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By *anilla no kink OP   Woman
over a year ago

plymouth

Do women or guys prefer regular meets or just 1 off , only curious not being judgemental

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We do have a couple of guys that are fairly regular and when we say regular, we mean 5 -6 times a year. We did have a regular couple we met every month but they've moved too far away.

We also love one offs though, the thrill of someone new is exciting.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We enjoy both!! Would like to find some regular friends though.

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I had a lady who was regular.she texted i went over 2 or3 times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta enjoy a regular meet. Chance to get to know how to press the other ones buttons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced both & prefer regular but that can also come with its own set of problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regular as I relax more and the sex gets better with time

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Regular is the best. Sex is better second, third, fourth time xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely regular, have a fwb that i see every 2 weeks, if not every week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i prefer regular. Ive no intension of getting as many notches on the bed post as i can. Im a very loyal person towards my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve only had a one off but would like to meet a couple to see regularly.

However, I also have concerns about attachment, from our side, so would approach repeat meets with caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular. I don't enjoy casual sex, I prefer sensual sex with someone who's company I enjoy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, fwb type of arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any regulars had a couple of repeat meets. One that could of turned regular let us down. Can see the benefits of a regular getting to know what turns each other on and no first time nerves. Would def like a local regular.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Regular build a bit of repor, get a bit of role play going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some regular friends who have now become good friends as well as playmates

Also had long term swinging friends which we went on holiday with. He now has Parkinson’s but we are still really close but without the swinging aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely prefer regular.

Spontaneity is good tho occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular with one-offs joining in.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Regular let’s you start to push boundaries as you become more comfortable with each other. That said the frisson of a first-time meet is hard to beat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer regular. It allows you to explore one another better, makes for better sex and boundaries pushed.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Probably regular. I don't mind a one off once in a blue moon but I like the familarity and ease of exploration from those I've met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs definitely, skip the practice, hit me with your best shot lol

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I've had some very nice one-offs, but regular is best. For all the reasons everyone else has already said.

Now that I think about it, if those one-offs had become regular I would have been very happy. Every regular partner starts with a first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don’t get to meet/play very often, all my meets have by nature been one offs. It would be nice to find someone more regular but I just don’t have the time for it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Regular for me.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

i like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a nice mixture of both we were at one point only playing with a single couple but it fizzled out and just wasn’t as exciting. So now we have a few regulars and spontaneous new meets although it’s getting harder to find genuine couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular 1 for me. I like getting to know someone and it gets better everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is the best, the meets can get better and better every time, knowing what eachother likes, can be a more intense session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular ... but a little excitement every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is the way ahead for me, sex is so much more fun when you know what makes each other tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe meet twice but no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular, I had a wonderful relationship with a couple for 2 years, meeting everyone 2/3 weeks, each time just got naughtier and naughtier as we discovered each other’s fantasies and boundaries. Oh those were the days!

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We definitely prefer regular. We have 2 couples that we meet with (individually) in a very regular basis.

We’d love to find the same with a sexy bi lady too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me sex gets better every time But I am quite partial to a one off Meet as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs mostly. Unless a single woman local enough wanted to hang out and do generic stuff.

Though swindon is a dead zone for single women lol be better once I move back to Surrey again

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I'm learning to enjoy regular but find it doesn't last that long before issues set in.

I do enjoy one offs though x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I really enjoy casual unplanned play with both guys and women. Clubs are great for this, and often don't even involve exchange of names. However there are also a couple of playmates that we meet occasionally and that's fun too.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Both.

Some meets get better when you both know which buttons to press, but I do like a bit of strange too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular meets for me. Stopped meeting new people now as too much aggravation

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By *elshcouple91Couple
over a year ago

Llandudno

Agreed

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By *heepdogg999Man
over a year ago

Castleford

Regular is best. Get to know each other and what like. But having occasionally new one off is exciting.

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