FabSwingers.com forum: First time meet planned on my own... Feels wrong /right

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've arranged a meet with a guy next month but without carter, he's aware and encouraged it but can't help feeling apprehensive/guilty.

Would love to hear from other couples who have experienced the same feelings and how was that first solo mission.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be interested to read this too, Doughnut goes off on his own but might be dipping my toe in soon lol

Danish x

By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I used to suffer terribly with guilt, to the point where I'd start rows to try and get out of meeting guys

By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, we did this a couple of years ago but it was with a cpl of guys who were regulars which was important from a safety perspective..

If your oh is fine with it then enjoy with his blessings and try and not feel guilty..

By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We’ve started doing this. Can’t say from a female perspective (although Mrs may be on later) but from a make point of view, it’s both strange and brilliant. The first time was really odd and a little unsettling but I still enjoyed it. Now, I love it - knowing she’s going, getting messages, pics, vids, waiting for her to come back so we can have sex, which is always amazing - and it’s working out well for all concerned

Mr.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first solo mission I was wracked with nerves. Luckily the guy I met put me at ease, and after some dumb random stuff (which i do when nervous) the meet went really well.

My hubby is on here, we just don't play together as a couple

Good luck with your meet.