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Young guy going to a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I was wandering what kind of reception I would receive if going to a club at my age (21). I’m fascinated by the idea, do many people in my age group go? Thanks in advance for any advice etc.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Personally for me (female half) younger blokes don't do much for me I have to see. However, if you're polite, respectful and mature I'd see no problem with you being there .

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford

I started going to clubs when I was younger than you and I'm 33 in July, you will always be to young for some, same as to tall,to short, to slim, to fat.

Most clubs get a whole mix of people in and we can't always be everyone's cup of tea if you remember that you will do fine.

Just remember in clubs first impression counts so if you can make a good first impression you will be ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I’ll keep that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I have noticed in clubs, there tend to be more middle-aged and older people. So if you don't mind not having many people your age, you should do fine.

Or look for events that are specifically designed for younger swingers - I know Jaydees have (had?) those, but I'm sure other clubs do those, too.

Always make sure you check the website of the club you choose to go and the entry requirements, as most clubs don't let single men in on a Saturday, and some require you to be verified on a swingers website.

All clubs that I know of limit the number of single men on the day so when you decide which club you'd like to go to, make sure you register with them first rather than just turn up, as you may not be let in.

And enjoy . It's definitely an eye opening experience.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Research the club's within sensible travelling distance. Look at the reviews and decide which suits you best. Several have on site accommodation, so it may be worth looking further afield and make a weekend of it.

Average ago varies from club to club and certain theme nights, such as music nights may have a younger age group.

My local club is welcoming whatever the age. Just dress appropriate to the club and don't expect sex. Just go with the plan to have a good night meeting lots of fun and seeing what it's all about. If you are able to go for a few times, people will recognise you and get friendlier and friendlier.

But polite, friendly and try to relax. Have fun.

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