FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, i personaly love kissing and find it extremely erotic and a great part of fourplay and sex, have seen a few profiles where people dont kiss on meets, personaly wonderd how you would start a meet or progress if you cant kiss?? Just my opion ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ,i agree I also love kissing ,but i do understand some reluctance.Kissing almost seems as though there is a bond ,whereas sex is an enjoyment .

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I understand it, and certainly would be an issue with some meets I've had.

With a couple I'm not too bothered, as there are other delights with the encounter. But for bi meets it would be a no from me if kissing wasn't included. The build up to sex for me is a big thing and that's part of my ideal scenario.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Kissing is absolute HEAVEN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt meet a man who doesnt or cant kiss.....its one of my biggest turn ons

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I get whereby some couples might not be up for this but Kissing is a massive part of the whole scenario and build up for me . If it wasn’t on the table . I definitely would not meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a chat?

I wouldn't know though as I've never met anyone that refused to kiss on a meet..although i can understand why certain people don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to keep certain things for themselves, I can’t imagine a meet with no kissing but it’s personal choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, i personaly love kissing and find it extremely erotic and a great part of fourplay and sex, have seen a few profiles where people dont kiss on meets, personaly wonderd how you would start a meet or progress if you cant kiss?? Just my opion ? Xx"
I love foreplay and if they state no kissing move on to the ones that do, kissing is a prerequisite of great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is good...

In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt personally meet up with someone if they didnt kiss

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought.."

wouldn't bother me, in fact I'd be happy to kiss the hubby as well.

On a more serious note I guess kissing makes sex a lot more sensual, some couples don't want that with a stranger, they just want sex, I've even seen some profiles on here where they just want guys to come in, fuck the wife from behind and unload, no touching, no oral, just basically stick it in, cum and go.

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

Kissing is a great turn on for me. It’s a must, male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell so much from a kiss

It’s all about the kiss for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is so important to me, it can be gentle sensual, or down right erotic xx

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought..

wouldn't bother me, in fact I'd be happy to kiss the hubby as well.

Very clinical

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

It’s always a puzzle that a female would suck a guys cock but not kiss !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s always a puzzle that a female would suck a guys cock but not kiss !"

Ha ha maybe there cock is cleaner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d struggle with not kissing. One of my favourite parts of sex.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I love kissing. If the other person doesn't want to (and I do understand that many don't like it with casual meets, or people other than their partner) that's fine. But good kissing definitely makes the sex better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me. I’ve seen a few couples on here who don’t and I totally get that. I think the whole fab thing is totally different for couples.

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By *ightLeeCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

In a 'couples scenario', would you kiss the woman after she has been sucking her guys cock..? Just a simple thought..

wouldn't bother me, in fact I'd be happy to kiss the hubby as well.

As we're looking for friends as well as people to have fun with, we need a connection. Not kissing and this scenario would be far to cold and detached. To each their own of course.

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract

Chatted to one bi couple and she stated straight away that she wouldn’t kiss but her husband would needless to say it didn’t go any further

Don’t get it kissing is a big part of the foreplay for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good kiss and snog esp kissing my neck

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract

"Love a good kiss and snog esp kissing my neck "

And what a beautiful neck to kiss

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I seen profiles like this, but never come across a no kisser in a club. I don't get it, its like going in dry. Kissing is all part of the lubricant that makes everything so hot and flow nicely. Things would feel so cold and impersonal without, like we are mere inanimate sex toys. No kissing would be a no from me (bar a legitimate reason like a cold sore).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing makes it feel more intimate, such a turn on for us both,

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's each to their own and it's important for people to play within the boundries of what their comfortable with. Persoanlly I don't like the feeling of objectification and usery that sometimes comes across when people are happy to let someone fuck them or do something to them but they are not happy with kissing them or showing intimacy towards them. Yes you can argue its a mutral exchange of needs but for me it feels exploitative and wouldn't be for me. I'm not a sex toy to be used and discarded, neither is anyone else I play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is intimacy no getting around it never understood the any holes a goal mentality really but I suppose the club experience is one of sexual arousal by watching others perform and then joining in because of it and in many cases not knowing names or knowing personality or even nationality, in them circumstances you may not even get around to kissing lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To answer your question op. There are many ways to start a meet without kissing on the mouth it takes a little imagination and some discussion of scenarios that's all. I suspect our penchant for role play helps. Both of us are very warm and not clinical at all but we understand and respect those for who kissing is essential although we would never meet them

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By *irty workmanMan
over a year ago

lincolnshire

Must say passionate kissing and lip biting is a massive turn on for me

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I like kissing but it's not a deal breaker. In fact I prefer to kiss ladies if I'm honest about it.

But for me I guess it depends how we're playing. If it's a swinging meet then probably some kissing. If it's a BDSM meet then probably not... In that situation I just want to be used and abused so to speak. But afterwards a hug or some appreciation goes a long way

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By *team7279Couple
over a year ago

London

I can understand why some don't: preserving that intimacy for each other. But kissing is one of Mrs A's favourite things, so for us sex would be unthinkable without it. Watching her snog another guy gets me hard as a rock!

(To be honest, no kissing sounds like a rule you'd set at the start and drop pretty quickly!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is absolute HEAVEN

This

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By *erri and GaryCouple
over a year ago

London

Love to but only if the guy has clean smelling breath

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I wouldn’t meet if no kissing

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

To me kissing is a big part of a meet but would allways respectfull of others wishers

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I can understand why some don't: preserving that intimacy for each other. But kissing is one of Mrs A's favourite things, so for us sex would be unthinkable without it. Watching her snog another guy gets me hard as a rock!

(To be honest, no kissing sounds like a rule you'd set at the start and drop pretty quickly!)

Nope, we've had that boundary from the start. About 8 or more years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience...."

Yeah lots of people think that.

I'll agree that we're plainly weird but hang ups and jealousy issues? Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience....

Yeah lots of people think that.

I'll agree that we're plainly weird but hang ups and jealousy issues? Nah. "

Only from our personal experience, others may have different experiences....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"This has been done to death, but in for a penny, kissing is an absolute must for us, non kissers are just plainly weird or have hang up, jealousy issues from our personal experience....

Yeah lots of people think that.

I'll agree that we're plainly weird but hang ups and jealousy issues? Nah.

Only from our personal experience, others may have different experiences...."

Yep.

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston

When I was part of a couple we had the conversation about kissing others and initially. Oth thought it would be hard to accept. Having watched her kiss other females and males it turned out to be such a turn on.

Personally, I adore kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing on a meet. With a couple I meet up with, I started out the first couple of meets I never kissed her, I've know the male half along time and my wife and him never kissed when we had 3sums. The last few meets his gf started to kiss and the meets have been so much better.

I am careful with kissing on the neck, one meet a mouthful of nice perfume left a unpleasant taste so bad I couldn't carry one till I'd washed my mouth out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can't get my head around people who won't kiss claiming it's too intimate and yet willing to have penis in various orifices or mouth on genitals?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I understand why people don't but its an important part for me. The kiss has to be good or nothing else happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple, I won’t meet non kissers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met non kissers, I've never taken a meet further than a social with someone who is a bad kisser

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hmm see I absolutely love kissing someone that I’m really besotted with, could do it for hours.

I could do without kissing a stranger though, don’t think it would do much for me if I’m honest.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Love kissing practise with my pillow every night so I can perfect the art for you ladies. Can demonstrate if any ladies are would care to participate

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I agree Dandare kissing is a must for me too it's part of sex be it soft kisses or tonsil tennis..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is what gets me aroused so for me it's a must.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I honestly can't get my head around people who won't kiss claiming it's too intimate and yet willing to have penis in various orifices or mouth on genitals? "

Agreed I don't understand that either...can't beat a good snog.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's interesting that nobody apart from me has actually answered the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree here, a kiss is a building block of passion, a jumping board to further pleasure in my eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. Long kisses, lots of tongue play. It is very intimate, and I can understand that for some people they would rather save it for their partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree here, a kiss is a building block of passion, a jumping board to further pleasure in my eyes!"

although I wouldn't start a meet with kissing, there is far too much to discuss before hand, if your meeting for sex whats the scene if your role playing, if its a social start then hella no maybe a cheek kiss thing if your feeling bold and cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll kiss with the right person as it turns me on.

I've had fab friends in the past I avoid kissing and just get down to business with as they r amazing fucks but their kisses are slimey, or it's like having yr teeth washed, or yr face sucked off or digging down yr throat for leftovers

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I love kissing. Long kisses, lots of tongue play. It is very intimate, and I can understand that for some people they would rather save it for their partners."

I think so, I’d rather save it for someone I was in a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE kissing,a turn on for me

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Long, deep, wet kisses...

Tongues dancing together frenetically...

Lips devouring each other...

Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...

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By *irlyboyconorTV/TS
over a year ago

Cork

kissing is a must personally

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Long, deep, wet kisses...

Tongues dancing together frenetically...

Lips devouring each other...

Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss..."

Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"Long, deep, wet kisses...

Tongues dancing together frenetically...

Lips devouring each other...

Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...

Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?"

The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.

Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.

Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Long, deep, wet kisses...

Tongues dancing together frenetically...

Lips devouring each other...

Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...

Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?

The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.

Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.

Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons."

I agree that it will be interpreted differently by every person but it does give the impression of very deep and intense intimacy. I wouldn't want that with someone I didn't know extremely well, even if I did kiss my casual partners

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"Long, deep, wet kisses...

Tongues dancing together frenetically...

Lips devouring each other...

Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...

Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?

The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.

Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.

Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons.

Actually, you make explicit in your profile that you don't kiss passonately. It's your point, which is totally respectable.

When I am with the appropriate partner(s), passionate kissing is as enjoyable as other sexual intercourses, if not more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our meets my wife doesnt like kissing other men. She only kisses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is non negotiable. No kissing.....no meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Long, deep, wet kisses...

Tongues dancing together frenetically...

Lips devouring each other...

Sharing the essence of two souls in that kiss...

Genuine question. Why would you want to share the essence of your soul with a casual meet?

The essence of the soul is a narrative figure which can be interpreted differently by every person.

Just the same way that every person feel a particular sensation with a passionate kiss.

Many people don't kiss in casual meets because they find it very intimate and reserve it for certain persons.

Actually, you make explicit in your profile that you don't kiss passonately. It's your point, which is totally respectable.

When I am with the appropriate partner(s), passionate kissing is as enjoyable as other sexual intercourses, if not more

Appropriate partner(s) being the most important phrase in my opinion.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Same

No kissing =no playing

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!"

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet if they don't kiss end of, it's such a big part of our connections male

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus..."

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t "

To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them "

That’s a fair way to look at it.

If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them

That’s a fair way to look at it.

If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread."

These threads always go the same way, it doesn't matter how the original question is phrased. The vast majority say they would never meet anyone who doesn't kiss, a substantial minority are rude and judgemental about non kissers, a smaller minority say they wouldn't meet but accept the boundary... Then there's the people like us who don't kiss and try to actually answer the question

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Kissing is a huge part of connecting with someone, if I couldn't kiss them then why would I share my body with them?

Each to their own and all but it's a must for me!

Av xx

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We believe that kissing is intimate and as we are married mrs sp will only kiss woman

This sounds a contradiction but we dont see it as anything out of the ordinary. This might be hard to get heads around but it works for us

If its a requirement during a couple meet we clearly state that and its always worked for us xx

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By *edLad44Man
over a year ago

southendj

"Chatted to one bi couple and she stated straight away that she wouldn’t kiss but her husband would needless to say it didn’t go any further

Don’t get it kissing is a big part of the foreplay for me"
But maybe not everyone else ????

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We believe that kissing is intimate and as we are married mrs sp will only kiss woman

This sounds a contradiction but we dont see it as anything out of the ordinary. This might be hard to get heads around but it works for us

If its a requirement during a couple meet we clearly state that and its always worked for us xx "

The way you choose to play is up to you entirely

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"We believe that kissing is intimate and as we are married mrs sp will only kiss woman

This sounds a contradiction but we dont see it as anything out of the ordinary. This might be hard to get heads around but it works for us

If its a requirement during a couple meet we clearly state that and its always worked for us xx "
Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t "

I would turn it down, as it wouldn't work for me if there wasn't kissing involved. Male

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

I would turn it down, as it wouldn't work for me if there wasn't kissing involved. Male "

Is that because you have a lady to kiss at home though? If you were a single guy, looking for sex and a hot girl said yeah, I’d love to fuck you, they’d turn that down? I doubt it.

Maybe guys with a partner can say it’s kidding or no play more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

I would turn it down, as it wouldn't work for me if there wasn't kissing involved. Male

Is that because you have a lady to kiss at home though? If you were a single guy, looking for sex and a hot girl said yeah, I’d love to fuck you, they’d turn that down? I doubt it.

Maybe guys with a partner can say it’s kidding or no play more easily."

Sorry but even when I was a single guy and swinging it was the same for me, maybe I'm wierd lol

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Just love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to kiss

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

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"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them

That’s a fair way to look at it.

If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread."
I've been on here a long time.. for most of my time on fab.. as a single girl.. I've refused to kiss. I still do it very rarely.. and only when I feel the need... in all that time I can count on one hand the times it's cost me a meet.. in fact mostly it is not a problem.

As to the op... I start by touching and kissing their neck.. or them mine.. and then I quickly get my mouth around their cock..

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So you guys would actually turn down sex with a hot lady because she won’t snog you? Course you would!

Not necessarily. I had sex without kissing. Lots of times.

But passionate kisses are a bonus...

Exactly! I’d like to see the guys on this thread who are saying it’s a deal breaker actually turn down the offer of sex with a beautiful girl. I bet they wouldn’t

To be fair though a lot of people do want kissing which is fine by me. We all have our boundaries and we respect other people's and would never be rude or judgemental about them

That’s a fair way to look at it.

If meets for single men are as hard to come by as I believe, I doubt men would turn down a hot meet if kissing was a boundary, contrary to what has been said on this thread. I've been on here a long time.. for most of my time on fab.. as a single girl.. I've refused to kiss. I still do it very rarely.. and only when I feel the need... in all that time I can count on one hand the times it's cost me a meet.. in fact mostly it is not a problem.

As to the op... I start by touching and kissing their neck.. or them mine.. and then I quickly get my mouth around their cock.. "

I knew it!! Who’s going to turn down the offer of sex (as a single guy) for the sake of a snog!!

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