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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I lost some confidence after my ex......actually it’s too long a story for here lol. Anyway, I take it personally when someone reads a customised message that I’ve personally took the time to write and then just deletes it. It’s even worse if it’s deleted and then she blocks me

I do understand why though. I know how many messages women on here get!!!

On occasion though I’ve been given a “thanks but no thanks” type message. If that happens, I’ve always made sure to reply saying something along the lines of “thank you for the courtesy of letting me know”

Does anyone else do this? Am I wrong for wasting even more of her time? Would love to know other people’s opinions.

Just wondering, thank you for taking the time to read this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(blocked)

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"(blocked) "

lol I asked for that didn’t I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


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You lot are evil!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tough school on here mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a pussy...

Chin up and crack on fella....

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Mate please don’t take it personally!!

You sound a good guy and the people on here who are arrogant on here don’t deserve you ..

There just Fab popular ..

Your no doubt popular in real life which is way more important...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost some confidence after my ex......actually it’s too long a story for here lol. Anyway, I take it personally when someone reads a customised message that I’ve personally took the time to write and then just deletes it. It’s even worse if it’s deleted and then she blocks me

I do understand why though. I know how many messages women on here get!!!

On occasion though I’ve been given a “thanks but no thanks” type message. If that happens, I’ve always made sure to reply saying something along the lines of “thank you for the courtesy of letting me know”

Does anyone else do this? Am I wrong for wasting even more of her time? Would love to know other people’s opinions.

Just wondering, thank you for taking the time to read this. "

I reply to all first messages. I understand that it will feel really shit if no-one ever replies.

Some people reply and say thank you for replying. Hopefully it will make them feel a tiny bit human again.

Chin up. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing xx just a shame more people have got any xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be a heartless cunt like me, then you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always remain polite.

Your real personality will shine through

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By *YC Sausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thank you to all the replies in here (even the evil ones )

I’ll carry on being me, and fuck those who are too far up themselves to be polite back

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I reply in kind. If they are polite and show they have read our profile, they will get a polite reply. If they are rude and/or entitled then they can sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm not interested in someone then I always reply saying sorry no thank you. Only time I block is when it's a stupid childish message. Carry on as you are, manners go a long way in my eyes

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Stop it I’m going to cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody owes anybody anything on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a polite message I’ll always reply politely. I’ll only block or straight away delete if I feel the message is inappropriate ??

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By *erby couple200Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Yes, politeness costs nothing. But then again rudeness also costs nothing.

But isn't it always better to be polite?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I appreciate polite, but hate a wet blanket!

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If someone has obviously read my profile and written a nice message I normally reply.

If I get a message saying simply "want to meet today" or "fancy a fuck" etc etc. I don't bother and delete.

I get too many messages and need some way of fast filtering.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I mostly reply and I mostly wish that I hadn’t.

It tends to open up a line of communication then and it’s a waste of everyone’s time.

It mostly involves me saying no thankyou and then trying to change my mind.

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By *eviationMan
over a year ago

Brynamman

I always say "thanks for the reply"

It don't happen often though mostly

Delete n block from them lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always try to respond with a polite message, it's only manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try to respond with a polite message, it's only manners. "

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

If I get a no then will allways reply with a thank you as manners cost nothing

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Some answers on here show people’s real colours ..

Some show how nice some people are too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some answers on here show people’s real colours ..

Some show how nice some people are too .."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the message is polite, we alaways try to reply. Rude messages get ignored. Really rude get blocked.

Try not to take it personally lovely. You may not float everyone's boat, but you will float some. Remember the ratio between men and women is very large and you can't see it as a slight against you. Online is so different to day to day life and you shouldn't let it get to you

Holly

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