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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm struggling to come to terms that I'm bisexual has anyone else been in this position and how did they over come it

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By *iltshiregentMan
over a year ago

Calne

What makes you think that you are bisexual?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like I have no attraction to men but when it comes to seeing pictures of people cocks whether they are a male or TV/TS I kind of get turned on by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a couple like ourselves with who you can explore your bisexuality. You might find just wanking or sucking another cock is the limit for you, or on the other hand you may want to go further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a couple like ourselves with who you can explore your bisexuality. You might find just wanking or sucking another cock is the limit for you, or on the other hand you may want to go further."

I wish there were more like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find a couple like ourselves with who you can explore your bisexuality. You might find just wanking or sucking another cock is the limit for you, or on the other hand you may want to go further."

I think if I did explore my sexuality it would be with a couple as any uncomfotableness I could just resort back to male on female

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Just try to embrace it and maybe try to find men similar to yourself who want to see how it goes? I thought I was bi since I was 18, I only have had relationships with men...I tried to block it out for years and it kept coming back. It was the main reason I joined fab tbh.,luckily I have a very understanding partner and I've now fully embraced my bi side....

K (fem) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just try to embrace it and maybe try to find men similar to yourself who want to see how it goes? I thought I was bi since I was 18, I only have had relationships with men...I tried to block it out for years and it kept coming back. It was the main reason I joined fab tbh.,luckily I have a very understanding partner and I've now fully embraced my bi side....

K (fem) x"

I think because I have a girlfriend it bothers me how she will react I would never act on it while in a relationship but I'd hate for things to change because of it

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Yes that may be tricky...does she play on fab with you though? If she does, she may be more open minded than you think. If not, maybe you could hint at it while you're in the throws of passion that way, a positive feedback could be a win win, if she's negative then you could blame it on just fantasy sex talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes that may be tricky...does she play on fab with you though? If she does, she may be more open minded than you think. If not, maybe you could hint at it while you're in the throws of passion that way, a positive feedback could be a win win, if she's negative then you could blame it on just fantasy sex talk "

She not on here doesn't know about this and yes I could do that see how she react we never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still struggling to work out how i approach the subject with my wife...its the pure fear of her being freaked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me I’d find a bi couple who doesn’t mind playing straight. But just be open with them about how you feel and wants and go from there before jumping in with both feet.

I’m straight guy but we’ve have chatted to bi couples and get sort of turned on by it. so if we do meet a bi couple and some thing happens and I comfortable about it then game on but I wouldn’t just go with a bi guy to try it out but that performance.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We escorted as a couple for 7 years, and in our experience at least 75% of guys we met enjoyed some form of bisexual play, be it touching, wanking the other guy, sucking cock up to full pentration.

Our advice is embrace your bisexuality, explore it and be proud of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can do is try it when you feel comfortable and ready it. Just don’t rush into it.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I 1st suspected I was no when I was with a couple and realised how at ease I was so close to a guys cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your wife/girlfriend truly loves you and wants to be with you, she will love you no matter if you’re bi or not.

Sharing you with another bloke may be a different story, but you have to respect their wishes also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you wouldn't act on it while in a relationship but are you meeting females on here ?

Personally I'm with others if she loves you for who you are she wouldn't have a problem with you being bi. However she may not want you to share you with anyone so if your meeting people M or F maybe you shouldn't be in the relationship.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Firstly it’s nothing to be ashamed of and secondly why label it? You don’t have to claim the title of bisexual man just because you fancy a bit of dick now and then. How you feel sexually is your business. Although you really should be honest with your girl, you might be surprised

S (f)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glory hole maybe? Try without the pressure of being up close and personal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should never feel ashamed of what you are mate and in this day and age there is less stigma.

I was brave and came out in the 1990s when I was a young teenager and back then it was much worse with homophobia but I can assure you it is much better now.

I came out on the thought that life is too short to live a lie, one day you will be an old man (years fly quicker than we like) and did not want to look back in regret in wasted years. Think of it that way.

On here be honest too. Yes some women don’t go with bi but a lot of others do if you are honest, that is more important to them than anything. I still get a lot of messages from women and couples including straight couples, everything honest on my profile.

Good luck and myself and others here if you ever need to talk, on here or private messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you struggling? Stop listening to society and be yourself.

Nothing wrong with playing sexually with the same sex even if you would never have a relationship with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still struggling to work out how i approach the subject with my wife...its the pure fear of her being freaked out"

It isn’t easy. I did it earlier this year. It was very cathartic. I told her the story and how it all pieced together. We both cried a lot. I sobbed myself into catharsis as I let go of years of repressing it and the associated guilt and shame I felt. So far it has proved to be very healing and helped her too to open up about her stuff.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud


"You should never feel ashamed of what you are mate and in this day and age there is less stigma.

I was brave and came out in the 1990s when I was a young teenager and back then it was much worse with homophobia but I can assure you it is much better now.

I came out on the thought that life is too short to live a lie, one day you will be an old man (years fly quicker than we like) and did not want to look back in regret in wasted years. Think of it that way.

On here be honest too. Yes some women don’t go with bi but a lot of others do if you are honest, that is more important to them than anything. I still get a lot of messages from women and couples including straight couples, everything honest on my profile.

Good luck and myself and others here if you ever need to talk, on here or private messages "

I love this!! You are so right! Be you and live a happy life I say!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't last long did he

UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't last long did he

UNLOS"

Guessing he told the missus and it didn’t go well

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