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I want to watch my wife get fucked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome"

I can come round and talk her into it if you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome

I can come round and talk her into it if you like. "

don id love you to mate....mind you i might struggle after youve had that thing up her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome

I can come round and talk her into it if you like.

don id love you to mate....mind you i might struggle after youve had that thing up her "

If a baby can come out a cock can go up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm ok , you could day stumbled across this site , joined but as nothing on your profile can only assume it was for a wee peak . then show her and ask her what she thinks ?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Kev wanted me to be far more open about my desires, and so got me to admit them...i know that sounds easy but it aint

You know her best, what naughty fantasies does she have, little secret, the quickest way to get a woman to confess hers is to let yours out...in the right context of course

Share ,grow, enjoy exploring together, right now u are ahead of her, and it might seem like there is a wonderful world u are excluded from, but the fact is that if u embark on this together it will be a wonderful ride.

Dont be shocked or bored by anything she says, accept the things that turn her on and who knows where it might lead...22 years ago i admitted rather wasted i fancied rupert everett in another country, careful probing made me admit the idea of 2 men together turned me on like nothing else...3 months later i had my first threesome

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome

I can come round and talk her into it if you like.

don id love you to mate....mind you i might struggle after youve had that thing up her

If a baby can come out a cock can go up "

i was in labour for 36 hours with my daughter and it hurt like hell, i aint putting that much effort into a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might I suggest you try filming yourselves fucking together and watching it together. This may encourage further discussion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome"

I would suggest with extreme caution .....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

explain that

1 you joined a swinger site

2 you have had conversations and got verified

3 been looking a potential candidate

3a got a little friends list going

4 and got advice from strangers.

5 and feel ready to watch her get fucked by someone

Honestly i think all woman go for that approach.

Seems fool proof to me.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Maybe try asking " Have you ever had a threesome ?".

Take it from there, worse comes the worst you may end up in a MFF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"might I suggest you try filming yourselves fucking together and watching it together. This may encourage further discussion?"

We did that. She liked watching it, but when i mentioned another, she almost divorced me.

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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago

West Mid / North west

When you are on a night out try telling her how good she looks and how it turns you on seeing her being admired by other people and this may help bringing up the subject but dont take risks by pressuring her into anything as she will either be receptive or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

discuss your fantasy with her and be open and honest and tell her how you have wanted this to happen for a while .

if she says point blank no then guess you just have to accept that but if she um's and aaar's then she is contemplating the idea but dont push her and she may well surprise you .

maybe you suggest some blindfold play to introduce another guy .

this may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe get her to do a fantasy list both do one and see what matches. Great as a fantasy but hwo far are you prepared to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but most of all ask her which senario would she be most comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good idea shaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip side I am single but if I had a partner how would I suggest I love to share and watch him fuck other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask how she feels about the idea of both of you meeting other people to add a bit of spice then if she's interested then you can move onto specific scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flip side I am single but if I had a partner how would I suggest I love to share and watch him fuck other women "

Simple. You would say 'I'd love to watch you fuck other women' and he'd say 'I love you!'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

some good ideas, thanks.

a few years back she did say she wanted to try mmf so we registered on AFF. when we started getting messages from men who were interested (she is a looker) she got a bit of cold feet and we never did it. so it has been there before....just need to get it going again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome"

Bring her round mine then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell her that not us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome

I can come round and talk her into it if you like.

don id love you to mate....mind you i might struggle after youve had that thing up her

If a baby can come out a cock can go up "

....and giving birth is not painful at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but am wondering how i approach the subject

ideas welcome

Bring her round mine then lol"

would love to mate, if you werent so far

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"some good ideas, thanks.

a few years back she did say she wanted to try mmf so we registered on AFF. when we started getting messages from men who were interested (she is a looker) she got a bit of cold feet and we never did it. so it has been there before....just need to get it going again"

It is quite scary...maybe a social would be a good start, there are a lot around your area. If she meets other women she will be reassured .

Whatever do not push her...that splits up more couples than you would believe. Gentle persuasion works wonders, and remember what i said earlier, if u open up she will too...words are the quickest way to get a woman to do what u want

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