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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interested to hear what actually got people into the swinging scene. Something you’ve always wanted to do? A partner/friend introduced you to swinging etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty talk during a sex session, that got out of hand

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By *ioletVixenMrBlueBiCouple
over a year ago

northwich

We got into it very gradually over a few holidays. Nipped into a sex shop in Cologne that had a cinema and got curious there so we went in and had a play with each other, noticed somebody was watching through the gaps in the door and got turned on by that. Then started looking at swinging, next holiday to Amsterdam we went to SamePlace and did soft play with another couple, and then the next time in Amsterdam did full swap and never regretted it

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

A long distance booty call that unexpectedly became an MMF. Quick introduction to FAB and 10 years (!) later, I’m still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wanted to see jane with a other guy spoke about it and she fancied one of my work mates. Took a deep breath and asked him he agreed and had fun with him until he got married

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Someone I used to see was on here ,I joined too many years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dirty talk during a sex session, that got out of hand "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone I used to see was on here ,I joined too many years ago."

Brilliant ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always wanted to see jane with a other guy spoke about it and she fancied one of my work mates. Took a deep breath and asked him he agreed and had fun with him until he got married "

Oh wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We got into it very gradually over a few holidays. Nipped into a sex shop in Cologne that had a cinema and got curious there so we went in and had a play with each other, noticed somebody was watching through the gaps in the door and got turned on by that. Then started looking at swinging, next holiday to Amsterdam we went to SamePlace and did soft play with another couple, and then the next time in Amsterdam did full swap and never regretted it "

That’s so hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A long distance booty call that unexpectedly became an MMF. Quick introduction to FAB and 10 years (!) later, I’m still here. "

Haha brilliant x

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Interested to hear what actually got people into the swinging scene. Something you’ve always wanted to do? A partner/friend introduced you to swinging etc? "

What about your introduction OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interested to hear what actually got people into the swinging scene. Something you’ve always wanted to do? A partner/friend introduced you to swinging etc?

What about your introduction OP? "

It’s something myself and hubby spoken about for many years in the bedroom as turned us both on loads...but then I brought home a female friend one day after a night out drinking and we ended up have a FFM we loved it and since then been thirsty for more x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) was in a sexless marriage and my wife sent me off to get it elsewhere because she wasn't going to provide. I went to a club and ended up finding a partner and kept going.

Years later following the breakdown of my marriage, I met Hannah online without any intention or expectation of starting a romantic relationship. I was honest with her from the start about my sexual history and she didn't run off.

Things ended up very romantic between us and she asked herself if she would want to be in a non-monogamous relationship and she decided she did, so here we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started off on Craigslist on the casual encounters section, met a couple for an mmf a couple of months later and never stopped. Then I messaged with a couple that introduced me to fabs and invited me to join the community, and here I am

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We spoke about our fantasies and how the wife would like to get with another women,we were told about the site by a friend and after debating whether or not to go for it for a few weeks here we are.we have met two lovely ladies since and enjoying our time on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend from college was doing work experience at the local hospital and she introduced me to an older woman who worked in the hospital’s admin department, we became close and she introduced me to swinging and that was 22 years ago. No longer in touch with either of them, life takes us in different directions.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

A hypothetical conversation lol and i came home one evening to find tash had made an account lol

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh


"Dirty talk during a sex session, that got out of hand "
This is exactly how we started.

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By *llenGTWoman
over a year ago

East/West Mids

My lover. Think he was tired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The BBC adaptation of Zadie Smiths book NW - Hence my username.

The first time I'd seen a black female swinger portrayed in a film.. up till then in my head at least it was a "white people thing"

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd

Nearly loosing Mrs Rmb to the grim reaper at the age of 38. After that we said fuck it life is way to short.. never looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My marriage had just fell apart and I was looking for company that didn't have strings attached to it. I met a number of people here, and then in real life found someone and knocked here on the head, it didn't work out and found myself back, albeit probably better adjusted to life as a whole having got some things out of my system over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a female friend of mine that got me into it, she also told me about this site a few years back now.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Until I met Mr B I hadn’t ever had decent sex and anytime if ever brought up fantasies or something out of the normal, boring sex I was shot down. Then this big bearded beast showed me the way and am I ever glad he did!

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I was horny.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I (fem) wanted to explore my bi side, Mr agreed lol and it has kinda progressed from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate signed me up, I wasn't interested to begin with, glad I stayed on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our second attempt... First one was all talk. Couple of years later but sex drive went a bit crazy and we talked about about fantasies. We were going to have a mfm but we met a couple instead. By that time Jimmy was excited and was more keen on the couple meet. We just like to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duchess of Pornwall has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (fem) wanted to explore my bi side, Mr agreed lol and it has kinda progressed from there "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until I met Mr B I hadn’t ever had decent sex and anytime if ever brought up fantasies or something out of the normal, boring sex I was shot down. Then this big bearded beast showed me the way and am I ever glad he did! "

Oh very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined on here to get laid

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Interested to hear what actually got people into the swinging scene. Something you’ve always wanted to do? A partner/friend introduced you to swinging etc? "

A colleague at work. We had a thing going on and she invited me to a club. The rest as they say is history

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interested to hear what actually got people into the swinging scene. Something you’ve always wanted to do? A partner/friend introduced you to swinging etc?

A colleague at work. We had a thing going on and she invited me to a club. The rest as they say is history "

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I always had a thing for group sex in my choice of porn videos.. and wanted to try it for real. . Had an mmf and then invited to a small gangbang/orgy through another swinging site and was hooked. .and then directed to Fab Swinger 6 years ago

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

She was on all fours giving me a BJ, I said wouldn't it be fun if there was another guy behind fucking her, she said she'd love that. After I asked if she was serious, she said yes and the rest is 13 years history of perverted fuckery around the UK. It's been a fun ride look

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We have always enjoyed naturist beaches so a few years ago on a trip to France we decided to spend a few days at Cap d'Agde. After watching the all out debauchery on the beach, and then enjoying being watched by others, we gave Le Glamour a try. We thoroughly enjoyed the experience, particularly as I had my first bisexual experience with a lovely woman in a dark room.

We came back to the UK, joined Liberty Elite and have never looked back.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Interested to hear what actually got people into the swinging scene. Something you’ve always wanted to do? A partner/friend introduced you to swinging etc?

A colleague at work. We had a thing going on and she invited me to a club. The rest as they say is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sandra enjoyed me reading sexy stories to her, from various adult magazines. It always made her soaking wet and led to really good sex. We then started watching porn videos together, with much the same effect. We discussed the videos, and Sandra admitted she liked the idea of another guy joining us

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby

Someone found a fabswingers business card while we were out and my curiosity got the better of me hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was out having a cheap meal one night in a Toby Inn (remember them) with an old friend (married someone else regrettably), and older couple on next table took an interest in us and thought we were a couple!

They were on hols. Conversation turned to things we do on hols, and then they said straightout, completely shamelessly, that they were passing through north-west on way to Lake District but were also swingers and were staying over to try a couple of clubs.

It didn't lead to much that night, though the man couldn't stop himself commenting on K and me, but it lit a flame for both K and for me all the same. Unexpectedly sexy time.

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By *innieMickyXXCouple
over a year ago

oldbury

Our started on a d*unkard weekend in Dublin!

Lots of alcohol n dirty talk and then a I did a cheeky line off his cock!!!

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

A prostate massage after a 2 day sesh with a woman who is one of my best friends. And she said she liked bi porn so it just went from there... my neighbour told me about fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to go out in the car because I liked the thought of being watched. Not dogging as such, just the thrill of being caught. It was a natural progression from there for us. Why fuck a guy or girl in a cramped car when we have a big bed at home

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