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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Why do you think people in this site have no face pictures on their profile.....they don't even mention that they will reciprocate with their facial pictures if you send them yours...yet, they say “if you don’t send face pic, don’t expect a reply”. Obviously, they need to be attracted to you because charity cases are not fun I guess, in this “game”....but do they not stop to think that you need to be as attracted to them before you do anything?

My thoughts are genuine by the way, they’re not meant to be “controversial”, just declaring it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but do they not stop to think that you need to be as attracted to them before you do anything?

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Obviously some ppl think too highly of themselves to believe that someone may not be attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean public, private or friends pics? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you think people in this site have no face pictures on their profile.....they don't even mention that they will reciprocate with their facial pictures if you send them yours...yet, they say “if you don’t send face pic, don’t expect a reply”. Obviously, they need to be attracted to you because charity cases are not fun I guess, in this “game”....but do they not stop to think that you need to be as attracted to them before you do anything?

My thoughts are genuine by the way, they’re not meant to be “controversial”, just declaring it!"

Because people can do whatever they want quite frankly. Some might agree with them some might not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people's job may not ”allow” them to post face pics - in some professions being on here is sackable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about choice.

It's their choice to insist on face pics.

It's your choice as to whether you send them yours or not.

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Do you mean public, private or friends pics? X"

I haven’t thought about that specific part to be honest...I mean, I am totally ok with people wanting to keep their faces private because of work etc etc....the real question for me is, will they do the decent thing of reciprocating with their own face pics in private? Or will they expect you to send your face pics with your first message, because they might think....I don’t know...whatever!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"because they might think....I don’t know...whatever!"

Because they might gets lots of messages and have no need to spend time even starting to talk to a guy they don't like the look of.

It's generally a supply & demand thing

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

OP, marketing laws.

With the actual ratio men:women/couples, they impose their rules of attraction, knowing that always there will be a queue of men accepting those rules, trying to get into their bed.

Please girls/couples, do not take me wrong. This is not a critic but a fact. I probably would do the same xx

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We only send face pics if we think there’s a real chance we will meet the person/people we are chatting to, don’t want our face pics on here for all to see I mean we would be inundated with messages

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"because they might think....I don’t know...whatever!

Because they might gets lots of messages and have no need to spend time even starting to talk to a guy they don't like the look of.

It's generally a supply & demand thing "

If that’s what they think, then good for them, really...but as far as I’m concerned, I’m on an equal footing. I won’t have sex with people I don’t like the look of, just because one of them has a vagina...and to prove my point, I have started standing my ground and not send face pics to profiles who really interest me. I don’t know about other guys in here, but I am certainly not in the category of “any hole is a goal”.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If someone sends me an unsolicited face pic and I have no intention of meeting him why should I send him one back ?

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"If someone sends me an unsolicited face pic and I have no intention of meeting him why should I send him one back ? "

Lol...that’s not what I was talking about though x

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"because they might think....I don’t know...whatever!

Because they might gets lots of messages and have no need to spend time even starting to talk to a guy they don't like the look of.

It's generally a supply & demand thing

If that’s what they think, then good for them, really...but as far as I’m concerned, I’m on an equal footing. I won’t have sex with people I don’t like the look of, just because one of them has a vagina...and to prove my point, I have started standing my ground and not send face pics to profiles who really interest me. I don’t know about other guys in here, but I am certainly not in the category of “any hole is a goal”."

It is a thing of balance between men's self-steem and sexual drive

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anyone can ask for anything they want to. If you don't like it, keep scrolling.

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"OP, marketing laws.

With the actual ratio men:women/couples, they impose their rules of attraction, knowing that always there will be a queue of men accepting those rules, trying to get into their bed.

Please girls/couples, do not take me wrong. This is not a critic but a fact. I probably would do the same xx"

Yeah....I have grudgingly come to think that this is how some people think. You might be very right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people's job may not ”allow” them to post face pics - in some professions being on here is sackable "

This ^^^^

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP, marketing laws.

With the actual ratio men:women/couples, they impose their rules of attraction, knowing that always there will be a queue of men accepting those rules, trying to get into their bed.

Please girls/couples, do not take me wrong. This is not a critic but a fact. I probably would do the same xx

Yeah....I have grudgingly come to think that this is how some people think. You might be very right"

It's how most people think. I'm ruthless.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"and to prove my point, I have started standing my ground and not send face pics to profiles who really interest me."

I'd be interested in your research findings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people's job may not ”allow” them to post face pics - in some professions being on here is sackable "

Because the world is stuck up it’s own arse why the fuck to companies and employers think they can tell ppl how they have sex

Gayy and lesbians have equal rights maybe swingers to ?? LGBTS ??

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"OP, marketing laws.

With the actual ratio men:women/couples, they impose their rules of attraction, knowing that always there will be a queue of men accepting those rules, trying to get into their bed.

Please girls/couples, do not take me wrong. This is not a critic but a fact. I probably would do the same xx

Yeah....I have grudgingly come to think that this is how some people think. You might be very right

It's how most people think. I'm ruthless. "

That’s fair enough; like I said, I have started standing my ground and ignoring people’s declarations of wanting a face pic, even if it means they will delete my email....I’m nobody’s fool x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Why would you not respect people's wishes when messaging them? That's blatantly disrespectful.

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"and to prove my point, I have started standing my ground and not send face pics to profiles who really interest me.

I'd be interested in your research findings "

Lol my findings are that I get “deleted” which is a bugger but, like I said, I’m nobody’s fool anymore x

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Why would you not respect people's wishes when messaging them? That's blatantly disrespectful. "

Lol I can give you my reasoning which is specific but it’s long-winded

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why would you not respect people's wishes when messaging them? That's blatantly disrespectful.

Lol I can give you my reasoning which is specific but it’s long-winded"

My reasoning is simple. They make a request. You should comply. If you can't, don't engage.

I apply the same to my profile, although not re pictures.

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Why would you not respect people's wishes when messaging them? That's blatantly disrespectful.

Lol I can give you my reasoning which is specific but it’s long-winded

My reasoning is simple. They make a request. You should comply. If you can't, don't engage.

I apply the same to my profile, although not re pictures. "

Mine is too....I’ve offered it to you privately x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why would you not respect people's wishes when messaging them? That's blatantly disrespectful.

Lol I can give you my reasoning which is specific but it’s long-winded

My reasoning is simple. They make a request. You should comply. If you can't, don't engage.

I apply the same to my profile, although not re pictures.

Mine is too....I’ve offered it to you privately x"

Indeed, and my position stands.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Do you mean public, private or friends pics? X

I haven’t thought about that specific part to be honest...I mean, I am totally ok with people wanting to keep their faces private because of work etc etc....the real question for me is, will they do the decent thing of reciprocating with their own face pics in private? Or will they expect you to send your face pics with your first message, because they might think....I don’t know...whatever!"

We will only reciprocate if we are attracted to people. Have received face pics off people who we are not attracted to, thanked them, but it will go no further. That's how we run our profile. If that puts people off that's ok.

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By *enonlyMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Do you mean public, private or friends pics? X

I haven’t thought about that specific part to be honest...I mean, I am totally ok with people wanting to keep their faces private because of work etc etc....the real question for me is, will they do the decent thing of reciprocating with their own face pics in private? Or will they expect you to send your face pics with your first message, because they might think....I don’t know...whatever!

We will only reciprocate if we are attracted to people. Have received face pics off people who we are not attracted to, thanked them, but it will go no further. That's how we run our profile. If that puts people off that's ok. "

that's a nice way and respectful x

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