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Let's meet then dont meet !!

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By *ED00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Devon... Torbaydos

I'm really irritated and I know I shouldn't be because it is the nature of the beast that is Fab. But why do people spend time flirting and chatting with you then arrange to meet and then not show up ?? Even to tell you they are just leaving and then not show up !!! Its just rude. We all change our minds that's ok. But to not say anything !!! I'm just glad I was at home last night and not sat in some bar at least I was able to kick off me shoes and get in to my pjs. Its just rude. Sorry rant over. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same yesterday afternoon, had been chatting to a lovely lady for a few weeks and agreed to have a social, I even asked her the night before if she was still happy with meeting!

Messaged her yesterday morning to confirm she was still happy to meet and set off to meet at the agreed time and destination. Waited for half an hour and she doesn’t show, she’s even moved her profile to hidden. Like wtf!

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By *ED00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Devon... Torbaydos

I know it's just rude. I message the guy earlier and even gave him a get out card but he said nope he was still very much up for meeting. Then as I said told me he was getting in the car !!! Its ok to change your mind I'm more than happy with that. It would just be good manners to say. His profile hasn't disappeared yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had it a few times, recently from a couple who we'd flirted with, suggested dates for a meet then radio silence from them. They did the same about a year ago but we gave them a second chance.

Oh well, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some the chase is all the excitement they need.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I had the same yesterday afternoon, had been chatting to a lovely lady for a few weeks and agreed to have a social, I even asked her the night before if she was still happy with meeting!

Messaged her yesterday morning to confirm she was still happy to meet and set off to meet at the agreed time and destination. Waited for half an hour and she doesn’t show, she’s even moved her profile to hidden. Like wtf! "

This was probably a man tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this I really don't understand. it is so hard to even get an answer from a message, let alone actually arrange a social. I can count on one finger the number of times this year I have gotten to that point. I've basically given up now, removed all my pics and am just here while my membership is active. As a single guy it's almost impossible to get noticed, and there has to be so much effort put in for obvious reasons, to then not show! Madness!!!!

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