FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Age gap

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a guy on the younger side with a big thing for the slightly mature lady..

I was how young/old people will go - I appreciate it's all totally subjective but interesting to find out people's thoughts.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical age is immaterial, I go more on mental age.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't go under 30,prefer my age ish or older.

Just seem to get on better with people older or my age.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

5 years either side I think, although I’d prefer not to go younger than myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *attywailerMan
over a year ago

Lithuania, Klaipeda

Your mental age speaks about you, not the actual age..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to meet most ages...but when looking for a guy mfm i prefer younger...down to about 21.

X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 22. The youngest I’ll probably meet is 30. Eldest - 50ish.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

It’s very personal. Some here will have kids around your age so might find that off putting. Some are like me and often prefer the younger guy. My settings are mid 20s but the reality is that it depends on them - do they seem mature and experienced enough for me. Believe me, there are guys in their mid 20s here that are more mature and better lovers than the guys 20 years their senior.

Sorry I can’t be more specific

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is almost 19 years older than me.

Age ain't but a number sometimes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You've summed it up perfectly.

It's subjective and as you say some will have children or close family members the same age which I totally understand.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My OH is almost 19 years older than me.

Age ain't but a number sometimes "

Hubby is 15 and half years older. It's not down to the age...it's down to the person. We all age differently and some on here have aged a lot better than others lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With that in mind, I wonder if it is younger guys that have the older women thing..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With that in mind, I wonder if it is younger guys that have the older women thing..

"

Well yes. Because older men would just call them ‘women my age’

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes but.. Does a more mature lady look for younger guys as much as the other way around?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but.. Does a more mature lady look for younger guys as much as the other way around? "

Click reply+quote so it’s obvious who you’re replying too.

And you may as well call them ‘older women’ because I’m 22 and very mature, but I’m pretty sure you aren’t describing me.

But yes - some older women do like younger men. But that isn’t a blanket covering; I like older men but won’t fuck every older man that messages me or shows interest. There’s far more men than women on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes but.. Does a more mature lady look for younger guys as much as the other way around?

Click reply+quote so it’s obvious who you’re replying too.

And you may as well call them ‘older women’ because I’m 22 and very mature, but I’m pretty sure you aren’t describing me.

But yes - some older women do like younger men. But that isn’t a blanket covering; I like older men but won’t fuck every older man that messages me or shows interest. There’s far more men than women on here. "

Yeah completely agree with you.

I find it interesting. As you say men hugely outnumber women on here so hardly representative, hence my curiosity.

Of course maturity isn't mutually exclusive to age in years.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

as i am getting on a bit, finding a older woman gets harder, but I still find that I like older women. when i was 18 the older woman was 40, now the older woman needs to 50

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preference is older, in the 40-55 range

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 here but the mental maturity of a 30 year old.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Yes but.. Does a more mature lady look for younger guys as much as the other way around? "

If I was searching I would be looking for the younger guys. But I rarely search as women on here are always inundated with interest anyway.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your mental age speaks about you, not the actual age.."

In which case there are so many things I really shouldn't be doing. Oh well....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top