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Why dont folk do thier home work on here

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes why dont folk do thier home work on here and read porfiles in full frist before then even message you and send photos.

Now your find that you get a lot of porfiles say no cock photos so why send a cock photo

Why when your porfiles say no sex talk at this stage then go right strigth in at the deep end and with full on sex talk you wonder why you get no where

Home work will get you a price so I say to folk do your home work

Why even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do homework still then you probably shouldn't be on here

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

How about blocking all Males and then you can do the searching for the ones you like without getting your inbox clogged up?

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think a list of does and donts its a waste of time. Let people message you, either delete message or politely say no thanks . I find it the easiest why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a list of does and donts its a waste of time. Let people message you, either delete message or politely say no thanks . I find it the easiest why"

^^This

The endless whining is so tiresome. This is a free site so expect it to be a free for all. The responsibility for what you want is yours, nobody else’s and expecting them to take the time to work you out on a hook up site is fighting the relentless truth. They won’t and they don’t with very few exceptions. Embrace the reality, take a humour and relaxation cocktail and carry on.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My homework for this weekend is spelling

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
over a year ago

belfast


"My homework for this weekend is spelling "

That was hard to read, wasn't it?

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"My homework for this weekend is spelling

That was hard to read, wasn't it? "

My head hurts

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Yes why dont folk do thier home work on here and read porfiles in full frist before then even message you and send photos.

Now your find that you get a lot of porfiles say no cock photos so why send a cock photo

Why when your porfiles say no sex talk at this stage then go right strigth in at the deep end and with full on sex talk you wonder why you get no where

Home work will get you a price so I say to folk do your home work

Why even"

The worst ones are those that say "I'm not far from you, fancy a meet?"

"Where is not far"? we reply.

They then give us a location that is hundreds (and in a few cases thousands) of miles away. Had they read the profile they would know exactly where we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To anyone that can't be bothered to read through this thread the general consensus is that people reccomend the best way to get a positive reply is if you send an unsolicited dick with "meet now".

Follow this advice and the meets will flood in.

You are very welcome gentlemen!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"I think a list of does and donts its a waste of time. Let people message you, either delete message or politely say no thanks . I find it the easiest why

^^This

The endless whining is so tiresome. This is a free site so expect it to be a free for all. The responsibility for what you want is yours, nobody else’s and expecting them to take the time to work you out on a hook up site is fighting the relentless truth. They won’t and they don’t with very few exceptions. Embrace the reality, take a humour and relaxation cocktail and carry on. "

You would probably be right about the so called "endless whining" if they would take no, or we only meet in clubs, or that we don't do cam, or the fact that we are not even in the UK, as an answer. Problem is that they don't.

They either want to drag you into an endless game of message ping pong, try to talk us into camming, or just keep asking the same (slightly reworded) question over and over again.

Then when we delete the massages and they get nasty and call us bad mannered.

We even had one who was actually local to us, sent us a message for a meet, we said we would happily meet in a club, he said thanks but I don't do clubs, so to clear up our inbox I deleted the messages. Five minutes later he sent us an abusive message for not replying. Replying to what FFS?

So yes, if it makes just one idiot on here actually read a profile then the "endless whining" is worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fucking start me on people not being arsed to read profiles.

It's my biggest pet hate.

Block, block, block, block, fucking BLOCK.

Aaaaaaaaaaargh!!!!!!

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby

It’s quite simple people tend to think they can get away with not reading but is so obvious when they don’t.

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By *ongleggedfemaleWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"My homework for this weekend is spelling "

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By *ntraditionalwomanWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"My homework for this weekend is spelling

"

Mine is sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes why dont folk do thier home work on here and read porfiles in full frist before then even message you and send photos.

Now your find that you get a lot of porfiles say no cock photos so why send a cock photo

Why when your porfiles say no sex talk at this stage then go right strigth in at the deep end and with full on sex talk you wonder why you get no where

Home work will get you a price so I say to folk do your home work

Why even"

Because they can’t be arsed

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I always wondered what happened to yoda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a list of does and donts its a waste of time. Let people message you, either delete message or politely say no thanks . I find it the easiest why

^^This

The endless whining is so tiresome. This is a free site so expect it to be a free for all. The responsibility for what you want is yours, nobody else’s and expecting them to take the time to work you out on a hook up site is fighting the relentless truth. They won’t and they don’t with very few exceptions. Embrace the reality, take a humour and relaxation cocktail and carry on.

You would probably be right about the so called "endless whining" if they would take no, or we only meet in clubs, or that we don't do cam, or the fact that we are not even in the UK, as an answer. Problem is that they don't.

They either want to drag you into an endless game of message ping pong, try to talk us into camming, or just keep asking the same (slightly reworded) question over and over again.

Then when we delete the massages and they get nasty and call us bad mannered.

We even had one who was actually local to us, sent us a message for a meet, we said we would happily meet in a club, he said thanks but I don't do clubs, so to clear up our inbox I deleted the messages. Five minutes later he sent us an abusive message for not replying. Replying to what FFS?

So yes, if it makes just one idiot on here actually read a profile then the "endless whining" is worth it."

Bless him.

You were supposed to invite him round for tea and forget the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s quite simple people tend to think they can get away with not reading but is so obvious when they don’t. "

I had some idiot the other day who had managed not to notice I was a size 18. So hadn’t read the profile but must not have looked at pics either. Given my profile pic I’m not quite sure how it could have passed him by.

That’s taking CBA to the extreme.

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Some that say "make sure you read my profile" then have page after page of utter nonsense listing everything from their favourite day of week, color, holiday destination, shoes size etc

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby


"It’s quite simple people tend to think they can get away with not reading but is so obvious when they don’t.

I had some idiot the other day who had managed not to notice I was a size 18. So hadn’t read the profile but must not have looked at pics either. Given my profile pic I’m not quite sure how it could have passed him by.

That’s taking CBA to the extreme."

How could he not look at your pictures there stunning one of the more enjoyable things is having a perv then reading what there after and then deciding whether to message hahaha

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby

The biggest mickytake is people that put read my profile or you will be deleted yet don’t ready your profile when sending you a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why anyone’s messaging you OP as you have no pictures? Surely you discount every single person messaging you as they are doing out of desperation anyway, block everyone, so you own searching and not have the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes why dont folk do thier home work on here and read porfiles in full frist before then even message you and send photos.

Now your find that you get a lot of porfiles say no cock photos so why send a cock photo

Why when your porfiles say no sex talk at this stage then go right strigth in at the deep end and with full on sex talk you wonder why you get no where

Home work will get you a price so I say to folk do your home work

Why even"

Because it's their fab life, and they will live it as they see fit, no matter how unsuccessful that may be.

(Oh, and they're twats)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why anyone’s messaging you OP as you have no pictures? Surely you discount every single person messaging you as they are doing out of desperation anyway, block everyone, so you own searching and not have the problem."

Out of desperation? What the fuck?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

It’s part of any site like this - some people are simply lazy and think they are owed something.

I can quickly tell if a guy has read my profile (I’m not having a go a guys, I happen to have everyone else blocked from messaging). If he hasn’t bothered I delete the message. If he tries again I block and delete. It makes ing out the asshats a little bit easier. So they’re kinda doing me a favour by showing their true colours immediately and saving me wasting time chatting to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why anyone’s messaging you OP as you have no pictures? Surely you discount every single person messaging you as they are doing out of desperation anyway, block everyone, so you own searching and not have the problem.

Out of desperation? What the fuck? "

It’s not blind date, we wouldn’t message anyone who had no pics, there has to be some initial attraction and why would we waste our time chatting to a no picture profile only to have no attraction when they finally send a message with pictures? a waste of energy and those doing it smacks of desperation

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