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By *howman_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe adding please would make one handed typing more difficult.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Maybe adding please would make one handed typing more difficult. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people."

maybee try a different room? That sort of thing will get you banned in the general rooms, Directing rooms are a zoo anyway.........

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By *howman_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Maybe adding please would make one handed typing more difficult.

"

LoL I can do it. Willing to show anyone how

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By *howman_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people.

maybee try a different room? That sort of thing will get you banned in the general rooms, Directing rooms are a zoo anyway......... "

No these are things I have read not typed. Yes this was in directing rooms but still manners cost nothing. If I was a couple/female I'd block everyone that didnt say please. Would soon make it a little more polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people.

maybee try a different room? That sort of thing will get you banned in the general rooms, Directing rooms are a zoo anyway.........

No these are things I have read not typed. Yes this was in directing rooms but still manners cost nothing. If I was a couple/female I'd block everyone that didnt say please. Would soon make it a little more polite"

Not to worry, I was not suggesting that you were typing them.......

I disagree, in Chat, as in real life, somepeople like to be told what to do. In chat, as everywhere else, if you don't like what certain people are saying, you can block and you never have to see them again. Or, you can go to find more polite rooms instead.

I don't get to go into the chat rooms much atm as I havn't a PC of my own, but when I do go there, I never go to the directing rooms. They are far to much like a cattle market, people are rude (in a bad way) and in all the years I have been on the site and used the rooms, I have never got a meet with someone from the directing rooms......

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

you say as in real life people look for directing, but im unsure, as we have never attended one, but there arent many blokes standing around Chams or liberties, dicks in hand, shouting at the couple/group in front of them what to do.

amybe its because it costs to get into a club and it doesnt to go in the chat rooms.

maybe its because there is a chance, however slim, you will get involved in a club, whereas there is little chance in the chatrooms?

i will say, however, we dont use the rooms on here for this exact reason.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people."

Seen every one of these things in the Scotland room today and the only time Please was used is when i said Please dont direct in a non directing room.

Not only are manners missing but respect and self respect are lacking to, but it takes all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you say as in real life people look for directing, but im unsure, as we have never attended one, but there arent many blokes standing around Chams or liberties, dicks in hand, shouting at the couple/group in front of them what to do.

amybe its because it costs to get into a club and it doesnt to go in the chat rooms.

maybe its because there is a chance, however slim, you will get involved in a club, whereas there is little chance in the chatrooms?

i will say, however, we dont use the rooms on here for this exact reason."

Are you suggesting that no one likes to be told what to do? Ever?

I said, in real life as in chat SOME people like to be told what to do......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners are free

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I dont like people that send a pm without even bothering to speak in open chat and i have no idea who they are.

Dont know what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like people that send a pm without even bothering to speak in open chat and i have no idea who they are.

Dont know what others think "

Oh I completely agree, if someone does not have the nutz to ask for a shaqg in the main room, are they gonna have the nutz to turn up if something was arranged via PM?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"you say as in real life people look for directing, but im unsure, as we have never attended one, but there arent many blokes standing around Chams or liberties, dicks in hand, shouting at the couple/group in front of them what to do.

amybe its because it costs to get into a club and it doesnt to go in the chat rooms.

maybe its because there is a chance, however slim, you will get involved in a club, whereas there is little chance in the chatrooms?

i will say, however, we dont use the rooms on here for this exact reason.

Are you suggesting that no one likes to be told what to do? Ever?

I said, in real life as in chat SOME people like to be told what to do......"

absolutely not, but you are missing what i said.

just because SOME like being told, why foist it on those that do not?

would it not be good/nice to show respect to the camming member until such a time as the boundaries are found?

like i said, it doesnt happen in real life when peple are playing in front of a crowd because there is always that close physical contact (as in same room) whereas the detracted nature of being on a computer means people are much bolder than they ordinarily would be.

lets be honest, YOU wouldnt meet a couple and as soon as you get into the bedroom say to her to get her tits out, bitch, or whatever. no, course you wouldnt, as you would show her too much respect, until such a time as it is percieved she wants to be spoken to, or treated in, such a manner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you say as in real life people look for directing, but im unsure, as we have never attended one, but there arent many blokes standing around Chams or liberties, dicks in hand, shouting at the couple/group in front of them what to do.

amybe its because it costs to get into a club and it doesnt to go in the chat rooms.

maybe its because there is a chance, however slim, you will get involved in a club, whereas there is little chance in the chatrooms?

i will say, however, we dont use the rooms on here for this exact reason.

Are you suggesting that no one likes to be told what to do? Ever?

I said, in real life as in chat SOME people like to be told what to do......

absolutely not, but you are missing what i said.

just because SOME like being told, why foist it on those that do not?

would it not be good/nice to show respect to the camming member until such a time as the boundaries are found?

like i said, it doesnt happen in real life when peple are playing in front of a crowd because there is always that close physical contact (as in same room) whereas the detracted nature of being on a computer means people are much bolder than they ordinarily would be.

lets be honest, YOU wouldnt meet a couple and as soon as you get into the bedroom say to her to get her tits out, bitch, or whatever. no, course you wouldnt, as you would show her too much respect, until such a time as it is percieved she wants to be spoken to, or treated in, such a manner"

That is true, so I will conceede the point (I don't go to clubs btw....)

However, by going into the directing room you are (tacitly at least) accepting that you are going into a chatroom where there are no restrictions to what can be said (so long as no one is being threatened etc).

If you don't like that, then you can chat in one of the general rooms. There is no guarantee that it won't happen i a general room, but believe you me, if there is a mod in the room then anyone saying inapropriate things will be out, quick as mustard.

And I still maintain that there is the block function if you don't like what people are writing in the directing room, you can block em and never have to see what they are typing ever again....

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

agreed, but you know the general rooms are empty and the directing rooms are where all the traffic is, and whats the point in playing to an empty auditorium? lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

In the throws of passion the people are probably not reading every direction anyway.

When we used to play on cam we just ignored any that we didn't like, if people don't like the way people direct, they can do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agreed, but you know the general rooms are empty and the directing rooms are where all the traffic is, and whats the point in playing to an empty auditorium? lol"

I am afraid that's the chances you take.....I for one agree that there are some very rude idiots in Chat, but I don't mind as it makes the decent sorts (like me, 'smug face'!) stand out to people. Not that it gets me meets. But at the same time I can understand why people like you, who are on the recieving end can get pissed off with it. Block em and let em pester someone else......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im all for manners they are very important

But in the case you are quoting it seems to take some of the passion and kinkyness out of it if you have to say please xx

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

In directing room 'all bets are off' and thinking is NOT allowed

Directing rooms arent for chat from what i can tell... they should be called 'assisted wanking rooms'

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people."

It isn't just manners that are missing, the majority of the people in most of the chat rooms I have gone in are also ignorant, you say hello to everyone or ask how everyone is and you get completely blanked, I know people are in coversations but what does it take to respond and say hello back, hence I no longer have any interest in going in the chat rooms any more.

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people.

It isn't just manners that are missing, the majority of the people in most of the chat rooms I have gone in are also ignorant, you say hello to everyone or ask how everyone is and you get completely blanked, I know people are in coversations but what does it take to respond and say hello back, hence I no longer have any interest in going in the chat rooms any more.

Devil "

thats a different thing devs, it does take a while to be accepted as a regular in the chat rooms, just like it does on the forums or in a pub......

I always say it takes a month or so of going into a room every day b4 people recognise yo, unless ur a single girl where u get pestered so much on your first time it can be distaste full......

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By *howman_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"you say as in real life people look for directing, but im unsure, as we have never attended one, but there arent many blokes standing around Chams or liberties, dicks in hand, shouting at the couple/group in front of them what to do.

amybe its because it costs to get into a club and it doesnt to go in the chat rooms.

maybe its because there is a chance, however slim, you will get involved in a club, whereas there is little chance in the chatrooms?

i will say, however, we dont use the rooms on here for this exact reason.

Are you suggesting that no one likes to be told what to do? Ever?

I said, in real life as in chat SOME people like to be told what to do......"

Yes but to PRESUME what they want is rude, hence manerless. Before any meet I try to ascertain what we all like without turning it into a 200 message passion killer i admit. Manners cost NOTHING

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By *howman_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Im all for manners they are very important

But in the case you are quoting it seems to take some of the passion and kinkyness out of it if you have to say please xx "

Maybe but it's hardly a passion moment with lines like "get them out love" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you say as in real life people look for directing, but im unsure, as we have never attended one, but there arent many blokes standing around Chams or liberties, dicks in hand, shouting at the couple/group in front of them what to do.

amybe its because it costs to get into a club and it doesnt to go in the chat rooms.

maybe its because there is a chance, however slim, you will get involved in a club, whereas there is little chance in the chatrooms?

i will say, however, we dont use the rooms on here for this exact reason.

Are you suggesting that no one likes to be told what to do? Ever?

I said, in real life as in chat SOME people like to be told what to do......

Yes but to PRESUME what they want is rude, hence manerless. Before any meet I try to ascertain what we all like without turning it into a 200 message passion killer i admit. Manners cost NOTHING"

sorry to burst a bubble, but i dont presume anything. the rules for chat are clear. you can say what you like to who you like when you are in the directing rooms. you can expect more civilised behaviour in the general rooms.

if people are too rude for you in the directing rooms, block the rude ones or else dont go in there.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I can't stop laughing ....

Finger her arse please ....Is polite ??

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Im all for manners they are very important

But in the case you are quoting it seems to take some of the passion and kinkyness out of it if you have to say please xx "

ohhh saying please can be very kinky

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"A distinct lack of them.

Requests I have seen today in 5 minutes.....

Open that pussy

Suck his dick

Finger her arse

Show me you tits

All missing one simple word PLEASE

Manners really don't cost anything people."

I don't use the chat rooms here as I find this behaviour unacceptable but that's what you get here; so I tend to use another site where you can create your own rooms including directing, but you can also stipulate rules which could include using the word please!

You also don't have to rely on a mod to regulate the room although they are available and even have a room if you do get a difficult situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't stop laughing ....

Finger her arse please ....Is polite ??"

lol

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