themselves

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Ffs. It doesn't "make" you anything. Sexual acts don't transform you. Like it's been said, if you like something, do it, if you're curious about something, try it. You can't be made gay, same as you can't be made straight, or a lesbian.

Bollocks.

Sexual acts reveal you...even against your own perception.

I would have to have a gun held against my family to do any thing with a guy.

I am very straight. But you are a person...just like me, and are entitled to enjoy yourself legally.

So just do that.

As a genuine straight bloke, what you think of other blokes who consider themselves straight who go for cross dressers and transvestites?

They find a person who has a penis attractive.

Irrelevant of the window dressing.

They are bi...at least.

So now, the whole world is their oyster

Thank you I do not for a minute believe they are straight, they are kidding themselves "

To a degree. Really they want to be normal...whatever that used to mean.

Men get castigated by women, who feel they are less masculine if they like cock.

What they forget is...there are way more men who want to fuck on here.

I often wish I was bi because you have a full menu to choose from.

I am not and it is very limiting.

But, I don't fight it and neither should anyone else.

Be who you are and grow into it.

More people will love you for being honest, than ever would for living a lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would make you a bloke that sucked a dick.

Who gives a fuck about the label.

If you wanna suck a dick, suck it, and own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if you suck cock your more likely to be bi to full blown gay

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By *awtynath88Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't even think there is such a thing as gay or straight.

You can enjoy sex in any way shape or form. In my eyes sexual pleasure can come from either male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I sucked my best mate off and him me when we were about 22. We both soon realised we werent gay. Ive been come onto a couple of times by gay lads. I take it as a compliment

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Seriously, I find the idea of doing anything with a guy abhorrent.

If you don't, you are on a scale of bisexuality.

No negative bias, but if you deny it, you are denying who you are.

If, like me you are straight, the bells any cock action is off the limits.

My loss, not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your bi hun, deal with it lol x

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

You enjoy sucking cock. It's not a big deal. Why the need to stick a label on it? Live life and enjoy.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

100% Yes! Forget the bi tag just own it. Get the feeling you couldn't give a hoot what people on the interwebs thinks anyway, best way to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a cocksucker wear it with pride........ Isn't gay pride on in London soon?

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Nope .... It just makes you you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all!!.

I suck cocks...but I dont find men attractive...women are far sexier...but for me it's all about giving people that you play with PLEASURE... it's only skin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me strength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Ghey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really need a label? Just enjoy yourself.

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By *oung At Heart 73Man
over a year ago

Near the seaside


"Depends if you enjoyed it or not. I’d say you were at least bi

if you repeatedly sucked it yes. one off then nope"

I enjoy sucking a nice hard cock as much as I enjoy sinking my tongue inside a nice wet vagina, I am not gay in the slightest, some people need to realise the difference.

One of my male friends who is gay is disgusted and turned off by the naked female form, thankfully he gets nice and hard when we are naked together.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Depends if you enjoyed it or not. I’d say you were at least bi

if you repeatedly sucked it yes. one off then nope

I enjoy sucking a nice hard cock as much as I enjoy sinking my tongue inside a nice wet vagina, I am not gay in the slightest, some people need to realise the difference.

One of my male friends who is gay is disgusted and turned off by the naked female form, thankfully he gets nice and hard when we are naked together."

You are more gay than me.

In fact you are equally aroused by both sexes by your own admittance.

You are not straight. No biggy but it's good to be honest with yourself.

Labels are helpful, not the enemy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true, you just described my sexuality to perfection, and in fairness I kinda think we have the best of both worlds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman licks/ sucks on a fanny..is she a lesbian..? It is just a label and they are not nice...

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Depends if you enjoyed it or not. I’d say you were at least bi

if you repeatedly sucked it yes. one off then nope

I enjoy sucking a nice hard cock as much as I enjoy sinking my tongue inside a nice wet vagina, I am not gay in the slightest, some people need to realise the difference.

One of my male friends who is gay is disgusted and turned off by the naked female form, thankfully he gets nice and hard when we are naked together.

You are more gay than me.

In fact you are equally aroused by both sexes by your own admittance.

You are not straight. No biggy but it's good to be honest with yourself.

Labels are helpful, not the enemy

"

I agree with the comment that labels are helpful. It is a sex site so it helps to quickly establish expectations and boundaries.

If of course people are honest when describing themselves.

Ps has anyone ever seen a straight guy casually describe himself as gay or bi?

No of course not. So it is silly to claim that they are irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with labels stop being so precious people, it is a human thing to identify yourself and others.

I feel people are trying to stifle discussion on here by fighting against labels or are trying to take the heat off themselves as they cannot face what they are.

It also takes away the choice and freedom from others who may not want to go to bed with certain groups which is their divine right, political correctness needs to stay out the bedroom.

Grow some balls, own your sexuality and face what you are. I have no embarrassment about mine, I am gay usually but bicurious for women. I don’t care what anyone else thinks. I have had a few messages off women and MF couples so it is not putting them off that I am kind of on the bisexual spectrum, honesty is what people like.

Life is too short, face up to what you are and stop hiding behind excuses and smokescreens, including men in wigs

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Nothing wrong with labels stop being so precious people, it is a human thing to identify yourself and others.

I feel people are trying to stifle discussion on here by fighting against labels or are trying to take the heat off themselves as they cannot face what they are.

It also takes away the choice and freedom from others who may not want to go to bed with certain groups which is their divine right, political correctness needs to stay out the bedroom.

Grow some balls, own your sexuality and face what you are. I have no embarrassment about mine, I am gay usually but bicurious for women. I don’t care what anyone else thinks. I have had a few messages off women and MF couples so it is not putting them off that I am kind of on the bisexual spectrum, honesty is what people like.

Life is too short, face up to what you are and stop hiding behind excuses and smokescreens, including men in wigs "

Spot on. Well said.

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By *ems17Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Walsall

[Removed by poster at 15/06/19 07:30:35]

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By *ems17Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Walsall

I like the term ‘tri-sexual’

Try anything..more than once if you enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I typically don't find guys attractive as I do woman. However I do love how exciting it feels having fun with the right guy. I'm certainly not gay. Bi at most."

I'm the same don't find guys attractive in any way but i do like to suck a nice cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i love cock sucking and i love being fucked by guys. I crossdress and have been with more guys than girls. I like girls but the excitment of going with a guy when im dressed up is amazing. Ive always had girlfriends but slept with guys also. Its more about sex i think but i would be interested in anyones opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i love cock sucking and i love being fucked by guys. I crossdress and have been with more guys than girls. I like girls but the excitment of going with a guy when im dressed up is amazing. Ive always had girlfriends but slept with guys also. Its more about sex i think but i would be interested in anyones opinion "

Bisexual obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100% gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t focus on or worry about

Labels. Just enjoy your sexuality, whatever it involves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes it makes you at the very least bi

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

We would call it bi-kinky

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

to be honest I think it makes you normal,

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not at all most lads I know have done it or are curious bout it n always after they don’t see it as a big deal

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I guess you need to define'gay' in order to answer, i have munched on pussy but that doesn't make me straight..

Some gay and bi-males on here seem hell bent (npi)on claiming all guys have a 'gay'side to them.Personally i think that is their fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes unless you have some elaborate story to say you stumbled and fell onto a random guys groin who happen to be walking around butt naked with a hardon

LOL

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Not at all most lads I know have done it or are curious bout it n always after they don’t see it as a big deal "

This guy's got it spot on.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Not at all most lads I know have done it or are curious bout it n always after they don’t see it as a big deal

This guy's got it spot on."

Wishful thinking and fantasy.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Yep x

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By *ixedMagic1Man
over a year ago

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Unless you happened to trip and fall on a naked guys hard dick with your mouth open, you obviously aint 100% straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would make you a bloke that sucked a dick.

Who gives a fuck about the label.

If you wanna suck a dick, suck it, and own it. "

You labelled him as a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why do so many bi/curious guys not want to own it? Worried about a label as if the lable changes who or what they think are. Living in a fantasy or reality.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

so many conflicting thoughts, just do as you please and fuck what others think, after all your on this planet for short time enjoy, try and if you like do more, does it really matter about a fucking label

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

rugby

It just makes you ,you , the rest is just labels

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I hate it when you feel like you have to put yourself in a box..just go with the flow

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By *ini1275Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Have fun and do what ever you enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "
yes now come and give me some ideas on how to decorate my living room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does not matter.

As long as you enjoyed the experience why would a sexual label be important to you..

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio

You've definitely got a cock worth sucking.

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just relax and enjoy what you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t consider myself gay but have on a few occasions enjoyed a guys cock whilst with a couple. I don’t kiss guys or do anal. Just experiment and enjoy.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I don’t consider myself gay but have on a few occasions enjoyed a guys cock whilst with a couple. I don’t kiss guys or do anal. Just experiment and enjoy. "

Lucky guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when you feel like you have to put yourself in a box..just go with the flow"

So right, what does it matterwhat you are or what you enjoy, so long as its not hurting anyone just enjoy it. Life is far too short for regrets or labels.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Is dick a boy or a girl with a boys name ?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I hate it when you feel like you have to put yourself in a box..just go with the flow

So right, what does it matterwhat you are or what you enjoy, so long as its not hurting anyone just enjoy it. Life is far too short for regrets or labels."

Spot on!!

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I hate it when you feel like you have to put yourself in a box..just go with the flow

So right, what does it matterwhat you are or what you enjoy, so long as its not hurting anyone just enjoy it. Life is far too short for regrets or labels.

Spot on!!"

Dont agree. Sorry.

Labels are very useful to help set expectations and boundries when setting meets.

When straight guys are so chilled they start putting bi or gay in their profiles then it doesnt matter any more.

But of course they dont.

It is only bi guys who seem to try to avoid describing themselves that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I a vegetarian if I eat beef

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I a vegetarian if I eat beef "
God I'm hungry and you're talking about food again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I a vegetarian if I eat beef God I'm hungry and you're talking about food again "

Go cook then son I am not your parent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I a vegetarian if I eat beef God I'm hungry and you're talking about food again

Go cook then son I am not your parent"

ok dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sucked dick once back in my 20’s as I thought I was bi-curious. I didn’t like it, so now I’m straight.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"If a woman kisses,fondles or lick's another woman more then three times does that make her gay also?

The straight police can say what they like, however sex is just sex, if you like it, do it, if you don't, don't. If you want to try something and everyone else is in agreement, try it. You'll never know if you don't. If you don't like it, no harm no foul. Not very difficult to understand is it?

Personally, sometimes I do sometimes I don't, depends on the people we are with and the situation at the time. "

Well said , too many labels , just go with the flow and sexual urges at the time x

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"I hate it when you feel like you have to put yourself in a box..just go with the flow

So right, what does it matterwhat you are or what you enjoy, so long as its not hurting anyone just enjoy it. Life is far too short for regrets or labels.

Spot on!!"

Totally agree and isn't that what swinging is all about, doing what you desire with like minds with out any judgement

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Boxes are very useful, for search and grouping purposes.

In this case if you are looking contact with men that want their cock to be sucked.

Then bi or bi curious will help those people search for you.

If you put straight then they may not find you as easily.

Other than that it probably does not matter too much.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Gay as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do "straight" men always ask if touching another man, sexually, makes them gay and not bi?! You have been fucking womem, willingly, presumably, until now... You are not gay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until we came on here I never considered myself bi curious anything but once we started meeting it just started happening I have not over thought it really just enjoyed each meet differently I find bi meets easier no one is worried who is touching who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gay as fuck. "

That made me smile,thanks!

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By *he InquisitorMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ate a carrot, am I a vegan?

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