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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems not many are willing to give a unverified guy a chance can you remember when you joined ?

We all need that person/s to show a little faith don’t we ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i female it was easy to get verified but yes i quite agree

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Get yourself to a club and they'll verify you, get the ball rolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a local group social meet or club if it's verification that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i female it was easy to get verified but yes i quite agree"
oops meant to say try a club or a local social if any about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined and within a week I had a meet that led to another and another and another.

However I needed to beg to get a verification from That person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a few unverified guys someone's got to be willing to give them a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m really conscious of that. Was on a year ago and got very but now they have left and the very can’t be seen. Just want someone to give me that chance

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've met a few unverified guys, so some people will give you a chance

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"We've met a few unverified guys someone's got to be willing to give them a chance."

Oh, snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... Not really, there are plenty of ways of getting verified.

It's no ones duty to meet anyone that they don't want to, especially not if it's just so that it makes it easier for them to get other meets.

Get to a social or a club and get chatting. I waited 7 months the first time around for a verification.

Tea

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We went to a club then joined here the people we met at the club then verified us. Simples.

Jo.Xx

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I was pre-verified by the couple who introduced me to fab . #hitthegroundrunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even look for that green tick anymore, it's all about the chat and the profile if I meet them or not. In fact I like being the introduction to fab ... hopefully a good one lol. I'm sure I'm not the only one

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We were lucky as it was a friend from the scene already on here that got us to join verified us when we signed up.

Never met anyone not verified I’m afraid don’t want to take the chance as we don’t get much time for meets as it is so don’t want the trouble of arranging one for it not to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many moons ago it was easier to get verified (thankfully that's long since changed) I won mine in a competition, Kelloggs ran at the time.

If you come with expectations of meeting anyone, often. Then it may be a long wait, enjoy it for what it is, otherwise you'll be disappointed and that's not the sites fault. There are many ways to socially meet people, if you apply the same skills you use off this site, to socialise with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd several social nights before first full proper meet. Depends on local scene whether that's an option. Central belt in Scotland used to have loads on, and lets you know some of the regular faces.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we went to a group social and got verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined (10 years ago now) I was verified within the first two weeks. Got bored and deleted though and all those woemn/couples have left the scene. Stick at it will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never bothered about the verifications. If I like the photo, profile and the conversation. I will meet for coffee.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I was cam verified It was very sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the comments and advice, it’s reassuring to read that some look past the fact people are new and will take the time to still chat, get to know and meet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

The day i joined Fab i got verified by 7 people as i had attended swingwrs clubs before to joining.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"We went to a club then joined here the people we met at the club then verified us. Simples.

Jo.Xx "

Wot we did lol

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Find a local social, people from there will verify that you are real

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I joined years ago but already had friends in the scene, so my first veris were from existing partners, swinging friends etc.

It's not difficult. Get cam verified in the chat rooms. Go to a social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been made aware of a Leeds social that’s taking place so I’m going to do my best to attend that, I wasn’t really looking for that but thinking about it I’m sure it’ll be a great laugh and great way to get to know new people

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

We met a couple in a club who told us about Fabs. We joined, found them and said hi. They sent us a verification before we knew what they were.

We have met guys at socials and clubs who we have verified, a couple of them, we have been there first verification.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We went to a club then joined here the people we met at the club then verified us. Simples.

Jo.Xx

Wot we did lol "

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and perseverance works be respectful and earn each other's trust and people are happy to meet you my first meet gave me a verification a year later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i first joined i got verified by the person who told me about the site, who I'd met from another site... didn't take me long to get more though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification has never bothered me when meeting men. It does with woman as so many fakes. But I've met men for socials who haven't been verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have never found it difficult to get verified the first time and I have left and joined. I think sometimes people would rather blame the lack of verification rather than their ability to engage and attract somone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I actually feel reassured by the comments, thanks for taking the time to share

I won’t change my approach it’s not my style I’m always just me

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Seems not many are willing to give a unverified guy a chance can you remember when you joined ?

We all need that person/s to show a little faith don’t we ? "

Years later i still need couples and women to give me a chance

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Seems not many are willing to give a unverified guy a chance can you remember when you joined ?

We all need that person/s to show a little faith don’t we ? "

Oh, they do. We all got our first verification from someone. IMO I don't think verifications are that important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do understand it to an extent as I’ve spoken to a few unverified and they suddenly just disappear or are desperate to swap kik names etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We i first joined that night myself and husband went to a club.

Our profile we had then was verified in the morning. Easy

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