FabSwingers.com forum: Fake

By *ed-devils OP Couple
over a year ago

Hitchin

How do people pick out fake profiles on here,any tips please

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By *illy999TV/TS
over a year ago

Taunton

Check profile verifications !

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By *illy999TV/TS
over a year ago

Taunton

Check profile verifications !

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By *illy999TV/TS
over a year ago

Taunton

Check profile verifications !

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By *andNCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Plymouth

If makes you feel any better we suspect we have all been on the receiving end of it and certainly we have come close to jacking it in as a consequence. Cross-veri checks with people you know are genuine to their published veris list, a phone call early doors, .. but it shouldnt have to be like that and that limits contacts. Sadly other than that, we have learnt that even what appears real on all angles, things can on occasions not be.. and is a common topic of conversation when genuine fab people meet.

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By *xdirtyboyxxMan
over a year ago

chorley

Years of experience filters out the fake profiles.

I just laugh at them now and block.

Seems to be getting worst over the years.

I joined a site where the female had to ring a number to verify herself as a female before they put a tick next to it

So many fakes now Spoils it for the rest

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By *oupleforfun31Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this. "

That's cool , what do you use if you have an iPhone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me the tell tale signs are:

1- been on here over two months with no verifications

2 - (sometimes but not always) the profile will be allmost like a facebook profile with lots of face pics etc etc. pics out with friends...

3 - always want to chat but never meet or they suggest a meet weeks away

4 - cant verify on other forms of media such as snap or kik

5 - generic or not matching pics. Uncut cock pics mixed with cut cock. Or pics that look like a pornstar

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this. "

That’s incredible

. I had no idea there were so many

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this.

That's cool , what do you use if you have an iPhone "

Tineye, a great way of checking out fake pics

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

recent veris are a starting point for us

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this.

That's cool , what do you use if you have an iPhone

Tineye, a great way of checking out fake pics"

But what if it's your pictures people have stolen? What then?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

If I have my doubts I will be upfront about it and say, ‘this all seems too good to be true, could I ask you to send me a pic of you holding a piece of paper with you fab name and today’s date written on it’

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this.

That's cool , what do you use if you have an iPhone

Tineye, a great way of checking out fake pics

But what if it's your pictures people have stolen? What then?"

If I thought my pics had been stolen then I’d report to admin on here x

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this.

That's cool , what do you use if you have an iPhone

Tineye, a great way of checking out fake pics

But what if it's your pictures people have stolen? What then?"

Report to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone without verifications or who doesn't want to display them is fake!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Is this the sort of thing that would set off the fake alarm bells...?

A very abrupt message with no introduction just saying what the man wants (in the way I have seen in some forum posts); no photos; no verification from Admin.

All this from a couple profile.

Is that the sort of thing you mean? What other clues should we be looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I have my doubts I will be upfront about it and say, ‘this all seems too good to be true, could I ask you to send me a pic of you holding a piece of paper with you fab name and today’s date written on it’

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG"
There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Hmm I kind of agree.

If I liked the person a lot I’d probably do it but I mostly wouldn’t bother. There’s so many other people on here who don’t ask for anything like that.

Also not fake btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a chicken and egg, or Catch 22 thing maybe. Lack of veris makes meets harder to get, and without meets veries are hard to get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a spoon on the head... I tried that and the fake wouldn't do it obvs

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By *jangoMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Ive been on this site 11 days chatted to a couple of people and had a fair few messages blanked, that i've sent. I'm finding it difficult to even get a meet verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally the profiles with loads of verifications put me off because they're mostly exaggerated bull lol

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Your prerogative, Would I have reason to doubt you do you think!?

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Personally the profiles with loads of verifications put me off because they're mostly exaggerated bull lol"

And often when you look into them a bit deeper, they have all verified each other like a little fake veri circle.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

And if you were interested in meeting me, would you consider that jumping through hoops? I see it as a small thing to help reassure someone, if that’s too much to ask, then that’s all I need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Your prerogative, Would I have reason to doubt you do you think!?"

You tell me

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG"

Yep wouldn't do this either and far from fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally the profiles with loads of verifications put me off because they're mostly exaggerated bull lol

And often when you look into them a bit deeper, they have all verified each other like a little fake veri circle."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

That request would make me change my mind about meeting someone

It's not something I'd expect a man to do either

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Hmm I kind of agree.

If I liked the person a lot I’d probably do it but I mostly wouldn’t bother. There’s so many other people on here who don’t ask for anything like that.

Also not fake btw

Don’t forget i said ‘if I had my doubts’, do you think any of your interaction with me would cause me to have my doubts? And as you say ‘if you liked me’, if we were getting on, and I said look “I’m really struggling to believe this is true would you mind doing this silly thing for me?” Would you not bother?

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Hmm I kind of agree.

If I liked the person a lot I’d probably do it but I mostly wouldn’t bother. There’s so many other people on here who don’t ask for anything like that.

Also not fake btw

The problem is, because I’m not fake it winds me up a little bit to be disbelieved, like I’m a liar. It’s not nice to be accused of being fake when you’re not (fakes don’t care). So it kinda puts me off once I’m accused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

But I'm not here to find a life partner and neither are the thousands of other men on here (probably/hopefully/maybe) so why would I think you would be special enough to do that for when I can just meet someone else?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

That request would make me change my mind about meeting someone

It's not something I'd expect a man to do either "

As would your response, but I guess that’s all part of getting to know someone, if you will get on or not, if you have similar values or not?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the pictures are the kind of thing you’d post on Instagram or facebook, then chances are someone stole them from those social media platforms.

If they have no verifications. And weirdly the one thing I always notice is how the house is decorated!

So many fakes have houses where the decor just doesn’t look right - American taps and light switches. Maybe the wrong type of furniture that you don’t see often here. Stuff like that.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If the pictures are the kind of thing you’d post on Instagram or facebook, then chances are someone stole them from those social media platforms.

If they have no verifications. And weirdly the one thing I always notice is how the house is decorated!

So many fakes have houses where the decor just doesn’t look right - American taps and light switches. Maybe the wrong type of furniture that you don’t see often here. Stuff like that."

Some of my nicest photos are from my holidays abroad. Usually in Greece. So non uk decor, plugs etc.

That’s not a way of telling.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We get this a lot unfortunately but it's getting less nowadays.

I'm sure people probably think we're fake at some stage. As all my face pics look different because I'm always changing my hairstyle hahaha. Plus most of our veris are from parties but that's due to fakes bailing on private meets. We can't always meet right away as we have a child

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

If that is the attitude you would be meeting me with, ‘meet me or I’m gonna meet the thousands of other men on here’ I’m hoping we wouldn’t have got that far..

I’ve never met anyone on here that I hadn’t thought an awful a lot about, I guess some are here for cheap nsa meets, but that’s not me.

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By *otwhenwetCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Right click Google image search in chrome and tineye helps but seems pic moderators don't use this themselves as we've had contact from a load of profiles, some not even new accounts, with pics taken from the web with a few guys even using well known internet fitness celebs as their images and they're all still on here. No wonder so many people get frustrated with the site.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

PMSL

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Hmm I kind of agree.

If I liked the person a lot I’d probably do it but I mostly wouldn’t bother. There’s so many other people on here who don’t ask for anything like that.

Also not fake btw

Yes I’m sure that is very annoying, and I guess the more attractive you are (in a non kissy arse way) the more you will be doubted, it would be very odd for a faker to come on here with a ‘dog ugly’ fake pics.

And I really am saying this is in a situation when I feel I’ve clicked with someone, after we’ve chatted, and for whatever reason something just doesn’t feel right.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Right click Google image search in chrome and tineye helps but seems pic moderators don't use this themselves as we've had contact from a load of profiles, some not even new accounts, with pics taken from the web with a few guys even using well known internet fitness celebs as their images and they're all still on here. No wonder so many people get frustrated with the site. "

Yes incredibly frustrating at times, I find tineye excellent and have caught a few out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Hmm I kind of agree.

If I liked the person a lot I’d probably do it but I mostly wouldn’t bother. There’s so many other people on here who don’t ask for anything like that.

Also not fake btw

And I really am saying this is in a situation when I feel I’ve clicked with someone, after we’ve chatted, and for whatever reason something just doesn’t feel right. "

How do you manage to click if something just doesn't feel right?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Fake or scam?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

Hmm I kind of agree.

If I liked the person a lot I’d probably do it but I mostly wouldn’t bother. There’s so many other people on here who don’t ask for anything like that.

Also not fake btw

And I really am saying this is in a situation when I feel I’ve clicked with someone, after we’ve chatted, and for whatever reason something just doesn’t feel right.

How do you manage to click if something just doesn't feel right?"

Quite simply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

If that is the attitude you would be meeting me with, ‘meet me or I’m gonna meet the thousands of other men on here’ I’m hoping we wouldn’t have got that far..

I’ve never met anyone on here that I hadn’t thought an awful a lot about, I guess some are here for cheap nsa meets, but that’s not me.

No threats at all, just hard facts. There are thousands of people on here looking for the same thing. I'm here for Nsa sex and if someone starts asking me to jump through hoops before we've even met then that gives me an indication of how demanding they'd be if we did meet, so it'd be a no from me.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG There's too many other people on here to have to bother jumping through hoops like that and I'd say no to you if you asked me to do that lol. I'm not fake though

If that is the attitude you would be meeting me with, ‘meet me or I’m gonna meet the thousands of other men on here’ I’m hoping we wouldn’t have got that far..

I’ve never met anyone on here that I hadn’t thought an awful a lot about, I guess some are here for cheap nsa meets, but that’s not me.

Perfect, we are in agreement

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By *oupleforfun31Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this.

That's cool , what do you use if you have an iPhone "

No idea sorry, don't think there's a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check profile verifications !"

Means nothing. Anyone can fake a verification. We've seen them lol. Just suggest a video call. That usually Sends them packing ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than your gut feel there isn't really a way. Take me for example: I won't send pics holding things or posing in requested ways, I won't do video calls and I don't have verifications (yet). Am I real or am I fake? I could bet my full year wages on what the majority would think (not that I'm going to).

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Check their verifications, then the verifications of those that verified them and then the verifications of those people make sure there are no patterns forming.

Then go to a club!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Check their verifications, then the verifications of those that verified them and then the verifications of those people make sure there are no patterns forming.

Then go to a club!"
Most definitely this

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By *riple SCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"If you have an android phone hold your finger down on an image until the menu pops up.

Then select 'search image in google'.

We find and report between 5-10 fake profiles a day using this. "

Google reverse image search. Fantastic tool, I've been using it for years

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By *riple SCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"for me the tell tale signs are:

1- been on here over two months with no verifications

2 - (sometimes but not always) the profile will be allmost like a facebook profile with lots of face pics etc etc. pics out with friends...

3 - always want to chat but never meet or they suggest a meet weeks away

4 - cant verify on other forms of media such as snap or kik

5 - generic or not matching pics. Uncut cock pics mixed with cut cock. Or pics that look like a pornstar"

Lol, three out of five described us in the first few months

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By *riple SCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I’ve yet to find a genuine lady or couple who have an issue carrying out this requests, the fakes will berate you for even having the cheek to question them

Fuck the fakes

HG"

Yep, we did this on another site, the whole experience put me if for a couple of years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think it's unfair tarring people with no verifications as fakes, what if they have only met people who are also unverified? Unverified people cannot vetify...catch 22.

I know the argument is go on cam or go to a club and get verified, but not everyone likes to go of cam - personally I find cam boring - or frequents clubs.

So, unverified profiles can unfairly be rejected.

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